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Kevin Hannaford Obituary
He bent over to kiss his sleeping 2-year-old son. He patted the belly of his pregnant wife, and told her again that he loved her. Then Kevin Hannaford melted into the predawn darkness. That was the routine — reassuring, expectant — in one house in Basking Ridge, N.J.
Some three hours later, Eileen Hannaford was standing in the shadow of the World Trade Center's north tower, where her husband worked as a commodities broker for Cantor Fitzgerald, 105 stories above. The first plane had hit, she and other commuters had been evacuated from the PATH station below, and now she was frantically trying to reach him on her cellphone. Finally, she decided it was best to go to her office across town.
"If Kevin had been looking for me, which he would have done, he would have gone directly to my office," she reasoned.
Kevin James Hannaford was 32, young enough to enjoy playing soccer, mature enough to be an attentive husband and father. In the delivery room after the birth of Patrick two years earlier, he had thanked her for her friendship, and for their son.
On Jan. 9, four months after her husband died, she gave birth to their second son. He is healthy, wonderful, and his name, of course, is Kevin James Hannaford.
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on January 22, 2002.
Kevin Hannaford, 32, a love for sports
Kevin James Hannaford simply couldn't wait to try and impart his zest for life on his son, Patrick James.
Always the first guy on the slopes in the morning, Mr. Hannaford bought the boy his first pair of skis when he was just 18 months old.
Friends and family say it was typical of a father who relished nothing more than watching his Patrick, now 2, take his first steps or first awkward slide down a snowy hill.
On the morning of Sept. 11, Mr. Hannaford woke before dawn to leave for his job as a commodities broker for Cantor Fitzgerald on the 105th floor of the World Trade Center. His wife, Eileen, who is expecting the couple's second child in January, said she usually simply rolled over in the dark, but that morning got up to hug him good-bye.
"We hugged each other and told each other how much we loved each other, he touched the baby and said 'I love you, baby,'" she said. "I'm so grateful I got up and hugged him."
The 32-year-old Mr. Hannaford has not been seen since.
Born in Brooklyn, Mr. Hannaford lived in Walnut Creek, Calif., before his family returned to the East Coast and settled in Basking Ridge.
He and Eileen, acquaintances at Marist College, began dating while they both lived in Hoboken in the early '90s. They married on April 4, 1997, and moved to Basking Ridge two years later.
Mr. Hannaford carried a love of sports throughout his life, from his days on Basking Ridge's undefeated state Group 2 championship soccer team, to summers working as a lifeguard on Long Beach Island, to his weekly games with the Montvale Men's Soccer League.
The Rev. Michael Ward met Mr. Hannaford while living in Hoboken. Ward was working as an administrative assistant for Merril Lynch but was contemplating entering the seminary.
"He thought it was cool," said Ward, who now ministers at St. Cecilia's Church in Kearny. "He was very supportive."
Ward added Mr. Hannaford "truly loved life and he always put family first."
Mr. Hannaford also is survived by his parents, James and Nancy Hannaford of Basking Ridge; his sister, Elizabeth Saraceno, and his brother, Patrick Hannaford of Morristown.
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Heather Barr
September 11, 2024
Thinking of you and your family today and will
Never forget. My siblings and I went to Ridge high with you.
Heather Barr Greenlee
Dinky Newman
September 10, 2021
I promised him I would sell him my house one day.he was always so happy there..and WE were always so happy when we were with himhe and his family will live .with huge smilesin our hearts forever..we celebrate a life short lived.but oh so much cherished. Dick and Dinky Newman
9/10/21
September 11, 2015
Every year I like to leave a message so family and friends know their loved one is not forgotten. I didn't know you, but after reading your bio you seem like a kind person who was loved by many. May you rest in Paradise.
September 11, 2012
I will keep you in my prayers
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sharon
September 11, 2012
Eileen,patrick and kevin you are always on my mind on this day...never will l forget your kindness.
Sharon Jackson
Holly Smith-Dougherty
September 10, 2012
Dear Eileen, Patrick, Kevin, Beth and the rest of your families,
I grew up in basking ridge from the time I was born till I was 16. I knew kevin from Liberty Corner elementary to that middle school 5-6 and then I think William Annin if Kevin hadn't already transferred to private school.
Kevin was my first "crush". All the little girls adored him... Myself included.
As the years went on I didn't see kevin much. I had the great opportunity to get to know his little sister, Beth, at mt. Saint John academy. Beth.. I hope u remember! Friends with the Bradley girls...
I can't believe it's taken me 11 years to write to you. I was there on 9/11 and Cantor was a client of my firm. The devastation was and is unimaginable. Your loss, and having known kevin in his early years made the pain more real.
Eileen, while we've never met I think of you and your boys often. I watch Kevin's name being read every year and my heart breaks for all of you. You seem to be such an amazing mom, wife and friend! I hope someday we will meet.
On this anniversary, please know you are in my prayers as you have always been.
I know you all know you have a very special angel watching over you. I hope over the years your pain has eased to some degree.
With my warmest regards,
Holly (smith) Dougherty
Lionel Draper
September 12, 2010
A truly wonderful young lad, you will always be missed.
Lionel & Judith Draper
Patti/Henry Lauer
September 11, 2010
The Lauers keep Kevin James Hannaford and the family he left behind in our prayers and lighting a candle in memory for he and all who
lost their lives that day..
Hokan Ojert
September 10, 2010
On the evening prior to a horrible memory, I am calmed by the blessed memory of your smile and zest for life. Thanks for leaving that mark on my soul! Thinking of you Kevin!
