Olive May Driscoll Miller – May Miller, born March 2, 1933, in Brooklyn, NY, and left us on January 22, 2025, in Stormville, NY at the age of 91. She was predeceased by her parents, Olive Mae Driscoll and Thomas P. Driscoll, her husband Donahue A. Miller, and son Michael A. Miller.
She is survived by her children: Wayne T. And Joanne Miller, Debra and Dave Barnes, Linda and Mike Gallo, Donahue A. Miller Jr., Katherine Whaley, Gregory and Beverly Miller, and Denise and David Hinman, as well as 20 grandchildren and 23 great-grandchildren.
How do you say goodbye to a matriarch? 91 years was not enough time. She was a tough little lady, raising eight kids and always ready with a comeback or a joke. We all knew who was in charge, yet she always had time for the smallest child in the room. We were all lucky to have her in our lives. Mom, Grandma, Great Grandma, we love you!
Donations in her memory may be made to the Sayre House of Hope in Sayre, PA.
Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Behe Funeral Home Inc, Oxford, NY. Friends and family are welcomed to the burial and committal service in the McDonough Village Union Cemetery, McDonough, NY on Saturday, May 10, 2025 at 12:00PM. Friends and family may share memories and condolences by visiting www.behefuneralhome.com
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