Lieutenant General Richard Edward Carey (Ret.)

Lieutenant General Richard Edward Carey (Ret.) obituary, Dallas, TX

Lieutenant General Richard Edward Carey (Ret.)

Lieutenant General Richard Edward Carey Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Aria Cremation Service and Funeral Home - Preston Road on Apr. 30, 2025.
Lieutenant General Richard Edward Carey, USMC (Ret.), Beloved Husband, Father, Grandfather, Great Grandfather and Decorated Marine Corps Leader, passed on to our Lord on April 25, 2025.
General Carey a devoted family man, decorated combat veteran, and visionary leader, passed away peacefully at age 97. Born January 10, 1928, in Columbus, Ohio, his father instilled in him the values of service, integrity, and perseverance that would define his life.
His remarkable journey began in 1945 when he enlisted in the Navy's V-5 aviation cadet program. He soon found his calling in the United States Marine Corps, rising from sergeant to second lieutenant by 1948. His early years were marked by courage under fire as a rifle platoon commander in the Korean War, where he fought at Inchon and the Chosin Reservoir and was awarded the Silver Star for gallantry, continuing to lead his men despite being wounded.
After recovering from his injuries, he earned his wings as a naval aviator in 1953. He went on to command multiple squadrons and groups, flying every aircraft in the Marine arsenal and completing 204 combat sorties in Vietnam. His leadership and vision were instrumental during pivotal moments, including commanding the 9th Marine Amphibious Brigade during Operation Frequent Wind, the evacuation of Saigon in 1975. He later served as commanding general of the 2nd Marine Aircraft Wing and the Marine Corps Development & Education Command at Quantico, shaping the future of the Corps until his retirement in 1983.
The General's legacy is reflected in his many personal decorations: the Silver Star Medal, Legion of Merit (with gold star), Distinguished Flying Cross, two Bronze Stars (with Combat "V"), 15 Air Medals, the Purple Heart Medal, the Joint Service Commendation Medal, the Presidential Unit Citation with two bronze stars; the Navy Unit Commendation Medal with one bronze star; and the Meritorious Unit Commendation. He played a key role in developing the Marine Corps Marathon, helping it to become a beloved national event. Other notable accomplishments; he was on the original committee to bring the National Cemetery to Dallas, he was on the committee to bring the Fisher House to the Dallas VA, he helped organize the DFW Honor Guard to provide funeral honors at the DFW National Cemetery, which also helped the KIA's returning home from Afghanistan and Iraq, by meeting them at the airport and escorting them to the funeral homes. He helped organize and get ready for the Iraq Veterans Van Program which picked up the wounded Iraq & Afghanistan Veterans and take them to their doctor's appointments. He was instrumental in repurposing the old National Guard building by opening the Veteran's Resource Center to serve our homeless Veterans with an employment center and a welding program to retrain our Veterans to get them integrated back into the workforce. He was the leader on the North Texas Veterans Stake Holders Committee, which helped get better healthcare at the Dallas VA.
Beyond his military accomplishments, He was a loving husband to his late wife, Dena, with whom he shared more than five decades of partnership, laughter, and unwavering support. Together, they raised seven children instilling in them the same values of honor and service that guided his own life. He was a proud grandfather to eight grandchildren and six great grandchildren who brought him immeasurable joy and who will always remember his stories, wisdom, and gentle humor.
He earned a Bachelor of Science in business administration from George Washington University, believing deeply in the power of education and lifelong learning. He was known for his humility, generosity, and the deep care he showed to everyone around him, from fellow Marines to neighbors and friends.
Lieutenant General Carey's life was one of service to his country, his Corps, and most of all, his family. He will be remembered not only for his bravery and leadership, but for his warmth, kindness, and the lasting impact he had on all who knew him.
Pre-deceasing Lt. General Carey was his wife Dena, daughter Melody, and son Michael Ramsey Carey. Survivors include daughter Tamara Solum (Jan); sons William (Julie), Paul (Cindy), Robert (Janet), Michael Scott Carey; sisters Barbara, Linda, Carol; and brother Gerald. Also surviving are 8 grandchildren and 6 great grandchildren. Grandson Cole Carey is a US Navy F-18 pilot.
Funeral services will be held at Prestonwood Baptist Church in Plano on May 5 at 10am. Burial services with full military honors will be held at Dallas-Fort Worth National Cemetery at 1:30pm. Memorials can be made to Marine Corps Scholarship Foundation, Veteran's Resource Center (link below) or a veterans' charity of your choice.
Semper Fidelis.
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Arrangements under the direction of:
Aria Cremation Service & Funeral Home
19310 Preston Road
Dallas, TX 75252
(972) 480-3792
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September 3, 2025

Ted Mosure posted to the memorial.

July 30, 2025

William Houze posted to the memorial.

July 19, 2025

G K Noteman, MGYSGT USMC Ret posted to the memorial.

