Mary M. Whetzel

Mary M. Whetzel obituary, Hagerstown, MD

Mary M. Whetzel

Mary Whetzel Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Douglas A. Fiery Funeral Home - Hagerstown on Jan. 1, 2026.
Mary Margaret Whetzel, 58, of Hagerstown, MD, passed away, Friday, December 26, 2025, at the Meritus Medical Center.
Born Saturday, December 16, 1967, in Hagerstown, MD, she was the daughter of the late Robert Leroy Whetzel and the late Gloria Jean (Eavey) Whetzel.
She is survived by her partner of 20 years Craig Fraley, son, Damian Hayter, grandchildren, Zayden and Asher, and her siblings.
Services will be held Friday, January 2, 2026, at 11:00 am, at the Douglas A. Fiery Funeral Home, 1331 Eastern Blvd. North Hagerstown, MD, with Pastor Rodney Donaldson officiating.
Interment will be at the Ringgold Cemetery, Hagerstown, MD.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to a charity of ones choice.
Online condolences may be expressed at www.douglasfiery.com
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