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It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Michael A. Icay on February 16, 2025, at the age of 83. Michael was a devoted father, grandfather, uncle, brother and a cherished friend to many. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him, but his humor will not be forgotten.
Born on July 18, 1941 in Upper Lake, California to Samson Zabel Icay and Verna Treppa Icay Ramos. Michael grew up on the Upper Lake Rancheria and graduated from Upper Lake High School in 1959. He served in the Army and graduated from Heald Business School. He worked hard throughout his life to provide for his family, and his dedication and strength were evident in everything he did.
Michael's greatest joy came from spending time with his family. He was the proud father of Michael D. Icay, Danielle Icay-Cirelli and Eric F. Icay and he was blessed with seven grandchildren. His grandchildren, Gabby Cirelli, Drew Cirelli, John Cirelli, Ava Icay, Dylan Icay, Sophia Icay and Carmella Icay loved to spend time with him enjoying many days on Clear Lake. His family was his world, and he shared many happy memories with them traveling, watching his grandchildren excel at many sports, and spending time enjoying the lake. He would always say, "Lake life is the best life!". He also had a passion for gardening, antiquing and all things nautical.
Michael was a proud member of the Habematolel Pomo of Upper Lake where he had previously served on the Executive Council, chaired several committees and most recently served as Chairman of the Tribal Gaming Commission. Michael also worked as Executive Director at Lake Country Tribal Health as well as General Manager at Robinson Casino. He was committed to helping the Native American community.
Funeral Service will be held at Chapel of the Lakes Mortuary on Saturday, March 1, 2025 at 11:00 AM where family and friends are invited to gather to celebrate Michael's life. Interment will follow at Upper Lake Cemetery.
Though Michael is no longer with us, his memory will live on in our hearts forever.
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Christina Green
March 1, 2025
Mike was always such a sweet caring man. My heart goes out to his family. Prayers for peace and comfort in this difficult time.
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Carmen Huber
February 20, 2025
My heart goes out to the family! Mike was very special! I am greatful that I got to meet him through his Niece Carol. I loved his smile and his sense of humor . Such a nice man!
Brendan P.
February 20, 2025
My condolences go out to the whole Icay family, loved ones, and friends as Michael was truly an incredible family man who raised a family that will live on for generations celebrating his memory and all he passed on to them throughout his lifetime. I unfortunately never got the opportunity to meet Michael personally, although I was given the gift of getting to know him through his son Michael, whom he raised to be an incredible human being, loving husband, father, and friend that I was blessed to feel like I did know him for the man, father, and friend to all those who he made an impact on through his lifetime.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family, Michael and Dani, and the twins. Please know that his memory will be celebrated here in the North as well, and any support or assistance I can offer you all through these days to come is just a phone call away!
Love,
Brendan P.
Ontario, Ca.
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