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Michael V. Ules Sr.

1942 - 2023

Michael V. Ules Sr. obituary, 1942-2023

BORN

1942

DIED

2023

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Michael Ules Obituary

Michael V. Ules, Sr., died on October 20, 2023, at the Oneida Center for Rehabilitation and Nursing.



Michael was born in 1942 in Manhattan, NY to Katherine Bellefountane and Vincent Ules.

Mike grew up in Greenport, Long Island, attending local schools. At the age of 17, in 1959, he joined the US Marine Corps.



At one time Mike raised nine children. His first priority was his children; feeding nine children was no easy feat. To that end Mike worked two full-time jobs for 30 years at the same time; he was employed full-time with Utica Cutlery as well as the Oneida County Dept. of Social Services, as a fraud investigator.

While working at the county, Mike fell in love with Mary Ata, a child welfare worker and probation officer. On October 17, 1992, Mike and Mary were joined in marriage at Sacred Heart Church.



He leaves behind his wife, Mary Ules who cared for him for 11 years through his illness.

He also leaves behind his children Laura, Michelle, Tina, and Mikey, Jr. (biological children).

He is also survived by his four children with his second wife: Lynn, Richard, Frankie, and Anthony.

Lastly, he leaves behind his beloved stepdaughter, Martina Ata.

He had numerous grandkids but Martina's children he was closest to, as when she became ill he obtained legal custody of (Michaelina) Mikayla Macner and Franchesca Giglio and raised them for several years.

He also leaves behind a special family friend, Joe Makarowski who took Mike to every doctor appointment and surgery several times a year and did much more than we could ever mention.

He was predeceased in death by his biological daughter, Chrissie.

A special thank you to Ken Smith, MDF Coordinator at Oneida Center without whose help Mary could not have adequately cared for Mike.



A note of gratitude to neighbor, Frank Buffa, whose help Mary greatly appreciated.

Arrangements will be private and a Catholic Mass of Christian Burial took place at Mike's Parish, Sacred Heart and St. Mary of Czestochowa, New York Mills. Inurnment will be at Calvary Cemetery.

Arrangements are under the direction of McGrath, Myslinski, Kowalczyk & Nunn Funeral Directors.

Messages of sympathy at www.mmknfd.com

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Published by Daily Sentinel from Nov. 13 to Nov. 14, 2023.

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Mary Ules

October 15, 2024

Hi Michael it's almost Oct 17 ...our anniversary ...n missing you is pretty much as bad as it was a year ago.

Mary

November 14, 2023

Mike.....i miss you!

mary ules

November 14, 2023

Hi mike.......miss you beyond words! I have you next to me and i cant thank you enough for taking care of me and tina....
Oct is our wedding anniversary. You left 3 days later. Watch over us n till the day i die ill remember you

Joe Makarowski

November 14, 2023

Met Mike about 18 years ago always enjoyed talking about the giants during football season and the many medical appointments I took him too over the years. Rest in peace Mike ,,I'll miss you

Mary ules

November 14, 2023

Michael , i miss you to no end ....joe and tina miss you ..your friends and neighbors miss you ..
You raised my daughter and her children, mickey and franny

Those kids always came first.
You were the best dad i ever knew . I wish we had a proper good bye but i talked to you on our 31st anniversary oct 17th and 3 days later you were gone..
But i will see you again .....
I wont forget you and i know you wont forget me. ...
Till later. . Just rest now and ill be there soon

Thank you michael and God bless
You lived the way a man should live ....fortright , honest and good hearted. Dont forget me( as if u could) joe and martina say hello too

Stephanie D Schell

November 13, 2023

Was a champion for children.

Diane Kelly

November 10, 2023

Mary ; God bless you and your family at this time of sorrow. Diane Kelly

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