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Lillian Cole Obituary
Lillian H. (Taylor) Cole, of Danbury, wife of the late Clifford Cole, died on Tuesday, December 2, 2025, in New Milford. She was born in Danbury on July 9, 1934, daughter of the late Frank and Lillian (Cornell) Vallely.
She will be missed by her two sons, John G. Cole, Sr., and James Cole (Nicole); her grandchildren, Stephanie Campbell (Russell), James, Meaghan and Mason Cole, Jordan Gibson and her eldest grandson, John G. Cole, Jr. (Christina), who she raised; and three great-grandchildren, Alyssa, and Blayne Cole, and Lillian Campbell.
A graveside service will be held at a later date. There are no calling hours.
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Deborah Cole
December 24, 2025
John, my condolences for your loss, mom's are our first best friends and love us unconditionally Gods blessings to you and your family
Susie Pomeroy
December 16, 2025
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tom Spegnolo
December 11, 2025
John, Jim and family,
So sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. We all have memories of our neighborhood families that we carry forever. She was such a nice person to me, always. May she rest in eternal paradise.
Louise and Gary Ruscoe
December 9, 2025
We´re gonna miss you Lil, you were just like family to us, you´re with your true loves, Cliff and Sparky. We love you, Rest in Peace. The Ruscoes
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THOMAS J TALARICO
December 7, 2025
Faithfully once a month Lillian would visit my hair salon for a color and a trim. I enjoyed our visits. We would solve world problems and maybe create a few. She was a lovely person and will be missed. My sympathies to the Cole family. Tom Talarico
Harry Lewis
December 5, 2025
John and family I´m sorry for your loss
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