Sheila Ryan
October 6, 2009
Kevin, I went to a retreat years ago and the Priest was talking about death of a loved one. He said there is only one word that you can say..."COURAGE." It takes courage to get through. I know that for a fact as my Dad died when I was 18. So, have courage and think of the word often.
Fernanda Co Worker (USAIG)
September 17, 2009
Hello Eileen,
It's been 8 years now and every 9/11 I remember you, Kevin and patrick. Every now and then, you creep back into my memory and I remember you. For me working across from your office at USAIG was always a pleasure, especially each time Kevin would come to the office to visit. I always enjoyed seeing the love that eminated from the both of you for each other. I hope you are well Eileen and it's amazing to think that your boys are now 10 and 7. How time has flown by! I try not to think back to that day, because so many haunting memories flash back. I have never gotten out of my head the image of you in the loddy sitting down, looking confused and worry. I remember asking you (like an idiot) if you were ok, not grasping that Kevin worked at the WTC and you looked at me and answered "Yeah!" The look on your face forever haunts me! Later that week when I saw Kevin's picture on the news as missing, it finally hit me and I cried so much, not so much for him but for you! You loved him so much, and to me you both were the perfect image of a truly happy and blessed couple. I dwelled on your loss, on how were you going to get through this, alone. I thank god for your sons, for they are your true blessings and strength through all this. May they continue to be blessed and may they grew up in thier fathers image.
Take care Eileen, may happiness find you through Kevins love.
Michael McGarrity
September 11, 2008
Dear Hannaford Family:
I was a classmate of Kevin at Delbarton. We shared many of the same classes. I remember his smile to this day. It is the evening of 9/11/2008 and I wanted to take a moment to reflect on a man I think of daily. I can tell you that I have relied on Kevin for pure inspiration many times over the last 7 years to keep me focused in my work. Kevin has been my cornerstone of passion for working counterterrorism at the FBI whether it be in in the United States or overseas working counterterrorism. Kevin and another class mate, J.P. Flynn who died on Pan Am 103 are men I think of everyday.
God Bless your family and the Flynn family, both families are in our prayers, and know Kevin continues to be an inspiration and will not be forgotten.
Michael C. McGarrity
Acting Assistant Section Chief
International Terrorism Operations Section
FBI Counterterrorism Division
Rich, Kerry, Emelia & Owen Maslanka
September 11, 2008
"He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man." ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Thinking of all of you today...God bless.
Hokan Ojert
September 11, 2008
Kevin,
Its been a long time since I wrote, but I can tell you that I think of you often. Eileen keeps us informed with her strong and committed work through your foundation. The boys are growing big and strong, you should be so proud of them. I miss you bud!
m. t.
August 18, 2008
You are in our hearts. I am so sorry for your loss. Kevin will never be forgotten.
Doug Overstreet
September 11, 2007
It is September 11, 2007. I will never forget.
Kevin had the gift of bringing a smile to everyone that he met.
Pat and Beth, I wish both of you the best.
Doug Overstreet
Ridge '88
Charlotte, NC
Brooke (Fenton) Morgan
September 11, 2007
Eileen, Patrick, Kevin, Jr, Mr. & Mrs. Hannaford, & Pat,
I've been thinking about you all today. I have been having these vivid memories of Kevin going to his Senior Prom. ( I was 2 years younger but we were all at the Edwardses for a pre-Prom party). Kevin was so cool back then with his red Converse high tops and his black tuxedo. :) He was a great guy. I am glad that our lives crossed paths. He will never be forgotten. Wishing you all peace.
All my love, Brooke
Robin Barry
September 11, 2007
Today is September 11, 2007...6 years after the horrible tragedy of 9/11/01. On that day like millions of others I watched in horror as the events of that day unfolded. I felt the sadness, the outrage, the helplessness like everyone else. But it wasn't until several months later that I found out that someone I had known personally had been tragically lost that day. My brother Peter, told me that Kevin Hannaford had been in one of the Trade Center Towers. Kevin Hannaford....the years went rushing back...Kevin Hannaford was a little boy...8 I think when I first met him and his sister Beth and little brother Patrick. They were one of my swim team families at the Pennbrook Country club in Bernardsville, NJ. One of my favorite families...Jim and Nancy were wonderfully devoted parents and the children were all adorable, very well behaved, enthusiastic, hard working, so much fun to be around. Kevin was one of the leaders of my 10 and under boys...a group of handsome, athletic, bright wonderful little boys that I don't think ever lost a single race in the 4 years that I coached them. They were winners...they worked hard and Kevin was always there leading the way. He was the kind of boy that you wanted your own children to have as their best friend...kind and considerate to others with a gleam in his eye and always ready to have fun. I could always see him as a father someday and I'm glad to read that he got that chance if even for too short a time. I never got the chance to know Kevin, the man, the husband, the father. To me he will always be Kevin, that wonderful little boy whose life was tragically cut short. I have been thinking of him and the others today. God Speed...All of our hearts are broken.
Rich, Kerry, Emelia & Owen Maslanka
September 11, 2007
Eileen, Kevin, Patrick and Family:
Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you today. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Barbara Rosenthal
September 11, 2007
Dear Eileen, Patrick, Kevin Jr. and to all the Hannaford Family,
Our thoughts are with you today.
We will never forget.
With Heavy Hearts and Love,
Barbara R. and Willow
barbara lo presti
January 13, 2007
I wrote you a few years ago....hope your wife and sons are fine...still think it was something so absurde..in a moment lots of human person lost their lives and remain forever in the sky...I know you're watching us...ciao kevin..
P Tabbernor
October 31, 2006
In remembrance....
