Mary McClay Obituary
Mary was born on February 13, 1934, in Elkton, IL the daughter of Thomas S. and Margaret (nee Kerr) Dahncke. She was united in marriage to James L. "Larry" McClay on December 19, 1952, at the United Presbyterian Church in Oakdale and he survives her passing.
Mary was a homemaker and she was baptized, confirmed and lifelong member of the United Presbyterian Church of Oakdale. She was a member of the Washington County Home Extension, Oakdale Lamp Lighters, United Presbyterian Friendship Circle and she served on the Oakdale Ballpark Board. Mary enjoyed dancing, gardening, baking, playing card games, and valued time spent with her family.
Left to mourn her passing is her husband, James L. "Larry" McClay of Oakdale; 3 sons, Michael (Dawn) McClay of Hendersonville, TN, Steve (Denise) McClay of Oakdale, and Brad McClay of Nashville; 6 grandchildren, Nicholas (Maud) McClay, Meredith (Andrew) Podoll, Mitchell (Aubrey) McClay, Colby (Erica) McClay, Kelsey (Kyle) Mueller, and Callie (Austin) Schorfheide; 10 great grandchildren, Margaux, Easton, Adalynn, Pierson, Wells, Jedd, Ada, Halle, Rory and Beau; 3 siblings, Tom (Kathy) Dahncke, Judy (Tony) Doehring and Allan (Rhonda) Dahncke all of Nashville; nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives and friends.
She was preceded in death by her parents, brother, Maurice (Marietta) Dahncke; sister, Alice (Nathan) Kniker and great granddaughter, Harper Mueller.
Per the wishes of Mary and her family, cremation will be performed and a Celebration of Life will be held at the United Presbyterian Church in Oakdale on Saturday, February 21, 2026, at 3 P.M. with Pastor Daniel Simonton officiating.
Friends may call at the United Presbyterian Church of Oakdale on Saturday from 1 P.M. until 3 P.M.
Should friends desire, memorials may be made to the Oakdale United Presbyterian Church Wednesday Meal program or the St. Jude's Hospital and will be accepted by the Campagna Funeral Home, who is assisting the family with arrangements.
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