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Laurence Decker Obituary

Laurence Decker Sr.
Laurence Decker Sr., age 83, of Thomaston, CT, passed away peacefully on Saturday, June 21st, surrounded by the love of his family, reunited with his beloved wife, Carol, who predeceased him in 2001.
Born on June 5, 1942 in Torrington, CT, he was the son of the late Raymond Decker and Theresa (Marinkas) Decker. He retired from Petit Tool and Manufacturing, where he was known for his sharp mind, strong work ethic and dedication.
Larry was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and brother. He cherished raising his family and creating memories in the house he built on Walnut Hill Rd in Thomaston. He and Carol loved traveling, especially their trips to the casino and time spent exploring new places. Summers were filled with vacations to Hampton Beach and neighborhood picnics with the Stones and Duffanys.
He loved coaching his sons in Little League and flag football and enjoyed watching his children play sports. Whether in the stands, on the sidelines, or the dance recitals of his daughter, he was always there with quiet support and encouragement. He especially cherished his role as a grandfather-he deeply loved his grandchildren and took great pride in their accomplishments-both in sports and life. He was a UConn fan and enjoyed watching the men's and women's basketball teams.
Larry shared a special bond with his brothers, enjoying regular rounds of golf and bowling nights. Their laughter, camaraderie, and shared stories were a constant source of joy and strength throughout his life.
Larry is survived by his three children, Charlene Scarpati and her husband Joseph of Prospect; Laurence Decker Jr. and his wife Tracy of Thomaston, Lance Decker of Torrington; and his five grandchildren Erica DeCasanova (Jon), Joseph Scarpati, Kylie Decker, Nicole Decker, and Madison Decker.
He also leaves his brothers, Raymond Decker and his wife Daisy, Gordon Decker and his wife Bernice, Walter Decker and his wife Charlene, Lee Decker (Joyce), his sister Patricia May; as well as several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother Terry.
Laurence will be remembered for his steady presence, his love of family, and creating wonderful and lasting memories with family and friends.
Calling hours will be held on Saturday, June 28, from 9:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at Lyons Funeral Home, 46 High Street, Thomaston. A funeral service will directly follow at 12:00 p.m. at the First Congregational Church in Torrington, with burial at Hillside Cemetery in Torrington.
To leave notes of comfort for Laurence's family, please visit his tribute wall at www.lyonsfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Republican American on Jun. 24, 2025.

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Donna #

July 7, 2025

Mr. Decker was the kindest man. I hope his family finds peace and healing. God has brought his angel home to be with his wife. Fly high with the angels. You will be missed by many.

Karen Jacques

June 28, 2025

Dear Larry , Tracy and family.
I just learned of Mr. Decker's passing. He was a kind, soft spoken man that loved his family very much. May he rest in peace and may you find comfort in the many memories you shared with him/

William Caprio

June 27, 2025

I remember the drives to our Grandparents (an hour away) visiting and seeing all my Aunts and Uncles and cousins etc during the holidays, these were happy memories in a time where simple things were cherished, like popcorn on a string, baseball games where all the uncles played even with their neighbors.
I remember the BBQ picnics down back of the house in the woods, past the outhouse, lol, where there was a nice fire pit and tire swing.
Those summer evenings created fond memories listening to 45s on a record player.

When I was told about uncle Larry’s passing it hit hard. It hurt.
I love my Aunts and Uncles you have been loving, caring, funny, and compassionate.
Larry I will see you again someday my Uncle

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Memorial Events
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Jun

28

Visitation

9:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Lyons Funeral Home

46 High Street, Thomaston, CT 06787

Jun

28

Service

12:00 p.m.

First Congregational Church

835 Riverside Ave, Torrington, CT 06790

Jun

28

Service

12:45 p.m.

Hillside Cemetery

76 Walnut St, Torrington, CT 06790

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46 High Street, Thomaston, CT 06787-1513

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