Lillian Ash

Lillian Ash obituary, Spotswood, NJ

Lillian Ash

Lillian Ash Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Spotswood Funeral Home - Spotswood on Jan. 2, 2026.
Lillian Ash, 97, of Spotswood, passed away peacefully, on Friday, January 2, 2026 at HMH Old Bridge Medical Center, Old Bridge.

Born and raised in Brooklyn, New York, Lillian also lived in Old Bridge, East Brunswick and Union Beach before settling in the Clearwater Village Community of Spotswood in 2001. For twenty years, Lillian was a bus driver, first with Rapheal Bus Company of East Brunswick, where she was the first woman who operated a school bus, and then with Academy Bus Lines of Middletown, where she operated a commuter bus on a scheduled New York City route to the Port Authority Bus Terminal in Midtown Manhattan. Lillian was an avid fan of country music and recorded a CD of her own songs. During her many trips to Branson, Missouri, Lillian and her husband, Evan, met many of country music's biggest stars. She was a past president of the Spotswood Seniors and she enjoyed setting up bus trips to Atlantic City, dinner and theater trips and holiday parties.

Predeceased by her sons, Edward J. and Richard Hansen, her sisters, Kathleen Tortu, Margaret Stokes and, Edna Cafiero; her brothers, Albert, Phillip, Thomas and Edward Lowerre and, her great-grandson, Charles Puschel, IV, she is survived by her husband of 45 years, Evan Ash; her daughters, Veronica Kozloff and her husband, Paul and Mary Puschel and her husband, Fred Scofield; her step-children, Debbie Giganti, Eva Marie Tramontana and her husband, Vinny, Evan J. Ash, Jr. and Reka Ash; her grandchildren, Keith McGregor and his wife, Joy, Margaret McGregor and her significant other, Barry Woodbeck, Charles Puschel and his significant other, Kristi Vientos, James Puschel and his significant other, Becca Zanchuk; Step-grandchildren, Andrea Frankshun and her husband, Bryan and Anthony Giganti, and; great-grandchildren, Colton McGregor and Kira Vientos.

A private cremation was entrusted to Spotswood Funeral Home, Spotswood.

Donations honoring Lillian's memory may be made to: John J Carney VFW Post 4589, 33 Daniel Rd., Spotswood, NJ 08884.

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January 4, 2026

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January 4, 2026

Maggie Ryder posted to the memorial.

January 3, 2026

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Eileen Solomon

January 4, 2026

Aunt Lil, you will be missed. You rescued me and my siblings when my mom was deathly ill and needed open heart and back then it wasn't as common. We were all scared and you came all the way to Fla to get the 5 of us and drive us back to your house NJ. Thank you for taking us in and caring for us. Tell my Dad I say Hi and give him a hug from me. Be at peace, I love you, little Eileen.

Maggie Ryder

January 4, 2026

Lillian, thank you for all of the love and care during important years of my life. You helped give me a memorable childhood. Love you always.

John & Helene Vento

January 3, 2026

Grief can be so hard, but your special memories will help you cope. Remembering Lillian fondly today and praying for her family. RIP Lil...

Sue Forrester

January 3, 2026

I'm so sorry for your loss. Aunt Lily was an amazing woman, always laughing and always loved to make others laugh. Heaven is in for a challenge now that all 4 Lowerre girls are together again. RIP Aunt Lily and my condolences, love and hugs to the family

Joy Johnson

January 3, 2026

Lillian was a good neighbor, and I will miss her. My condolences to Evan and her entire family.

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