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This obituary was originally published in the Buffalo News.
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lucille stiglmeier
May 8, 2010
Hi Mike,
Tomorrow is mother's day .I will miss your happy mother's day call.I was just reading a letter you sent me on 08/25/99.Here is just a little bit of what you wrote.I have tears in my eyes as I am typing this but it will all workout somehow,as long as we stay the same strong family that we are.Then you said love mike.I will keep that letter for ever.Love and miss you my angel.Ma & paul
lucille stiglmeier
April 20, 2010
Hi Mike,
Today i was just sitting here thinking about you.You are always on my mind.I still wait for you to call.Things are not the same without you .So much has changed and not for the good.You were our rock.Love and miss you so much .
Love always Ma
April 15, 2010
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Tina Riley
April 4, 2010
Hi Daddy,
I just wanted to say Happy Easter. I miss you so much & even more on the holidays. Even though we didn't spend many Easters together after you moved, no holiday or a normal day is the same without you on this earth. I think about you all the time & I know that heaven is an even better place because you are in it.
Love Always,
Tina
Ramona Scarpace
April 2, 2010
Dear Michael,
I attended Holy Thursday services last night and remembered you in my prayers. Like your mom, my memories of this time of year are always about family time spent together, especially at Grandma Lena's. I remember you and I and Vince playing together outside -- our first chance to run around the yard together in the warmer weather and to swing on the home-made swingset that Grandpa made. Then, we'd get called into dinner -- the Great Easter Feast and then came the anticipation of the candy that Grandma would give us -- white boxes tied with string and filled with green straw grass and "good" chocolate and jelly beans and a creme egg. I bet Grandma Lena still gives you your Easter chcolate and I bet it is 'heavenly"!
Happy Easter Cousin. Greet all the family for me and give my mom a special hug.
Love,
Cousin Ramona
Lucille Stiglmeier
April 1, 2010
Hi Michael,
It is Holy Thursday the beginning of the Easter holiday. Do you remember when I hid your and Vinces' Easter baskets. While you both had so much fun searching for them you both never realized how much I enjoyed watching you search for them. These are the memories we share. Then the grandchildren came and we hid eggs with money in them. We had so much fun watching them run all over the house searching. Those days were the best. These are the memories we share. Wish we could be together to spend the day talking and laughing, all of us ! No one appreciates all that they have until it is lost. Even though we cannot be together physically you will always be in the hearts, minds and prayers of those who love you. We love and miss you so much and not a day goes by that I do not think of you and say a prayer. God Bless you and " Happy Easter My Little Angel ".
Love you
Ma & Paul
March 21, 2010
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Ramona Scarpace
March 19, 2010
Hi Michael,
I'm thinking about you today and just wanted to say "hi". I'm sending you a HUG.
Love,
Cousin Ramona
Ramona Scarpace
February 14, 2010
Hi Michael,
Happy Valentine's Day cousin! You remain a part of my heart always.
Love,
Cousin Ramona
Tina Aschieri-Riley
December 24, 2009
Merry Christmas Daddy. I love you so much & I miss you every single day. This is my first married Christmas. I'm excited about that but I still miss you so much. Christmas or any other day just isn't the same anymore without you. I hope that you are happy where you are& I know you are not feeling any pain anymore. I love you with all my heart.
Love,
Tina
December 24, 2009
Dear Michael,
Here it is, Christmas Eve. You've been on my mind a lot this week. Today, I am remembering the Christmas Eves at Grandma Lena's house when we were kids. She would make 7 kinds of fish and pasta with anchovies and we would all eat with great anticipation of receiving our gifts and of Santa coming the next day. Those times spent with family when we were younger are some of my best childhood memories. Perhaps you'll be eating the same feast in heaven tonight. Merry Christmas cousin and please greet all those who are with you in the Divine presence. God's peace dear cousin and please watch over all of us in the coming year.