Kristine
October 27, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Kurt Ebner
September 11, 2006
I had the pleasure of being a friend of Kevin's when he attended Cheshire Academy for a post-graduate year. I lost touch with him after he graduated and then ran into him again years later on the PATH train, as we were both working in the World Trade Center. He was such a great guy - always laughing, smiling and having a good time. He was such one of those people that brightened a room just by being in it. I don't think I have a single memory of Kevin where he wasn't enjoying life.
Eileen, Patrick, Kevin Jr. and the rest of Kevin's family - please know that Kevin is missed by so many, even those who he touched so briefly. I still think of him often and know that he is looking down on all of you.
Joelle Wiese [Davis]
March 31, 2006
Dear Hannaford Family -
I grew up in Basking Ridge and spent many years around Kevin, his parents and sister. I have many stories and memories from Delbarton, Antioch, Ridge and Mount St. John [some good pics too]. I don't think I ever saw Kevin after high school but I never forgot him -- he was a crazy kid and he had a good heart.
When I heard about Kevin's passing my heart just sank...when I heard that he left behind a beautiful wife who was pregnant and a son I was just speechless. I saw his oldest son, and his entire family, that Dec at St. James and started to tear -- his son looked so much like him. It is odd that every once in a while I think of Kevin -- we weren't real close friends or anything. It's just that Kevin was so full of life -- and when you were around him it was contagious.
The peace is knowing that Kevin is with God now. I pray for his wife and kids, parents and siblings frequently. Kevin touched different people in different ways, that was just another part of his mystique.
God bless all of the Hannafords! I am so sorry for your loss.
Patti (Knox) Lalley
September 16, 2003
Going back to September 2000, just 1 year prior to this horrible tragedy, I had briefly met Eileen and Kevin for the first time. Our children, more commonly known now as “Patrick and Bridget”, were attending the same daycare center. I didn’t know it then, but this handsome Hannaford couple were good friends with my brother, Tommy Knox. As a few months went by, my brother Tommy and Kevin were talking at their trading desk at Cantor Fitzgerald and Kevin made reference to a little girl in Patrick’s class named Bridget. So the light bulb went off and Tommy said to Kevin - “Hey – that’s my niece! My sister lives in Basking Ridge and I never made the connection until now”. And “OH – by the way – keep your son away from my niece” - of course in his kidding manner. Little did he know that at the ripe age of 4 years old, they are talking about getting married.
In August 2001, just 1 month before this horrible tragedy, I picked up my brother from the train station and he asked me to drive by Kevin and Eileen’s because he was going to borrow Kevin’s golf clubs for the day. This is my last image of Kevin – I pulled into their driveway and saw him and Patrick having a blast washing his car. This was my one and only time to have had a little conversation with Kevin, and it seemed so easy because his personality was so much like my brother. When we drove away, I said to Tommy – “he seems like a really great guy.” and he said “yeah – he’s a great friend.”
Coincidentally, I also learned that Eileen and I attended the same high school – but I am slightly older than her and we missed being at the Mount together. I am now friends with her because of this awful tragedy, and I truly wish it wasn’t under these circumstances. My family and all of the Hannaford’s now have this new found friendship because we understand each others pain, without even having to say much, sometimes the hugs are firm, as if to say “Hang in there – Be strong!” I wish our families were friends not because of what happened to Tommy and Kevin, but under different circumstances – like having them here to enjoy some good times together with all of us.
I know these two "great friends" are together and they will be forever with us in our hearts and in our memories. I also know that God's hand is on their shoulders reminding them that it was not in vain, and he holds them close not just because they deserve it, but because they make him laugh.
I continue to pray for strength for all of those left to carry on. God Bless You All!
Christopher Roche
September 12, 2003
I met your brother Pat yesterday in Hoboken. I can assure you that a lot of people miss you dearly.
Rest in Peace.
Chris
Pat Connolly
September 11, 2003
To the family of Kevin,
Unfortunately, I made the horrible discovery of Kevin's passing just a few months ago. You see, I worked for 6 months with Kevin at Exco in the WTC and parted ways with that company some 5 years ago. I eventually decided to join the FDNY and as fate has it, started my first day on the job on 9-11-01. I was ever so fortunate to make it out alive with my brother that day. In the year and a half since that terrible day, I came across that picture with that amazing smile and knew immediately that it was of my friend Kevin. Kev, you look like a JCrew model, and I always told you that. You were always dressed impeccably and you coifed hair always was perfect. You appearance matched your persona...perfect. I always made fun of you when you had the Subaru Outback as a single guy but knew it served you well with all your outdoor pursuits.
To Eileen, and the rest of Kevin's family...my deepest condolences go out to you. I truly miss this friend of only 6 months. I would love to help out in any way possible and if the boys would ever want to stop by my firehouse, I will give the best tour that could ever be given. On this day where we rememeber so many great people, I pray that you are doing well and know that you have another friend in the world who loved your husband/dad/sibling.
Very sincerely and with a heavy heart,
FF Patrick Connolly,
FDNY Ladder 16, 157 East 67th street, NYC
646 295 6464
Wende Kremer
September 11, 2003
I never knew Kevin, but my husband Brian did. Brian played soccer on occasion with Kevin and their good friend Doug, while Doug and Brian were at Scranton. We came to Kevin's memorial service two years ago, and I thought my heart was going to break right there on the spot. Kevin, by all accounts, seemed to embrace life with both hands, and live it to the fullest. Those of you who knew him, were very lucky indeed.
As we were leaving Kevin's service, I took with me one of his memorial cards, as it seemed the thing to do. I placed the card in my day planner, somewhat absent mindedly. However, two years later, that's where it remains, and will remain for as long as I can imagine. Everytime I see Kevin's smiling face, it makes me smile. Everytime I take that card out to read the back, it gives me pause, and a moment to reflect on my own life, and how I too must grab it by the horns and live it to the fullest. Kevin was one month older than me, so I often think of his life, as mine.