Ted Mosure

September 3, 2025

My name is Ted Mosure. I serve as the President of the Ohio Military Hall of Fame. Our mission is to honor veterans born in and/or entered the service from Ohio and who have earned a medal for valor in combat. Leading up to this year's May 2nd ceremony at the Ohio Statehouse, I had the privilege of communicating with and meeting Ms. Barbie Cordier, whose husband, Ken, was inducted posthumously into the OMHOF Class of 2025. Ms. Cordier reached out to us to make us aware of Lt. General Carey's recent passing and recommended that Gen. Carey be considered for induction. General Carey was born in Columbus, Ohio. With his Silver Star award for action in Korea, he would be eligible for induction. I am reaching out to contact family members regarding their interest in pursuing this honor for General Carey. I can be reached on my cell (614) 560-9158 or email at [email protected]. Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss.

William Houze

July 30, 2025

I was a young Marine PFC stationed at NAS Dallas when I first met Lt. General Carey. He was a Major then, the Operations Officer, and I was the Operations Clerk. I found him to be a Marine's Marine. He treated his staff--two Captains, one Gunnery Sergeant, and me--with respect and exercised what I would deem appropriate authority at all times. It was an honor to know him and to have served under his command. Semper Fi. Viet Nam Veteran (1965-1966), Da Nang.

G K Noteman, MGYSGT USMC Ret

July 19, 2025

A great Marine and great leader. I technically served under the general´s command as a snuffy LCpl during 1975 in "Operation New Life" with the 3rd Marines. In 2002 his son Paul served along side me in Operation Enduring Freedom. It is truly a small Marine Corps world. My sympathies to the Cary family. Semper Fidelis

Ted Barker

May 22, 2025

Hal and I were saddened to find out about the passing of General Carey. We were notified by Alan Mesches May 22, 2025. Alan is the author of The Flying Grunt, the Story of Lieutenant General Richard E. Carey United States Marine Corps,(Ret), . We were honored to meet General Carey at a repatriated Chosin Marine in the summer of 2019 where we found out that the General knew our father, Ltc Edward L. Barker.

Photo taken at funeral of PFC Grady Jack Crawford Jig Company M Battery 11th Marines.

R.M. 'Zeb' Zobenica

May 5, 2025

It was a privilege to share a Ready Room with squadron leader, Dick Carey.
Memory Eternal
Semper Fi
R.M. "Zeb" Zobenica, Capt. USMC (Ret)

Richard L Amato, Cdr

May 3, 2025

As the Commander of Plano´s Casey Joyce All America Post 4380 Veterans of Foreign Wars of the United States, it has been an honor and privilege to have LtGen Richard E Carey as a Life Member of our Post. He was the epitome of what our military leaders should be, a combat-tested hero with the insight of the enlisted and officer ranks. LtGen Carey supported all the VFW Posts in our area as a great speaker, author and role model for the rest of us. Our Post is proud to call him a Comrade. Rest in Peace, Sir. Semper Fi!
Richard L. Amato, Cdr
Casey Joyce All America VFW Post 4380

Carol A. Richards

May 1, 2025

Dick's Marine legacy will be remembered for generations to come. I was extremely proud of him. When I was younger and he would come home to visit in Ohio, whether it be personal or for business, Mom and I would pick him up at Rickenbacker Airport. I was always so proud of him watching him land or take off in his plane with his flight gear on. Mom would always fix him lovely meals, and sometimes he would bring his military friends along, so they would also enjoy Mom's great cooking. Dick was very appreciative. When I got married, he walked me down the aisle. I think everyone was looking at him more than me, as he had on a short white tuxedo jacket with all his medals, very Handsome! Kelly and I visited Dick and Maudine several times during his career. We visited while he was stationed in Hawaii. He took us out for a great dinner and to see a performance by Don Ho. It was a lovely evening. My kids and I visited him while he was stationed in Quantico. He got us special passes to visit areas of the White House that aren't normally viewed. My kids have never forgotten his kind and generous ways, nor will I. When Kelly passed, he attended and presented me with an American flag for Kelly's military service. My last visit with Dick before he became ill, we had many nice talks about the family, OSU Football, the Dallas Cowboys and Trump. I will miss him Greatly. He is no longer suffering and has reunited with his love Maudine and children. Rest in Peace my Dear Brother. You will never be forgotten, always remembered. Love you Dearly, your sister Carol.

Linda Zangardi

April 30, 2025

It was an honor to know you, especially because you´re my best brother ever I loved visiting you many times taking care of you cooking for you and our long talks that we had together. I am so proud of your legacy. You were an overachiever and excel and everything that you did your military background and everything that you went through when you were in the service was outstanding I couldn´t be more proud of you. May you rest in peace and now you´re with your loved ones God bless you love your sister, Linda.

Barbara Jean Powell....AKA as Bev

April 30, 2025

I was so very proud of you. You have left a wonderful legacy to your family. You will never be forgotten and will always be in my heart. Now you can rest and be with your loved ones. No more pain or sickness. Rest well my beloved brother. With all my love,your sister Barbara(Bev).

Duncan W. McCausland

April 30, 2025

Rest in peace, Sir. Thank you for your service. Semper Fi. Sincerely, Duncan W. McCausland, ACC (retired).

David E. Davenport

April 30, 2025

To a true American hero. Your sacrifice will never be forgotten!
I'm honored just being friends with your son Robert. Semper Fidelis

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