Love,
Cousin Ramona
Lucille Stiglmeier
December 24, 2009
Hi Mike,
Another day and Christmas will be here. Without you one of my most beautiful presents is missing. I console myself with wonderful memories of Christmas' past with you, Vince and myself. While money was scarce our love for each other and love of family kept us together. The love and fun we shared are my most precious memories and are with me always. I can always see you smiling and hear your laughter. Family love was everything to you. I can hear my little Mike saying to Vince " why do we have to open these gifts anyway-we know they are just pajamas "! My wonderful memories and knowing you are happy and healthy in a better place lightens my sorrow. You have all our love and prayers. I miss you so much my little angel !
All our love,
Mom amd Paul
Lucille Stiglmeier
November 25, 2009
Mike
Another Thanksgiving is here again. Though you are not with us physically you are always with us in our hearts. Our holidays are not the same without you. Yet we talk about you and remember all the good times. We are so happy that you are beyond the pain and sadness that we still feel. When we lost you we lost our leader.You will always be the best of all the best.
One day we will all spend a Happy Thanksgiving togeather. Our love and prayers are with you always.
Love
Ma & Paul
October 11, 2009
Michael, happy birthday in heaven, events take place, seasons change, one thing that will never change is our love for!! miss you today & always!!! Mom (Jo) Rob & Jill
Tina Riley
October 11, 2009
Happy Birthday Daddy! I love & miss you so much!
Love Always,
Tina
October 11, 2009
Uncle Mike, today the angels sing Happy birthday, love & miss you!! Allison
Lucille Stiglmeier
October 11, 2009
To our beloved son,
Not a day goes by that I do not think of you. Today is your birthday. It seems like yesterday that I held you in my arms. You were a beautiful baby and you grew up to be a great man.
Your life was so short. You always thought of and worried about every one. Family always came first to you.
I remember all the birthdays we spent together. I remember all the fun days. Your smiles showed every one the goodness in your heart.
You told me something before you left us and I will always remember it, " life is short and we should all always stay close as a family"! Our love for you should keep use together.
Happy birthday my darling son. I will love you for eternity!
All our love Ma and Paul.
Jacqueline Aschieri
August 24, 2009
On this day of our 24th wedding anniversary I am missing you a little more than every other day!!
All My Love Today & Always!
Jacqueline
August 23, 2009
Michael,
Although this year has brought many happy events, they weren't complete without you. Missing your laugh, your wit, your smile & telling us how to ..... If only we could have you back. You're still my Hero!!
Love & Miss you!!!
Love, Mom Jo
August 23, 2009
Dear Michael, Good-bye's are not forever, goodbye's are not the end, they simply mean we'll miss you until we meet again. Love you & miss you!!! Rob & Jill
August 23, 2009
Uncle Mike, I love you & miss you today & everyday!! Love, Allison
August 23, 2009
Michael, Good-bye's are not forever, good-bye's are not the end , they simply mean we'll miss you until we meet again. Please continue to watch over Jackie & the girls . we love you & miss you. Rob & Jill
Ramona Scarpace
August 22, 2009
Dear Michael,
On August 23, it will be one year since you have gone to be in God's peace. Not a day goes past that I don't think of you. I remember your up-beat phone calls, your wonderful laugh,your smile and your hospitality. Even though I feel the presence of your wonderful spirit, I miss you. Thanks for watching over everyone for the past year. I'll light a candle for you in church tomorrow and send a special prayer your way. Please give my mom a hug. I imagine that you and she have had some good talks. I'm very glad for that. Someday, we'll all meet again -- at a heavenly reunion organized by you :>)
I love you cousin,
Ramona
Jacqueline Aschieri
August 22, 2009
Reflections ……
Reflections of the year past;
As I sit here and think of you, as I often do I think not only about what I have lost,but rather of all the good we had, what we did, things we said,
the way we looked at each other and knew exactly what the other was
thinking without speaking a word. The smiles we brought to each other’s
faces, the tears of joy and tears of sorrow we shed together. Many people who lose the love of their life sit and think of all their regrets, it must have been all that I learned from you that I sit here and thank god for all that we were and have no regrets. What more could I have asked for in life, I had you, and as we always
told each other, we were together for a reason, whatever that reason was we knew it was right, I was your guardian angel to take care of you through your horrible illness. You were my guardian angel everyday; you guided me through 26 years of my life,Thorough your words, your actions, your prayers, and you still guide me from up above,
When I am unsure of what to do, I ask you. When I’m sad, good thoughts of you come to mind, and make me smile. And I have two beautiful daughters and one beautiful step-daughter to look at and remind me of you……
Of course this has been the most difficult year of my life, being
without you, but I have also learned a lot during this time as well,
I have learned to be stronger,
I’ve learned who and what really matters, and what really doesn’t,
I’ve learned who I can count on and who I can’t,
I’ve learned who our true friends were and are, and who wasn’t.
