1943
2026
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11 Entries
Mike Elmer
February 3, 2026
Dear Carla and Family,
On behalf of the below named friends of your beloved husband, Marilyn and I send our heartfelt sorrow on the loss of a very special, one of a kind, friend and human being,
Mike and Marilyn Elmer
Scott Anger, Bill Cochran, Miles Haven, Bob Jacobs, Heinz Koebke, Cliff Lundberg, Tom Rossi and Mike Yoselle.
Mike Durney leaves a huge void and will never be forgotten.
Nicholas Sokol
January 29, 2026
Michael, Sigurd(Butch) Ulland and I were roommates at Montezuma School for Boys in Los Gatos, CA in the early Fifties. Great summer friends as well as neighbors on Piedmont Blvd Fraternity Row at UC Berkeley.
Shanker Singham
January 27, 2026
We got to know Mike, Carla and James as our boys with both at the Heights School in Potomac, MD. I always enjoyed his company and our talks about law economics and international trade. It was obvious how much he loved Carla and James. We will miss you, Mike and we pray for comfort for Carla and James. Let light perpetual shine upon you and give you peace. Shanker, Mellicent, and Jacques.
JF
January 23, 2026
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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JF
January 23, 2026
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
JF
January 20, 2026
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Bob Reklaitis
January 18, 2026
Mike was the best law partner that anyone could ever imagine. He was solid, honest and loyal to his friends. He was a true professional. He was so good to me when he was a partner and I was a young associate.
Over the years, I enjoyed being included in his tight circle of friends who he enjoyed tweaking and insulting in the most friendly and congenial way.
To Carla, James and Christine, I can say that so many people that Mike touched will be grieving with
you. He was unique and his death will leave a big hole in many of our lives. I will have a few less hearty laughs in my days without Mike. I was blessed to know him.

Steve Booth
January 16, 2026
Photo: Fiji fraternity admin "cabinet" Berkeley 1964
Lloyd Costley
January 15, 2026
Christine - I am so sorry to hear of your loss from Praecia. It's a hole which will never be filled - no such thing as closure when you lose someone close to you. I'm remembering all the great times and joy that our wonderful daughters, Christine and Praecia, brought to we parents, Mike and Ann, Carole and me - from early elementary school forward.
Lloyd Costley
Nicholas J Bizony
January 15, 2026
So sorry to hear of Mike's passing. He was always so full of energy and creative about the "next thing needing to be done". We shared many a time together as fraternity brothers and adventurers to interesting destinations. My condolences to Kim, all of Mike's loved ones, and mutual friends. Nick Bizony
Susan Flack
January 15, 2026
Carla and Christine my heartfelt sympathy. I was so sorry to learn of Mikes death. I am sorry that I haven't seen you more often in recent years but the Durney Family will always hold a special place in my heart.
Mike is one of my earliest memories of Sarah's childhood just please know how sorry I am and how much I care.
Love
Susan Flack
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