To Kevin's family and friends, we are with you today. But know with a smile, and warmth in your heart that Kevin is with us today, and EVERY day. May God bless you all.
Warmest Regards,
Wende Kremer
Rob Kumpf
March 19, 2003
Dear Mrs. Hannaford, Patrick and Kevin:
I have met many people through my Dad and his Police Department, I never expected to met people because of something like what happened a year and a half ago. In the begining of this whole thing I only knew one family, the Farrells, but I soon got to know you and Patrick. It is an honor for me to call you friends, it really is.
The last time I saw you was on 1/12/03, at Kevin's birthday party. I was having a great time, I met the famous Father Mike Ward. I left the party early to respond to a working fire in my town. Sadly, I was once again reminded who fragile life is that night.
You guys have all shaped my life. Thank you for that. Oh, and how does that Golf cart work Patrick?
- Rob Kumpf
Joseph Faraldi
October 8, 2002
I knew Kevin and Eileen at Marist but was better acquainted with Eileen because we lived in the same dormatory. My memory of Kevin was that he was a very outgoing and funny guy. Looking back now, his and Eileen's personalities were a perfect fit.
Eileen, I can't describe the sadness I feel about this tragedy and how it's affected you and your boys. As I'm writing this the tears are flowing. It's hit all of us in varying degrees...
If you're reading this, please know that my wife Allison and I are here if you need us, whatever it may be. If we can help add a little silliness, happiness or wonder to the lives of your boys, we're here for you. Or, if you need to talk to someone, don't hesitate.
We can be reached at:
732-451-0340
The Faraldi Family
502 Dorothy Place
Brick, NJ 08723
I frequently think about you, Kevin and the boys, and my friend Doug Irgang who was with Cantor. Take comfort in the fact that Kevin is in Olympia, in Paradise, and is watching over his family with the love of a father, husband and friend.
You are in our prayers always.
barbara lo presti
September 20, 2002
I really hope you are in a better place watching your wife, and children, and guide them through their lives, so sorry for what happened, so sorry for not have known you..you must have been a wonderful friend for me...
Melissa
September 13, 2002
While I never had the pleasure of knowing Kevin, I did graduate with his younger brother, Pat, from high school. The way so many describe Kevin in this triubute is how I remember Pat- loving life! I have thought of you all so many times since 9/11/01 and can only imagine the devastation you and the rest of your family must have felt.
I still have family up that way and visted the WTC site this past 4th of July. You and your family were prayed for at that site and have been prayed for many times since 9/11/01. May God Bless you and your family and may Kevin watch over you all forever.
Rich, Kerry & Emelia Maslanka
September 12, 2002
Eileen,
Not a day goes by that we haven't thought of you, Kevin and the boys. Your strength and resolve is amazing and a source of inspiration. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you each and every day.
Kevin was a very special person to so many people who were lucky enough to know him.
All our love - Rich, Kerry & Emelia
Michael John O'Hara
September 10, 2002
Ill make sure I say a prayer for you and your family tommorow. God bless you soul.
Vicky DeVito
August 31, 2002
Dear Mrs. Hannaford and Sons,
Our family will have the priviledge of praying for your husband Kevin during this upcoming week of the anniversary of 9/11. Our church has obtained the names of all of the victims of the tragedy. Names are taken from a basket by the parishoners during each Mass. The slip I picked had your husband's name and identifying information. We immediately looked him up on the Internet which led us to this site. I'm sure your husband was a wonderful man and our family is truly sorry for your loss. I hope knowing that he will be getting additional prayers will somehow bring comfort to you. We have placed his picture and the slip of paper from church alongside the picture of my beloved father-in-law who passed away 2 years ago on 9/2. He too, is sadly missed and was loved very much by his entire family. A lighted candle burns perpetually in his, and now Kevin's honor. May God hold you and your children in the palm of His hand and provide you with the comfort and strength that you need. May Kevin rest in peace and know that he will never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
John and Vicky DeVito and children Lisa and Anthony Wright
Joyce Rejtmar/Tyrrell
August 22, 2002
Dear Kevin,
I said a prayer for you on August 9, 2002 when my husband and I visited the WTC site. I was your 3rd grade teacher at Liberty Corner School many years ago, and I still remember you as the kind, handsome, fun-loving child that you were. From the many entries in this guest book, you hadn't changed.
My mother still lives in Basking Ridge. She went to your memorial, and gave me one of your pictures which I carry in my wallet.
May you rest in peace.
Kelly Sprague
July 30, 2002
Aunt Nancy, Uncle Jimmy, Eileen, Patrick and baby Kevin,
I want to say that I am sorry for your lost. When Aunt Nancy would come over and meet my mom and Aunt Celia for lunch I would try to avoid talking to her, don't know why but I felt alot of guilt. I was in the 2 World Trade Center and it is hard to speak to people that lost someone close to them, when you were there also. I always think that they are thinking why did she get out and not my love one. Unforunately Kevin didn't have a chance like I did, and I am sorry.
I just want to let you know that you are in my prayers always, and I know that Kevin will be watching over the boys and guiding them in the right direction. They will be so proud of their father when they hear the stories of what a great guy he was, if they haven't already.