I’ve learned to appreciate what we had in life and not to worry about what we didn’t have, didn’t do, and realize that life wasn’t so bad, as everyone does we always wish for something other than what you have in the present,and you don’t realize how good things are until you don’t have them anymore, we all tend to take every-
day for granted when in reality we should take everyday as a blessing..
I have learned that everything in life happens for a reason, people we meet, people we loose.....
So you see I have loved, I have laughed, I have lived dreams, I have cried, I have hurt, I have grown, and I have learned all because of having you in my life, even if it wasn’t for as long as I would have wanted to have you here with me.
But you are with me every single day, in my heart, in my thoughts, in our children……
I will never stop missing You or Loving you!
Until we are together again,
All My Love……
Jacqueline
Lucille Stiglmeier
August 21, 2009
August 23.2009
Hi Michael,
It is one year today that you went up to be with God. So much had to be done during the past year and you were really missed to help make all the decisions.
There was Amandas graduation,then Tina and Chucks marriage.Vince got a new job thanks to your angel.
It's been a hard year without you.Both
your company and running things.
I still wait for your calls and visits.I talk to your picture everyday.That helps a lot.We love you and miss you so much!
" You are always on my mind"
Love
Ma & Paul
John-Paul Stiglmeier
June 21, 2009
Michael,
You were always the 'Head of our Family". Happy Fathers Day !
Paul & Lucille
Amanda, Alicia & Tina Aschieri
June 20, 2009
If I could write a story
It would be the greatest ever told
One of a kind and loving Dad
Who had a heart of gold
I could write a million pages
But still be unable to say, just how
Much I love you and miss you
Every single Day
I will remember all you taught me
I am hurt but won’t be sad
Because you send me down the answers,
And you’ll always be MY DAD…..
Happy Father’s Day!
Love, Amanda, Alicia & Tina.
John-Paul Stiglmeier
June 12, 2009
Dear Michael,
Yesterday a friend came to visit you to stay and keep you company.You are both two of a kind with your ever present smiles,love of family and happy outlook on life. Give him the tour,show him around but most of all keep him in line. Be watchful though because like you he will soon try to take over. You were both a blessing on earth and a joy to be with and Heaven must be a much more wonderful place because of Michael and Norbert. I love and miss you both so much !
lucille stiglmeier
April 10, 2009
Hi Michael,
It is two days before Easter and i miss you so much. .You'r call was the first call of the day.Hi ma Happy Easter i love you say hi to Paul. We carry you in our hearts always.You are with God know i know and you are the best angle there.It's so hard but i hope that i will be seeing you soon. Love you untile we meet again.Ma and Paul
Jacqueline Aschieri
February 22, 2009
Michael;
In one breath it's hard to believe that six months have passed already, and in another it feels like it was just yesterday that you left us, I still see your amazing smile, hear you calling me, "Hey Fatty", I miss those phone calls on my way home, "Hey Fatty, want me to start the coffee?", I can still smell your cologne, feel your touch, hear your laugh. My world has not been the same since that moment, nor will it ever be the same ever again, this is our new normal, no one said we have to like it, we just have to live it. The hardest part of my life is not only having you here with me, also not knowing what tomorrow brings, and not really caring what it brings, you were my life, my hope, my inspiration!
