Kimberly Jo Schoenhaar

Kimberly Jo Schoenhaar obituary, Madison, WI

Kimberly Jo Schoenhaar

Kimberly Schoenhaar Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 7, 2025.
Kimberly Schoenhaar passed away at age 57 after a long and courageous struggle with chronic illness and pain. She was known for her warmth, unwavering empathy, and fierce love for her daughters.

A gifted vocalist, dancer, and musician, Kim was also a Speech Language Pathologist who devoted her life to helping others communicate and thrive. She was passionate about social and environmental causes and brought compassion to everything she did.

She is survived by her daughters, Sarah and Kristi; her former spouse and close friend, Kelsy Schoenhaar (Lisa Schoenwetter); her siblings Judy Davis (Bob), Martin Milas (Jill), and Jim Milas (Bonnie, deceased); her sister-in-law Paula Milas; and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her brother Michael Milas and her parents, Evelyn and Henry Milas. She also leaves behind her friend and former partner, Tom.

In Lieu of flowers, contributions to support Kim's daughters are gratefully appreciated at gofund.me/724aba12.

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July 18, 2025

Sarah posted to the memorial.

July 13, 2025

Lisa N. posted to the memorial.

July 13, 2025

Cassie Johnson posted to the memorial.

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Sarah

July 18, 2025

I met Kim (and her amazing daughters) through her dear friend, Tom, who I know loved her very much. Kim came with Tom often to support the volunteer work we did for Strides for Africa and Feeding Mouths Filling Minds, and she was always so happy to learn about our work and support us. She had that kind of aura that was pure-hearted. She was kind and generous and I can feel how missed she'll be. Peace to you, gentle Kim. May you rest easy and know somehow that you left a beautiful mark on this world.

Lisa N.

July 13, 2025

Kim was a gentle soul who brought calm and kindness to every room. She lived with quiet strength and a peaceful heart, offering comfort, compassion, and steady love to those around her. Her presence was grounding, and way of life inspired others to slow down, listen, and lead with grace. Though she is no longer with us, their peaceful spirit will remain in the hearts of all who knew her.

Cassie Johnson

July 13, 2025

My deepest condolences for the infinite amount of amazing souls that have all been blessed with the sunshine Kim brings with her; eternally in spirit. Having the honor of being with, speaking with, sharing the warmest, most sincere embraces and dancing while making music with Kim is a gift that keeps on giving. My heart and sincerest gratitude and condolences to her family and loved ones could never be summed up into words... Kim´s love is everlasting as she continues to be a guardian angel and spirit guide for us all. The love will never seize to be in bloom and bring me joy, as the heartfelt memories will never be forgotten... All of my love

Kerry Lynn Shea

July 13, 2025

Kindest human bean I´ve had the pleasure of knowing. Your dancing, distinctive laugh & smile is greatly missed. Flying free from pain, your beloved family & friends will be dancing with you in spirit.

Kris Hughes

July 12, 2025

Sorry for your loss. I knew Kim in high school. I attached some pictures I had from long ago. She was a good friend to me in school. We kept in touch through facebook. Wishing your family peace through this difficult time. Kris Hughes

Patty Penner

July 9, 2025

So sorry to hear of her passing today. May she be peace and free from pain at last and have a swift and easy transition. Prayers for all her family members and friends.

Talib Akbar

July 8, 2025

My condolences to the Family !

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July 18, 2025

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