Love,
Kelly
trish straine
July 16, 2002
Eileen and family,
After reading all the entries for Kevin, I felt I had to add my own little story (which I have already told your mother-in-law). My family spent many, many summers in Beach Haven and my youngest sister KK used to hang out with Kevin's brother, Pat. In fact one night back in 1993 (or '92) my husband Jimmy and I watched KK and Pat kiss under a streetlight. The youth and innocence back then! As you know, Pat and Kevin look so much alike that Jimmy and I knew who Kevin was, just from meeting Pat. Jimmy and I would see Kevin around all the time in Hoboken - on the street, at Ted and Jo's and many more places. I'm sure I would recognize you if I saw you too. But I have to say that I wish we had gone up to Kevin and introduced ourselves because we would have been the lucky ones to have had him in our lives. I feel cheated that we didn't ever get to know him while he was here. I read all the entries and got such a good sense of what an incredibly wonderful man Kevin was.
My husband worked at Cantor also and was there on that dreadful day (he should have been home with our second son Charlie who was only 6 days old). I bet when Jimmy got up to Heaven, he looked right at Kevin and said "I can't believe you are here too. Let's have a beer." Lesson learned for me - it can never hurt to make a new friend, even if you seem like a total dork going up to a stranger to say hello.
Our angels are watching over us now and it is our job to make them proud and raise their boys to be good men like their dads. I think about you all a lot and wish you peace, love and strength.
S Kennedy
June 15, 2002
Eileen,
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you or pray for your happiness. I knew Kevin and his family a long long time ago....I never knew him as well as I wanted...I can tell you I remember he was always surrounded by friends, always laughing...and Everyone wanted to be around him because he was always having the BEST time...no matter what he was doing.
I would have loved to have known him better. I never have had the pleasure of meeting you but I have heard wonderful things about you, your strength and how much you love your boys. I loved that you named them Patrick and Kevin. I hope one day our paths will cross.
You, Kevin and the boys are always on my mind.
Sue Regan
June 12, 2002
June 11, 2002
I looked at my clock at 8:46 this morning and I couldn’t believe that exactly nine months had passed since September 11th. It seems like just yesterday that I heard that Eileen and Kevin were expecting their second child and we were trying to coordinate schedules to get together. This tragedy is still so unbelievable - I feel as though we will soon wake up and Kevin will be walking in with a smile on his face.
Kevin – You are missed greatly and thought of every day.
Eileen – You are an amazing example of strength and grace.
Patrick & Kevin, Jr. – I know that your Dad will always be watching over you with love and pride.
My prayers and thoughts will always be with the Hannaford and McGinley families.
With love,
Sue Regan
Chris Hatton
May 30, 2002
Kevin,
May God bless you and your family. May you nkow the peace of God and may your children grow up with knowledge that their father was a greeat and loving man. Although we only knew each other for a brief time and I havn't seen you in some time since moving to Boston, I will always remember you. You and Harry together were a great team and going out with you guys was always a treat.
I now have 2 kids who are almost identical in age to yours and I think of your two boys often. I'm sure they will grow up to be great men.
Again , God Bless.
Michael Iezzi
April 22, 2002
Father we entrust our brother Kevin to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever
Jennifer Walsh-Cunningham
April 15, 2002
I met Kevin along with Doug in the summer of 1988. One of my High School friends dated Doug at Scranton and we all met at a party at the house they rented on Bay Ave. on LBI. Doug and Kevin were lifeguards in Beach Haven with my best friend, while I worked on another beach patrol. What amazing memories I will forever have of those summers - parties, The Ketch, Softball Games and a roadtrip to Scranton in the fall. Fun was an understatement. The years passed, we graduated from college, and ended up working in New York. I worked across the street from Kevin and would occasionally bump into him on the street or at Morans, or in Hoboken with Doug, where we all lived. Time passed and our lives went in different directions. I knew Kevin had married and moved out of Hoboken, but I would occasionally (and still do) bump into Doug there. I last caught up with Doug along with Mark Mahon when I was nine months pregnant. As usual I laughed a lot. When the horrible events of September 11th unfolded, I happened to be at a safe distance, on LBI. My husband and I were staying with my parents while I was adjusting to being a new mother, after the birth of my son less than 2 weeks previous. At the time, I had no idea Kevin worked at Cantor (where a cousin of mine did). About a week later, my Mom showed me the front page of the "Beach Haven Times" where it had a story on those connected to the island who were lost on 9/11. She asked if I knew any of the people in the story. It mentioned "former lifeguard, Kevin Hannaford, and the Mother of the Edwards brothers." My heart sank in disbelief. Having lost touch with Kevin years ago, I feel like I don't have the right to feel as I do that he is gone - but I do. He had such an amazing presence, and he is often in my thoughts. I suppose that is why I have written here. I never met Eileen, but I think of her often as well. I hope and pray that she is going to be OK, as well as Patrick and their new son, Kevin. I am positive that Kevin's presence continues to be with them, and will be always.
The Gallagher Family
March 31, 2002
All the Gallagher family really enjoyed meeting Kevin when he came over to Ireland. We hope his memories will stay with us as they are all happy memories.
Hokan Ojert
March 29, 2002
Kevin,
I was blessed to have the opportunity to share so many moments with you! As Doug's best friend you came and visited Scranton often...so often you participated in some of our intramural games. I remember times on Friday nights when you would walk into our house, with a case of beer under one arm, and a load of enthusiasm and joy under the other. I always envied your joy for life and good natured attitude. You continued that joy and enthusiasm as you matured into adulthood, fatherhood, and husband-hood...alright, maybe not adulthood, but thats what I loved about you! You were a great father, husband, and friend...I miss you.
Hokan
Lisa McConville
March 28, 2002
It has taken me a long time to find the right words to say here.