If I could have a lifetime wish
a dream that would come true
I'd pray to God with all my heart
for yesterday and you.
A thousand words can't bring you back
I know because I've tried
And neither will a million tears
I know because I've cried.
You left behind my broken heart
and happy memories too
I never wanted memories...
I only wanted you.
I LOVE YOU & MISS YOU WITH ALL MY HEART!
Jacqueline (Fatty)
lucille stiglmeier
February 21, 2009
Michael it is 6 months since you left use.How i miss your phone calls Hi Ma whats up. I could here the smile in your voice.I think of you all the time and miss you so much.I love you my son ,my angle.Love Ma
John-Paul Stiglmeier
February 16, 2009
Michael,when God took you from us He made heaven a happier place but at the same time He made your friends a lot lonlier. You could always make me laugh, Thinking and praying for you always
Tina Aschieri
February 14, 2009
I am thinking of you & missing you a lot today.
Happy Valentine's Day!
I love you xoxo
Greg Zdzinski
December 25, 2008
Dear Jackie and Girls,We are thinking of you this holiday season and are prayers are with you all.Merry Christmas.Love Greg and Kathy Zdzinski
lucille stiglmeier
December 24, 2008
Michael,
From this world of pain and sorrow ,to the land of peace and rest God has taken you much to soon.We carry you in our hearts for ever.We love you so much and miss that beautifull smile.Xmas will never be the same
Love Ma and Paul
Ramona Scarpace
December 23, 2008
Dear Michael,
As Christmas approaches, I am remembering you and your love of family holidays. I'm sure you are organizing the heavenly family Christmas Party!
I miss you dear cousin. On Christmas Day, I will drink a toast to you and remember you - the incredible kind, caring and loving man who left this world too soon.
Rest in God's peace.
Love,
Cousin Ramona
December 11, 2008
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yvonne gaiser
November 15, 2008
Mike, I will truly miss that holiday phone call and that infectious smile that came thru the phone. Love you always Aunt Yvonne
Unks
November 6, 2008
I miss the calls during the day. "hey unks, you busy? Like that mattered anyway. When Mike wanted to talk, you listened. Always full of life, always upbeat, always a welcomed voice. Love you Mike. Keep smiling nephew. Love Unks.
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lucille stiglmeier
October 11, 2008
To our beloved son Michael. We miss you and love you. Happy Birthday form ma and Paul.You are the best.
Tina Aschieri
October 11, 2008
Happy Birthday Daddy! I love you & I miss you so much.
Love,
Tina
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Sherry Clack
September 18, 2008
Jackie and family...Even though we met you and Michael only a couple of weeks before his passing, I believe that God intended for our paths to cross. The way Michael made sure that all of his "business" was taken care of, told me how much he truly cared for you and his girls. I'm privileged to have shared in Michael's life...and also to be here as a friend to you. Do know, dear lady, that our Heavenly Father will continue to send his Spirit to watch over you ....and give you rest and comfort. With much aloha...Sherry
Jacqueline Aschieri
September 17, 2008
Eulogy for Michael John Aschieri
Delivered by Ramona Scarpace
St. Katherine Drexel Church, Buffalo, New York
September 13, 2008
“For each child that’s born
A morning star rises,
And sings to the universe
Who we are.
For each child that’s born
A morning star rises,
And sings to the universe
Who we are.
We are our grandmother’s prayers,
We are our grandfather’s dreamings,
We are the breath of the ancestors,
We are the spirit of God.
For each child that’s born
A morning star rises,
And sings to the universe
Who we are.”
In Hebrew, the name “Michael” means “who is like God?” “Who is like God?”
I think that Michael Aschieri surely lived up to his name. He had many traits that were God-like and inspired by God’s presence in him. In every interaction with Michael, we all experienced the spark of the Divine. He radiated an excitement about life. We saw this excitement it in his beautiful smile, the sparkle and intensity of his eyes and his welcoming and warm hugs. He always offered hospitality – food and drink, a place to stay, and most of all, his great generosity of Spirit. Michael had pride in his Italian heritage. He loved watching sports, drinking a good bottle of wine, playing golf and going for walks along the trail near his house. Michael shined bright in the Valley of the Sun.
