1946
2025
ELIDA - Judith (Judy) Ann Spayd, 78, was taken by the hand of Jesus on January 10, 2025, surrounded by her loving family, at St. Rita's Medical Center.
She was born in Lima, Ohio, on November 17, 1946, to Miller and Lilace (Glancy) Gossard, who preceded her in death.
She was a 1965 graduate of Perry High School, and she married the love of her life, Phil Spayd, on August 7, 2004.
She is survived by her daughter, Wendy VanBuskirk (Rod Williams); her stepdaughters, Kim (Bob) High, Cindy (Ron) Brenneman, and Tammy (Curt) Mooney; her grandchildren, Devin, Shyanna, Tanise, Nikayta, and Cadence and step-grandchildren, Ben, Ryan, Matthew, Josh, Rebekah, and Jacob; great grandchildren, Brayton and Elliot and step great grandchildren, Piper, Isaac, Anna and Adalyn; and sister, Diana Hover (Larry, deceased)
She was preceded in death by her son, Mark Neu; granddaughter, Kaylynn VanBuskirk; and step-granddaughter, Alayna Geiler.
Judy was employed at the Perry School cafeteria for 33 years and loved to go shopping or sit under her heated blanket, reading books or watching Hallmark movies. She was a former member of South Side Christian Church and later attended Lima Baptist Temple when she and Phil were married.
She is very loved and deeply missed by her husband, her family, and her friends, especially Bob & Gloria Davis, Donna Bowers, Patti Croy and Sandy Dunlap.
Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, January 15 at 11:00am at Chiles-Laman Funeral Home, Shawnee Chapel. Pastor Gary Hohman will be officiating. Burial will be in Memorial Park Cemetery following the service, where she will be buried next to her granddaughter, Kaylynn. Visitation will be Tuesday, January 14 2:00pm-6:00pm and one hour before the service.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Lima Baptist Temple or to the charity of your choice. Condolences may be expressed to the family at www.chiles-lamanfh.com
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Kris Osborn-Poland
January 16, 2025
Wendy- I send you my most sincere condolences. Your Mom was always smiling and so nice- unless she was hollering at Mark. We could hear that 2 doors down. :) May good memories sustain you. Kris Osborn-Poland
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Linda koeckritz. (Boyd)
January 14, 2025
Lovely lady always with a smile
Carleen Montgomery
January 13, 2025
Wendy and family. . . Judy was so kind hearted. She believed in people and loved deeply. She made it known what her family ment to her. . . .everything. We were all so blessed to have known her. You have my sympathies and prayers. Blessings to all of you. . . Carleen Montgomery
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