Kevin -
I am proud to have been your friend. I am so glad to have shared such regular, every day, nothing to say much about times with you. I am lucky to have shared some very memorable times with you. I am heartbroken watching my husband ache at the loss of his dear friend. I am filled with happiness when I remember walking into Ted and Jo's to meet my then essentially blind date (and now husband!), knowing you and Eileen were there to make the first date go smoothly. I am honored to call you my old landlord. I have great memories of living with Doug in your awesome apartment - complete with some minor flooding issues! I, most of all, loved knowing how much you loved and how much you were loved back. You and Eileen were a perfect role model to teach Tom and I how to be married and how to treat one another with the respect of a friendship and the love of a mate.
I am so glad you were at my birthday party, Kev. It was the last time I saw you and the first time I met Patrick. He astounded everyone by how perfect he is. Right down to how he sat at the table and ate with his little utensils like he'd been doing it for years.
Kev - I will miss you. I will miss your sexy wink! I will miss your laughter no matter how dumb the joke. I will miss your energy and your passion for life.
I know we are guarded by another angel now, although it doesn't quite seem fair. Drink lots of beer, take care of all of us from above and know that we are loving you from across the universe.
Joe Ratto
March 28, 2002
The first time i met Kevin was when i was forming a men's soccer team in Hoboken, Kevin replied to an ad i posted in a local pub. What a find he was, a great soccer player always had a great smile on his face we shared car rides on Sunday Morning to the soccer games. Kevin and I remained friends years after the soccer team (Moran's) folded, saw him and his buddy Doug sharing a beer after work on fridays. I rememeber the last time i saw him in Hoboken he was telling me that his lovely wife had just given birth to Patrick and i could see the glow on his face how happy he was. Kevin was a great person always asked me about my kids. I miss you friend, God Bless you.
Joe Ratto
JOAN (FRIEND) COMANDO
March 28, 2002
THE FIRST TIME I MET KEVIN WAS AT WORK WHEN HE CAME TO MEET EILEEN. THEN EILEEN AND KEVIN GOT ENGAGED AND I HAD THE HONOR TO BE AT THEIR WEDDING APRIL 4TH (5 YRS. AGO). EILEEN AND KEVIN ALWAYS HAD A SMILE AND SOMETHING NICE TO SAY. EVERYTIME KEVIN CALLED EILEEN HE HAD SUCH A HAPPY ATTITUDE. THEN EILEEN AND KEVIN HAD ADORABLE PATRICK. HE IS 2 1/2 NOW AND WILL BE 3 MAY 12, '02. THEN LITTLE KEVIN JAMES HANNAFORD WAS BORN JAN. 9, 02. UNFORTUNATELY, KEVIN WILL NEVER MEET HIS FATHER, BUT IN MY HEART I KNOW KEVIN IS WITH EILEEN, PATRICK AND KEVIN ALL THE TIME WATCHING OVER THEM AND LOVING THEM. LOVE, JOAN
Mark Hannon
March 27, 2002
Dear Eileen, Patrick, and Kevin jr.,
My memories and friendship with Kevin span several decades, and many special moments. From playing soccer together as children to going through our junior and senior high school years. After high school, it was off to LBI during the summers in order to live life as fully as possible. There were so many great times spent with all of our friends, Doug, Ted, Mike, Duffy, Kevin….and Kevin always had an open heart, giving nature, and love for his friends. Over the years, time and responsibility would take us each in our own direction, and then throw us back together from time to time. I saw Kevin on Thursday, September 6th and it was as if no time had passed. We laughed and spoke about the things going on in our lives, and how Kevin had truly found happiness in his. We made plans to see each other in the near future so that I could catch up with Eileen and meet little Patrick. The mark of a true friend is when someone is as genuine and caring at that moment as they always were, as the passage of time has not changed their character. Kevin had this quality, along with many more wonderful ones. I miss him dearly, and think of him often. Kevin will live on in our memories forever, and his spirit is evident in Patrick and Kevin jr.
Sarah Weaver
March 26, 2002
Mrs. Hannaford,
I have never been formally introduced to either you or your husband. I, however, get tremendous joy each day of the school week spending time with Patrick at TCC. He is such a sweet, kind natured, intelligent, talkitive, imaginative and energetic child. Everyday I am greeted with his hands on his hips saying "Hi Miss Sarah, want to play?". This is a child who has been granted unconditional love, respect, nurture and happiness. Every beautiful smile he has, and he has a lot of them, shows this.
I am truely sorry for your loss. And I thank you for allowing me to rejoice for the new life you have in Kevin Jr. and relish in the wonderful boy you and Mr. Hannaford created in Patrick. Thank you.
March 26, 2002
Eileen, Patrick & Kevin, Jr. Our Prayers and Best Wishes are with your daily.We can only imagine what you are feeling. Kevin was a Wonderful Husband & Father. You were a Special Couple. We watched as you both brought your adorable Patrick (a special little boy) to church.His behaviour was admirable as was his parents. We now watch you as you continue the work you and Kevin began. He is also watching you, little Patrick and now baby Kevin. He is so happy knowing that he left his two babies in such good care, He is still assisting you from above. God will bless you and Patrick and little Kevin. You are the strenght and model of all parents.
God bless. A admirer/friend.
Jan Woodard
March 24, 2002
Dear Eileen..
I came to know you through the Painting For America program. This program came was born following the tragic events of 9-11-01 and is run by the Tolefriends Painting Community. While I have never met you, I do consider you to be a very special friend. I hope to meet you one day in person and give you a for real hug. For now, all I can give you are cyber hugs. I never knew your Kevin, but I know enough about him to know that he was very special. I will soon be receiving my mercy band that bears his name. I will be wearing it everyday. I hope you know that even though we are miles apart and know each other only through email at this point in time, I will always be here for you and for your boys.