Michael loved each of us and especially Jackie his wife, and Tina, Amanda and Alicia, his daughters. Michael and Jackie were married for 23 years. Michael said of Jackie that she was the best of all that had been his life. He admired and respected Jackie and spoke often of how much he appreciated her intelligence, her tenacity, her ability to organize, and the success she had in her career. He felt blessed to have Jackie as his wife.
Michael loved each of his daughters. He spent time with them, swam with them, took them to Darien Lake to ride the rides, celebrated each mile stone in their lives with great anticipation and pride and always told them he loved them when they left the house. And, as many parents do, he said a silent “Hail Mary”!
Michael remembered each of us in his own special way. Sometimes, out of the blue, I would get a call from Michael and he would say to me – “Ramona, it’s Michael from the desert, how’s it going? He made my day! That was Michael! For Michael, family was central to his life. He always made the time to check in with people - his mom and dad, aunts and uncles, his brother, cousins and friends and to attend family parties, marriages and funerals. He didn’t judge people unfairly or pay attention to rumors or innuendo. Instead, Michael judged people by their actions and intentions. Michael made us all feel special and loved and he embraced us heart to heart.
When Michael was diagnosed with cancer, I believe that God, along with many of us, wept. I know that Michael and Jackie wept too. But as Jackie said, “tears don’t change anything”.
So, Michael and Jackie and the girls went about the business of living. The girls went to school and work, Michael went for chemo. They kept as normal a family life as possible. Jackie worked, made dinner every night (except for Thursday’s – pizza night) and accompanied Michael to medical appointments. Jackie advocated for Michael in every aspect of his treatment. Michael credited Jackie’s tenacity, willingness to go head to head with doctors and insurance companies and her strong love for his being saved seven times from dying. That is the power of love in action!
Jackie never gave up on Michael and Michael never gave up hope. He focused on being positive, thankful for family and friends and that there was one more option for his treatments. Most people who have duodenal cancer live about three months. Michael lived for fifteen!
Michael faced his cancer with the bravery and determination of Saint Michael the Archangel. In my conversations with him, he rarely complained about how difficult the chemo therapy was. Always, his concerns were for his family. He expressed sadness at having to put his wife and girls and parents and brother through this. At the hospital, he expressed great compassion for others who were having chemo therapy, especially for the women who had lost their hair. He chose to have his treatment in the group treatment room, enjoying the social time and solidarity along with others who were receiving chemo.
Michael wasn’t afraid of dying. He told me that he had led a good life and never hurt anyone on purpose. He said to me “If something happens, I don’t fear it because I know there is something else there. I don’t want people at my doorstep or bedside crying over me. That is not who I am or what I am about. My life is about living”.
Michael went on to say that he knew that when God lifted him up from this earth, Grandma and Grandpa Aschieri, Grandma and Grandpa Gallo, my mom Irene and Jackie’s dad Gerald would be there to welcome him. I speculate that the moment Michael got to heaven; he immediately set about organizing a party so that all of those in our family who had passed away could be together. You know it’s true – Michael will organize all the family gatherings in heaven and be the first person to ask St. Peter to play golf!
While Michael did not fear death, he did have fears and worries - how would his wife and daughters fare? Would his parents and brother and best friend Vince be OK? Would family and friends call them, care about them and look in on them in the months and years after his passing? Each of us needs to answer Michael’s question.
Michael’s wife Jackie asked that this special poem be included in Michael’s eulogy. It is called “The Broken Chain”.
We little knew that morning that God was going to call your name,
In life we loved you dearly; in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you; you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you, the day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories; your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you, you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.
