LaVonne Lois Wilhoite

LaVonne Lois Wilhoite obituary, San Marcos, CA

LaVonne Lois Wilhoite

LaVonne Wilhoite Obituary

Published by Allen Brothers Mortuary, Inc. - San Marcos Chapel FD-1378 on Aug. 27, 2016.
LaVonne Lois Wilhoite passed away on Aug 27, 2016 at the age of 88, surrounded by family and friends. Lavonne was born in Clinton, Iowa, Nov 26, 1927 to Alice Henrietta and Charles Ralph Sullivan. She was the oldest of six children. LaVonne graduated from Clinton High School in 1945. She remains friends today with some of the girls she worked with at her first job at the phone company as an operator. In 1950 LaVonne visited her Uncle Bert in California and met her husband Jesse James Wilhoite who worked with her uncle at United Airlines. LaVonne and Jesse married July 2, 1951 in Las Vegas, Nevada. Upon marrying, they moved to Hawthorne, CA for the next 40 years where they raised their 3 children. LaVonne worked for Aerospace Corporation, retiring after 25 years. She and Jesse moved to San Marcos, CA in 1992 to be close to their sons and grandchildren. LaVonne loved God and her Savior Jesus Christ her whole life. She volunteered for her church in many positions. LaVonne was preceded in death by her husband of 52 years, Jesse James in 2003, daughter Pamela Jane Gibler in 1981, sister Evelyn and brother Eugene. She is survived by her sons - Jesse Alan (wife Debra) and James Lee (wife Karen); 7 Grandchildren - Amy Elizabeth (husband Shaun) Hoak, Samantha Jane, & Kristen Diana of Temecula, Jesse Walter, Colton James (wife Yesenia), Kimerick Pamelyn, and Maxfield Alan of San Marcos; 2 great grandchildren - Tessa and Audrey Hoak; sisters - Judy (husband Jerry) Coates, and Velma (husband Harold) Campbell of Iowa; brother Jerry Sullivan of Georgia; many nieces and nephews; and her beloved poodle Daisy. Her services will take place on Thursday, Sep 8. Viewing at 1PM. Service at 2PM. Allen Brothers Mortuary, San Marcos. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory can be made to the Salvation Army or the San Diego Humane Society.

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September 8, 2016

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September 7, 2016

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Julie Hernandez

September 8, 2016

LaVonne was truly an ambassador of Gods love, grace and hospitality. Always greeting everyone with a genuine smile and a warm hug. She will truly be missed. Thrilled to see her again someday in heaven.

Nancy Valdes

September 8, 2016

I'm missing her, but I see her dancing! A treasure on this earth, A dear friend, spiritual mama, her light will be sorely missed. I will choose to remember every time she patted a cheek or hand, and bestowed that tender mother/grandmother's blessing,and smile for what she deposited in me each time she did it! Until we meet again

Susie Hernandez

September 7, 2016

In my heart and memory, LaVonne will always be one of God's beautiful creatures. So full of grace, kind and loving. That special person who wanted to make your world a better place. And she did effortlessly. I adored her distinctive infectious laugh and her fancy for colorful yet elegant clothing. She will be dearly missed by all who new & loved her. I certainly will. My love to the family, may peace be your guide. Love Susie

Adam & Dani Arnold

September 7, 2016

LaVonne always had the biggest smile on her face. She was sweet and very loving. We can't wait to see her again!

Susan Jones

September 7, 2016

LaVonnes spirit will live on in those of us whose hearts and lives she touched with her genuine love and kindness. Our hearts will miss her, but we can smile knowing she's in the arms of Jesus!

Debbie Odash

September 6, 2016

LaVonne was a wonderful person who had much love for those around her, especially her family. We went to the same church and I always saw her greeting others with her infectious smile and her love. I will miss seeing her, however, I feel in my heart I am a better person because she was in my life for many, many years. May God comfort her family during this time of loss.

Linda Weber

September 6, 2016

LaVonne was so loving and kind. I was privileged to see her last October at her grandson's wedding. She so enjoyed life and spending time with friends and family.
Linda Weber, sister of Debra Wilhoite.

jenny ihm

September 6, 2016

Lavonne sounds like a wonderful woman who led a full life. I pray that she is now surrounded by past friends and loved ones.

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