Matthew Vander Sande

Matthew Vander Sande obituary, Ashland, OR

Matthew Vander Sande

Matthew Sande Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Litwiller-Simonsen Funeral Home & Crematory on Oct. 1, 2025.
In Loving Memory of Matthew "Oostburg" Vander Sande
Matthew "Oostburg" Vander Sande, age 40, of Ashland, Oregon, passed away tragically on September 7, 2025. Born on September 16, 1984, in Wisconsin, Matthew was a friend who loved deeply, cherished every connection, and left a lasting impact on all who knew him.
Matthew's greatest joy was his mama, family and his friends. He filled their lives with laughter, warmth, and unwavering loyalty. He had a rare gift for making people feel truly seen and loved, and his devotion to those around him was unmatched. He loved camping under the stars, digging for crystals, and sharing those treasures with friends - little pieces of his generous spirit. He also cherished his work at the Ashland Grange, where his humor, kindness, and genuine care made him beloved by co-workers and customers alike. One of Matthew's deepest bonds was with his constant companion, Sokker. Their love was evident to all who met them, and Sokker will be moving to Wisconsin to continue a life surrounded by the care and love Matthew would have wanted for her. Matthew will be deeply missed by his mama, family, and countless friends who were blessed to know him. Though his life ended far too soon, his spirit, his love for his family and friends, and the joy he shared will live on forever.
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