Matthew Patrick Tolan

Matthew Patrick Tolan obituary, Woodstock, GA

Matthew Patrick Tolan

Matthew Tolan Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Poole Funeral Home & Cremation Services - Woodstock on Nov. 28, 2025.
A much-loved husband, father, son, brother, son-in-law, and friend, Matt Tolan, 41, passed away peacefully, surrounded by loved ones, on November 28th. He is survived by his wife, Lindsay, 2 sons, Liam (13) and Brody (11), his parents, Shawn and Shari, and his sister Melissa with her family, Derek, Levi and Lainey. Matthew was well loved by so many that it is impossible to name all the in-laws, grandparents, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. While Matt loved his family more than anything, he also loved an excel spreadsheet, a difficult Lego set, a jigsaw puzzle, smoking meat, and building computers. Star Wars was his jam. He loved computer gaming, sports, practical jokes, music, history, reading, and researching statistics to determine the best price and quality of every item he ever purchased. Meteorologist Matt studied all the weather models and told you minute by minute via text when the hail and tornados were coming. Matt's yard was an award-winning Christmas winter wonder land. Chevy Chase had nothing on him. Halloween was a favorite time for him too as evidenced by his costume selections and yard decor. Matt was truly a renaissance man with his science, music, sports, history and literature interests. Matt played the bass, electric and acoustic guitar, the drums and the piano. He dreamed of being Billy Joel. Music was a passion in Matt's life, and he had a vast appreciation for all types of music. He loved 311, Mastodon, and of course Billy Joel. Matt's love for sports made him the leader of a Fantasy Football League for 15 years. Matt played tennis as an adult and soccer and hockey as a teen and young adult. He was known for having the most penalty minutes in hockey. Matt, aka "Birdman" to his friends, loved watching sports with them and his family.. We will all miss Matt's satire, sarcasm, and practical jokes. Some of us were very gullible and fell for it every time. When you called Matt on his phone you could rest assured the worst picture you ever made would be your contact picture he would see. There will never be another like him. We are all lucky to have had such a funny, smart, kind, and loving soul in our lives. Matt was easy to love and will be missed everyday. In lieu of flowers, feel free to donate to the Colorectal Cancer Alliance. You can do so on their website. https://www.colorectalcancer.org To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Matthew, please visit our floral store.

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December 19, 2025

Aaron Boynton posted to the memorial.

December 19, 2025

Manny Landry posted to the memorial.

November 28, 2025

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Aaron Boynton

December 19, 2025

I never met Matt in real life but we connected online for several years through a shared love of Star wars and gaming. A great guy. Rest in Peace

Manny Landry

December 19, 2025

My name is Manny, and Matt used to play Star Wars: Galaxy of Heroes with us. Even after he stopped playing, he remained in our Discord chat, and kept us up to date on what was going and how he was doing. We'd all been friends for the better part of a decade even though we'd never met in real life. His humour kept our spirits up high, and he conducted himself like a warrior during his fight, usually expressing more concern about Lindsay and the boys.

So from myself and the rest of "Seven Deadly Siths", we offer our sincerest and heartfelt condolences to all the Tolan family and all of Matt's friends. The world is a lesser place without him, and better one for having had him leave his impression on us all.

"...he is one with the Force now."

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