Monica Rosanna Red Hat

Monica Rosanna Red Hat obituary, Longdale, OK

Monica Rosanna Red Hat

Monica Hat Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Pierce Funeral Home - Canton on Feb. 7, 2026.
Monica Rosanna Red Hat, 55, of rural Longdale, Oklahoma departed this life on Thursday, February 5, 2026 at her home. She was born December 28, 1970 at Clinton, Oklahoma to parents Kenneth Keith and Arleen Kay (Fletcher) Kauley.

Monica was raised at Hammon and attended school at Hammon and at Riverside Indian School at Anadarko. She liked going to the casino, listening to music and caring for her pets. She had worked as a certified nurse's aide at the Fairview Fellowship Home and Okeene Nursing Home. She also worked at the Lucky Star Casino at Canton.

Monica was preceded in death by her father, Kenneth Kauley; daughter Michelle "Shelby" Red Hat; and sister Michelle Kauley. Survivors include her husband Steven Jay Red Hat, Sr. of Longdale, OK; three sons, Steven Jay Red Hat, Jr. of Longdale, Oklahoma, Alexander Paige Red Hat of San Francisco, California and Henry Red Hat of Oklahoma; mother Arleen Kauley of Red Rock, Oklahoma; two sisters, Brenda Kay Smith and husband Greg of Kingfisher, Oklahoma and Kristi Kauley and Carlos of Clinton, Oklahoma; brother Kendall Kauley and wife Sarah Orange of Hammon, Oklahoma; six grandchildren and one great-grandchild; many extended family and friends.

Wake services will be held at 7:00 p.m., Monday, February 9, 2026 at the Longdale Gym, Longdale, Oklahoma. Funeral services will be held at 1:00 p.m., Tuesday, February 10, 2026 at the same venue with Pastor Delfred White Crow, Jr. officiating. Interment will follow at the Canton Reinterment (Chief's) Cemetery under the direction of Pierce Funeral Home, Canton, Oklahoma. Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.piercefuneralhomes.com.

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