Yvette Maglio
March 24, 2002
In your loving memory Kevin,
I didn't know you as well as I would have liked. I know you were a terrific person just by how happy you made my dear friend and how much love you gave to her. You know Eileen and your sons are loved deeply. You are now their angel shining down upon them from Heaven.
Dearest Eileen,
We've know each other for so long. I always looked up to you, and not just because you were so much taller then me. You don't always have to be strong. I'll always be here for you, to listen, to cry, to laugh or even to swap "raising boys" stories. You and the boys will always be in our prayers.
Patrick and Kevin Jr,
You can feel all the love around you. You have a very special mom who will love and support you and raise you in your father's love. I look forward to watching you grow into the wonderful men your father would be proud of.
Love always and forever,
Brian, Yvette, Joey, Eric & AJ
Susan Vaughn
March 24, 2002
Eileen, these past months I have had the honor of getting to know you and the incredibly strong and beautiful person you are. All from a gift of a mercy band bearing the name of your dear husband, Kevin, which I wear proudly every day. I met you on January 10th, in the hospital where you brought your precious baby boy, Kevin, Jr., into this world with strength, love, and dignity. I carry Kevin's picture in my wallet, and I carry a heartfelt friend in you with me always. I wish that I could have known you and Kevin before this tragic day, and I pray that you find strength and healing in all the love that so many desire to provide you and your children. I love you, Eileen. I promise a lifetime of friendship, love, caring, time, and sharing of family pictures. I hope that we become closer over time as friends and can share in the joy of watching our children grow up. My children, Sarah, Matthew, and Glen, are anxiously awaiting their first trip North to play with Patrick and Baby Kevin. You are forever and always in our thoughts and prayers. We are here for you 24/7. "Thank you Lord for giving Eileen the strength, wisdom, and your eternal grace to continue to live after facing such tragedy. Please, Lord, continue to give her all the resources necessary to care for her and her dear children. May You bless them with an angel on their shoulders, and may Eileen always remember mostly the exceptional life and happiness that she shared with Kevin, and the life that forever lives in their baby boys, Patrick and Kevin, Jr. Kevin is watching over you Eileen, and I know he is protectin you and glowing with pride. Blessings my friend.
Siobhan Fuller-McConnell
March 23, 2002
Although I only met Kevin a few times, I've known Eileen since about 1978. Eileen is one of the strongest women I know. Growing up, Eileen never had a bad word for anyone. She was always the one to support everyone else, and to jump in with something good to say when everyone was upset. When I met Kevin for the first time, I could tell that he and Eileen were very much in love. He was so good to her. They visited my home for my child's events (I have 5 children and I don't remember who or for what), and he was so good with my two oldest boys. I remember them laughing and playing together, and I thought, "he'll be a great dad, someday." The one time I saw him with Patrick, it was obvious that my prediction was true. I love Eileen and her two children dearly, as does the rest of my family, especially my grandmother. Kevin will always be remembered as a loving husband and father. May God bless him, Eileen, and their two beautiful children, and may be watch over his children from Heaven above throughout their lives.
Love,
Siobhan, Michael, Derek, Kellina, Ryan and Sean McConnell
Beth Doherty
March 11, 2002
Dear Hannaford Family,
I never got to meet Kevin but heard only good things about him. I am Charlie Doherty's wife. I know Kevin's Mom and Dad. I can't begin to imagine what it is like to lose a loved one in such a manner but I hope you know that so many share your pain. May Patrick and Kevin know their father through all of your happy memories and may those memories comfort you in your times of sorrow. Our thoughts, love, and prayers are with you always.
Love,
Charlie, Beth and Charlie
Kathy Collins
March 11, 2002
Dearest Hannafords:
I'm a friend of your Kevin's dad, Jim, who has been my good friend though these past 11 years since moving to Basking Ridge. Quietly watching and listening to you all in St. James at the funeral graced me with your strength and obvious care and love for one another, so I share this with you out of my respect and admiration. The death of another beautiful person like Kevin prompted me to write the following poem.
These thoughts are generated from years of dyings and grievings. The
painful events produce a hollowness of longing within my being. Deaths of loved ones -- the young, the old. Why do they now all converge, cutting this gray spirit of mine deep into fresh crevices of unsubtle despair. How do we go on with enjoyment? Where is our security? We cannot tread assuredly on the path of this uncertain destiny.
Yes. We can, I suppose; -- we do; don't we? It's all part of the journey. How do we bear it? It will happen and happen until there is no more..
Until it is each of us.
Fill the hole with the glad moments as they unfold. See the flower; listen to the bird, hear the wind; forget the pain. Stay with the flow of life.
It's the vehicle, the single ride we're on. The shortness of it is a
travesty as our loved ones leave. The sole answer to our solitude is to be together as we continue separately the journey. Surely we will all arrive there, if not together, then, alone.
I know together you are strong - maybe sad but not defeated.
sincerely,
Kathy Collins
Suzanne Doherty
March 11, 2002
Kevin,
You are missed very much, and thought about constantly. Even though we did not know each other as well as we could have. I am glad that you were my cousin.
Eileen,
You will always have a friend and someone to lean on in me.
Love,
Cousin Sue
simon perry
March 7, 2002
I hope you know how much and in how many different ways you are missed.
Jeanne Reinig
March 7, 2002
Kevin,
Although I never met you I feel like I know you. Eileen is my buddy from the St. James Bereavement Group. I promise that I will continue to be her friend and to be there for her whenever she needs me. All of us from the group have a special bond which will help us to move forward. I know that you and my husband Tom will continue to watch over us and give us the strength we need to go on with productive lives for ourselves and our children.