As Catholics, we believe in the Communion of Saints, that is, the union and shared life of those living and those who have died. In Christ, we are one and with the promise of being reunited. So, those who have died can pray for the living and the living can pray for those who have died. Prayer is a way of connecting with God and each other. Michael told me he prayed the rosary every night. Praying gave him comfort and hope. Michael also told me that he was not praying for himself, but rather for Jackie, his girls, his mom, his dad, and his brother Vince. Michael, who had every right to pray for him-self, instead prayed for others. When we pray for someone, we walk with them. We are with them. When Michael prays for us, he is walking right next to us. Pray for Michael and you walk right next to him.
The last time I talked with Michael was August 19, the day before he was hospitalized and three days before he died. As always, he was positive and hopeful. He talked about the upcoming family trip to Las Vegas to celebrate Amanda’s birthday. He hoped other family members could come along too because in addition to celebrating Amanda’s birthday, he had things he wanted to say to people. Michael passed on before he could make that trip and before he could tell each of us what he wanted to say.
I was blessed with being able to talk with Michael on a regular basis over the last 15 months and to visit with him in May. In those conversations, Michael shared with me his insights, thoughts and feelings. In his special way, he was helping me write his eulogy, to tell you what he wanted to say.
At this time, I’d like to share some of Michael’s words with you:
To my wife Jackie – You are the best of all that has been my life. I will never forget your love and all you did for me. Through it all, you were right there with me. You did more than anyone could ask or hope for. I’m grateful and I love you.
To Tina – Be happy in your life! When you walk down the aisle to start your life with Chuck, my spirit will be there with you, your arm intertwined with mine. I love you.
To Amanda – You will have a life-time of birthdays to come. Celebrate each and every one. I’ll be right here celebrating with you. I love you.
To Alicia – Follow your dreams. I’ll help you find your way. Just reach out for my hand. I love you.
To my Mom – Thank you for all you did for me and Vince. It wasn’t always easy. You loved us every day and saw us through a lot. You’re the best. I love you.
To Paul – I’m glad you are right there for my mom. Thank you for caring about me like I was your own. I love you.
To my Dad – It made me happy that you moved to Arizona. We got to spend time and do things together that only a father and son can do. Thank you, Dad. I love you.
To Vince – No one could ask for a better brother or be a better brother. You are my best friend now and forever and ever. I love you.
I’d like to end this tribute to Michael by reading an excerpt from a letter he sent to me earlier this year. I believe Michael’s message is for all of us:
“I just want to thank you for all the support and love you have given me and my family. Thank you for everything you have done. You are all so loving, caring and supportive that I couldn’t even have any negative feelings go through me. I had so much support from family and friends that I just kept thanking God for realizing how lucky of a person I really am. Know that we will all be fine and we will all keep-on moving ahead”.
Love,
Michael
“For each child that’s born
A morning star rises,
And sings to the universe
Who we are.”
Michael, who is like God, rest and live in God’s peace. Amen
Michael Aschieri
ASCHIERI - Michael J. August 23, 2008, devoted husband of Jacqueline (nee Dalfonso) Aschieri; loving father of Tina, Amanda and Alicia Aschieri; son of Lucille (John-Paul) Stiglmeier and John Aschieri; dearest brother and best friend of Vincent Aschieri; son-in-law of Joanne Dalfonso and the late Gerald Dalfonso; brother-in-law of Jeffrey (Paula) Dalfonso and Jill (Rob) Rusinski; loving uncle and special person to Vincent and John Aschieri, Jeffrey Dalfonso, Jr. and Allison Rusinski.
September 13, 2008
Jamie Tantalo
September 12, 2008
To the family:
We are all truly sorry for the loss of your beloved son, father, and husband Michael. Our heart goes out to all that feel the emptiness of his loss. Michael was a very special person to us and will always be remembered fondly. Today, our hearts are heavy, and our thoughts and prayers go out to friends and family during this time of sorrow. Michael will truly be missed by many.
