Mary Elizabeth Schroeder

1927 - 2025

Mary Elizabeth Schroeder obituary, 1927-2025, Richmond, VA

Mary Elizabeth Schroeder

1927 - 2025

BORN

1927

DIED

2025

Mary Schroeder Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 20, 2025.
Beloved Mother of Kenneth Schroeder Jr., Craig Schroeder and Marilyn Loving. Beloved Grandmother of Benjamin Schroeder

Mary was born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, on July 19, 1927, to her parents Olive Barklay McHale and Holford Gilmour Arrison. She joined her older brothers, Holford Gilmour Jr., and William Clarence III. Her family moved to Merchantville, New Jersey, when she was three years old.

Mary acquired the nickname "Sunnie" when she was the captain of the Merchantville High School women's basketball team. It began as a playful take on her last name of Arrison (Sonnie). It became the perfect moniker for her bright and optimistic personality.

After earning a partial scholarship, she went on to attend Ursinus College, where she majored in Physical Education and minored in English. During her Freshman year, she met her future husband, soulmate and love of her life, Kenneth Schroeder. After graduation, they were married on July 10, 1948, and formed a loving bond that kept them inseparable. They soon added to their family by welcoming three children; Kenneth, Craig and Marilyn.

While living with her family in Huntington Station, Long Island, Mary began working at the West Hills Elementary School Library, where she enjoyed reading to young children.

The family then moved to Howard County, Maryland, in 1966. Mary soon began her long tenure at the Howard County Public Library. Before the age of "Siri" there was "Sunnie", working the reference desk, where she guided students and adults alike to the proper resources, enabling them to find the answers to their questions.

Mary also became active in the St. John's Episcopal Church choir and naturally took to organizing their music library, as well as lending her strong alto voice to the singing of the hymns.

Mary loved games and sports. She was an expert at crosswords and jumble puzzles, and also skillfully played bridge regularly with a group of friends and neighbors. She also loved all Baltimore sports; especially the Orioles, and had a partial season ticket plan that she enjoyed.

She loved to travel. Later in life, she was able to travel to many beautiful and exotic places, including Egypt, Russia, Alaska and Europe.

Mary was truly the heart of her family. Her laugh, wit, kindness and caring were the glue that held her family together. She will be greatly missed.

A service will be held at St. John's Episcopal Church, 9140 Frederick Road, Ellicott City, Maryland, on Saturday, October 18 at 10 A.M. Burial in the church cemetary will follow. In lieu of flowers, donations to St. John's Episcopal Church will be appreciated.

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October 29, 2025

Lisa Schubert posted to the memorial.

October 27, 2025

Mary Jean Schaffer posted to the memorial.

October 16, 2025

Diane Lichtenberger posted to the memorial.

Lisa Schubert

October 29, 2025

Rest in peace Aunt Sunnie. No doubt you´re lovingly reunited with Uncle Ken now.

Mary Jean Schaffer

October 27, 2025

Mary was a great lady. I always enjoyed working with her. We had fun times at work and out of work. A life well lived. The best to the family she loved. Sincerely,

Diane Lichtenberger

October 16, 2025

Giving thanks for Mary´s contribution as an alto and librarian for years with the St. John´s Choir. She had a lovely smile and was a great addition to the St. John´s family.

Elizabeth Lancaster

October 15, 2025

I worked with Mary for many years at the Howard County Library. I remember her as a person who was not only happy, but very gracious in so many different situations. She was happy to accept new people and new situations. She accepted change happily and graciously. She was a mentor to many and a pleasure to work with. My condolences to her family who have lost such a special person.

Vickie McCullough

October 15, 2025

Marilyn, I was honored to be able to spend some time with your Mom! She was so sweet and gracious. Many fond memories will help carry you through this time of loss.

Helen (Beyers) Beckloff

September 29, 2025

I worked with Mary at the Howard County Library and always found her to be a cheerful and helpful and an all around a fine person in every way. Rest in peace, Mary.

Benjamin Schroeder

September 23, 2025

Joan Gavigan

September 22, 2025

I have such fond memories of singing in the alto section with Mary with the St. John's choir! When I first started there, I told her she was my "anchor" because I always knew where to sit. She was the kindest, most welcoming person I think I have every met. When I read that her nickname was Sonnie, I literally laughed out loud! That description fits her to a "T!" Mary was quiet, but she was quite a powerhouse of energy and you always felt her quiet kindness around you. To her family, you were so blessed to have her as your mother/mother-in-law/grandmother. As Peggy Bagwell said, may she rest in peace. God bless her!

Peggy Bagwell

September 22, 2025

I sang in the St. John's Choir for several years with Mary. At that time we knew very few people at St. John's and she welcomed us into the choir with love and warmth. She was so helpful when I had questions about the music and gave me much encouragement. We had many good conversations and I was sad when she decided to stop singing with us. I had begun to call her "Aunt Mary" and missed her very much when she left the choir. May God rest her soul.

Peggy Bagwell

Moira Liskovec

September 22, 2025

So sorry to hear about this lovely lady. I knew her at St. John´s and my daughter pet sat for her when she went on her trips. I remember her love for cats.

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