A Friend
March 7, 2002
Eileen,
Your strength astounds me everyday and I know that Kevin watches over you always. I will never forget each and every time I saw him look into your eyes. He was, and always will be a very lucky fellow...
Jeff Alper
February 5, 2002
I knew Kevin from playing soccer with him the past few years in Montville. He seemed to have the whole game in perspective. He'd play as hard as anyone but never let the wins or losses get to him. My last memory of Kevin is from our game of Sept. 9th. I was walking off the field behind him. He had Patrick on his shoulders and was talking to his father-in-law. We had a beer in the parking lot and talked about some plans he had for his house. As Herb Schraft from our team said after Sept. 11th, "We may have 11 on the field but we'll always be playing a man down".
Chrissy Shannon Wolfe
February 1, 2002
My thoughts and prayers are with Eileen, Patrick, Kevin Jr. and the rest of the Hannaford and McGinley family. I am floored by your strength. Kevin will never be forgotten. God Bless
January 31, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL YOUNG FATHER AND HUSBAND KEVIN JAMES HANNAFORD AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HIS WIFE ..CHILDREN..FAMILY AND FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01.KEEP YOUR CHILDREN CLOSE AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY
ST.JAMES AND JESUS MEET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
The Rev. Jose Bove
January 24, 2002
Kevin, I just read about you in the New York Times list "Remembering" and I was deeply moved. I salute you, young brother, and send your wife and two little children my heartfelt condolences. To you, sir, rest in the peace of our Lord. Good man, rest and know that you live in the hearts and lives of your loved ones.
tim mcinerney
January 23, 2002
eileen,
i was never lucky enough to know your kevin. obviously, he was a great man, though, and i'd have been lucky to have him as a friend. i'll pray for all of you
Linda Cambria
January 15, 2002
I will always remember the Spring Lake 5 mile run--Kevin did this every year.And of course the party after at his Aunt Kathy`s house..
Kevin will always be in our hearts..
Much love goes out to Eileen, Patrick, and baby Kevin and all the
Hannaford family..Many special Memories--and the Jersey Shore Bike Rides...
Love, Linda Cambria ( Family Friend)
Megan & Kevin Gunn
January 8, 2002
Our hearts and prayers are with you each and every day. May you find warm comfort in the memories of Kevin and they way he lived his life, as a husband, father, son, brother and friend.
Teresa Jahn
December 30, 2001
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Paul McVeety
December 24, 2001
Merry Christmas to you Kevin . I can not begin to explain my sadness..
I will forever miss you my friend...
God bless you and your family...
Tom McConville
December 11, 2001
Kevin:
Every time I've wanted to write something about you, the words haven't come. Every time I wanted to speak about you, I close my mouth and stay silent. Every time I hear your name, my heart sinks a little lower. I feel all these things because I can't sum you up. I can't sum up all the times, all the laughs, all the wonderful memories. I can't sum up all that you gave to me. I can't sum up the special moments: the weekend road trips to Scranton, the soccer games with you and Doug, the time we "deactivated" the Rolling Rock with Pat, Doug and Jim Grace, the day of your wedding to the beautiful Eileen, the parties, the nights out, the wonderful friendship. While I can never sum you up in these words, I can say this. Kev, you are still a great friend, you are still one I can always count on, you still are the husband, father, brother and son we are all proud of. In short, you still are, and will always remain, the Kevin Hannaford that brought undeniable joy and life to others.
Love you my friend.
Sean Gallagher
December 10, 2001
Eileen, Patrick and Baby Hannaford. The date Sept. 11, 2001, will live in my memory forever. In the days following, I watched, Eileen, as you refused to lose hope, as you showed a strength and courage that was a marvel to all of us priveleged to know you. Kevin will be with us forever. I can tell you that this dark Winter of pain and suffering will pass, but the love and memories will never fade. Your cousin and friend, Sean
Barbara Tulko
December 7, 2001
There aren't adequate words to express the sorrow I, and the whole world feels as a result of the events of September 11th and although life goes on, there will always be a void in everyones' hearts for not only the people we knew who perished in the tragedy, but for every innocent victim and all of their loved ones. Please don't ever think, for a moment, that Americans and people throughout the world have forgotten
or will forget to pray for you and the one you lost. To the family of Kevin Hannaford whom I had the pleasure of knowing...Kevin will live on in our minds, and a part of him will always be here in his son, Patrick and his soon-to-be-born child. God Bless You !
Susan Vaughn
December 5, 2001
I didn't know Kevin, but I am wearing his name on a sterling silver mercy bracelet bearing his name. To his dear family and friends, his wife Eileen, To his son Patrick, and his precious baby on the way....you are all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless You all and Be With You. Love, Susan Vaughn
pete mcconville
November 30, 2001
Kevin was one of 3 good friends I lost at Cantor Fitzgerald on September 11th. While I miss them all terribly I have some very special memories of each.
My memory of Kevin is the most recent. In July my brother threw a surprise party for his wife. Kevin attended, bringing his 2 year old son Patrick with him. There were a bunch of little kids at the party and I noticed how Patrick was in the middle of all the action, having a blast in the process. I also noticed that Kevin was right by his side, having just as good a time. I mentioned this to him and he laughed and told me that he was psyched that he had a kid that loved to have fun. I told him Patrick was like that because his father was like that. All he did was smile.
Kevin was the type of father I hope to be. Fun, smart, enthusiastic, loving. Its why he was a terrific friend.
Eileen I miss him a ton.
Kathleen Fitzsimmons
October 11, 2001
Condolences and prayers from a fellow resident (part-time) of Basking Ridge. You are in our hearts at this terrible time of loss and sadness.
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