The family of Bonnie Aschieri
(Love and miss you Grandp's)
jacqueline aschieri
September 9, 2008
To My Best Friend (Michael)
I kept my promise, to love, honor, and share. I kept my promise that to you that I would always there Until death do we part, that is what they say. Oh my love why did you leave me that day? I wasn't ready for you to say goodbye, as I look into the heavens with tears in my eyes, I wasn't ready for you to die. My best friend why did you leave and not say goodbye? With so many questions and no answers as to why. I would have gone with you, however God knows best and took you home to give you rest. I was not ready, no not just yet, With only one regret that I didn't tell you one last time I love you, and forever you will be mine. My best friend this you must know, and never forget. I will see you again when God calls my name and say's it is time to go home and be with your best friend once again.
All My Love Always!
Jacqueline
Onrea Green
September 9, 2008
Jackie - I just learned of your families lost and wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers. I pray that God continues to provide you with the remarkable strength that you have shown over the last several months. Peace and blessings to you and your girls. You have my deepest sympathy and love.
John-Paul Stiglmeier
September 8, 2008
Jackie
For all that you did for our son, Michael especially during the time of his sickness you have our love and prayers forever. You will always be a beloved member of our family.While you never sought thanks nor complained still we send our thanks
along with our respect.
Lucille& John-Paul
Kathleen & Craig Gerold
September 7, 2008
Thank you for letting me take care of Michael, to know him is to love him. My life was much better because I had him in my life. I am so sorry for your loss, you are all in my prays everynight.
September 6, 2008
Jackie, Tina, Amanda and Alicia,
We love you all very much! Now we all have the best and strongest GUARDIAN ANGEL anyone could ever hope for!
Mary Curran
September 5, 2008
Dear Lucille,
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if I can do anything for you.
Harold and Janice Sugg
September 5, 2008
Luclille & John Paul
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. You are both such loving parents, we know how hard this is. If there is anything we can do please let us know. God Bless You and your family.
Jack and Carol Whipple
September 4, 2008
John Paul and Lucille,
Words cannot express the grief that you are feeling. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If there is anything that we can do, we are here for you. God's blessings.
Always,
Jack and Carol Whipple
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kristen murphy
September 1, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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Diane Pietraszewski
August 29, 2008
Dear Tina -
No words can express how sorry I am about the loss of your father. I know how difficult this time is and I want you to know that you will get through this. Please find comfort in the fact that he isn't suffering anymore and you now have a guardian angel watching over you. I love you and am here for you always.
Love,
Diane
Kelly Ardino
August 29, 2008
John Paul & Lucille -
I was so sorry to hear about your son. You have both been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard the news. Please know if there is anything you need, all you need to do is ask. In the mean time, may God keep and bless you in this time of sorrow.
Love to you both and your family
John & Phyllis
August 28, 2008
Dear Lucille & John-Paul
Life is a journey and along the way we meet some very special friends - who leave footprints in our hearts. We loved your "boys" at first meeting. Michael will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
Christopher Riley
August 28, 2008
Dear Tina,
We extend our deepest sympathies and condolences to you, your sisters, and the rest of your family. We truly admired the tremendous love and dedication you showed your dad and your family during his illness- I'm sure you made him incredibly proud. May God bless you and your family now and always, and may He fill your hearts with peace and contentment.
With love, Christopher and Joanna Riley
SANDRA KUMRO/SCHRAGEL
August 27, 2008
LUCILLE, PAUL & FAMILY
I AM VERY SORRY TO HEAR THAT MICHAEL PASSED AWAY. OUR THOUGHS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME.
LOVE
SANDY -
THE KUMRO/SCHRAGEL FAMILY
Joe & Carol Kuszniaj
August 27, 2008
John-Paul
We are so sorry for the loss of your son Michael. I know how important family is too you and I want you to know that we are all here for you if you need anything. Please except our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Patti Sage
August 27, 2008
JohnPaul& Family .Our deepest sympathy& Love goes out to you at this terrible time on the passing of your son, Michael. May He rest in peace in enternal happinessLove, Patti & Helen K
Vegas 2006
August 27, 2008
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