Lillian E. Pappas, beloved wife, mother, and grandmother, was born on November 3, 1935, in New York, New York to her parents Anthony and Antoinette. Lillian passed away peacefully, surrounded by her family with love, a testament to the bonds she cultivated throughout her life. Her gentle spirit and unwavering strength touched the hearts of everyone fortunate enough to know her, and her legacy will continue to shine brightly through the lives she influenced.
Lillian dedicated her life to nurturing others, devoting many years as a Nurses Assistant at the Half Hollow Hills School District. Her compassion for her students marked her as a beacon of light in their lives; she embraced her profession with a warmth that made everyone feel seen and cared for.
Family was at the heart of Lillian’s life. She shared a deep bond with her loving husband of 66 years, Harry Pappas, with whom she journeyed through life's joys and challenges. Together, they created a home filled with laughter, support, and endless love.
Her children, Karen and her husband James Orrach, John and his wife Michelle Pappas, and Lori and her husband Jay McHugh, were not just her pride and joy; they were the reflection of her nurturing spirit. Lillian poured her heart into raising her children, instilling in them the values of compassion, integrity, and perseverance.
Lillian was also a doting grandmother to her grandchildren: JohnRyan, Jillian, Kristin, Tim, Madison, Cole, and Chris. Each grandchild held a special place in her heart, and she took great delight in creating memories with them. Lillian’s presence will be dearly missed by them all.
Visitation will be held on Monday, September 29, 2025 from 2:00 PM to 4:30PM and again from 7:00 PM to 9:30 PM at Mangano Funeral Home, 1701 Deer Park Avenue, Deer Park, NY 11729. A mass will be held the following day on Tuesday, September 30, 2025 at 10:00 AM at St. Paraskevi Greek Orthodox Church, 1 Shrine Place, Greenlawn, NY 11740. Family and friends who wish to attend the church are asked to meet at the funeral home at 8:30 AM. A burial will follow immediately after at Pinelawn Memorial Park.
As we remember Lillian E. Pappas, we celebrate a life well-lived, a woman whose heart knew no bounds, and whose love will forever echo in the memories of her family and friends.
In Lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that donations be made to:
St. Jude’s Children's Research Hospital
and/or
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