Oralie Cole, born Lacquement, graced this world on September 9th, 1948, in Highland, Illinois. She passed away peacefully, with her family surrounding her, on November 16th, 2025, in Ballwin, Missouri. She left behind a remarkable legacy defined by devotion, love, and an unwavering faith. Her family is comforted knowing she rests peacefully in the presence of the Lord.
Oralie was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend to many whose heart was a wellspring of generosity. She enveloped her family in warmth and kindness, always making sure everyone was taken care of. Her spirit was forged in the teachings of Christ, and she lived her life as an exceptional follower, carrying forth the values of compassion, grace, and unconditional love.
Her beloved husband, Mel Cole, shared in the joys and challenges of life alongside Oralie, grounding their family with a partnership marked by love and mutual respect. Together, they raised three beautiful daughters: Tammy (Terry) Wells, Amy (Kevin Liedel) Cole, and Maggie Cole. Each daughter carries a piece of Oralie’s strength and spirit within them—a testament to her nurturing ways and the lessons she imparted throughout their lives.
Oralie found immense joy in her role as a grandmother, holding a special place in the hearts of her grandchildren: Taylor (Jake) Moline, Jacob Wells, Ryan Liedel, and Colin Liedel. She reveled in the laughter and innocence they brought, creating cherished memories that will span generations. With the arrival of her great-grandchild, Caroline, her heart swelled with pride and love, knowing that her legacy would continue to flourish in the hands of future generations.
Oralie's familial ties extended beyond her immediate household, as she is survived by her brother, Joe Lacquement, and nieces and nephews, with whom she shared a bond that transcended time and distance. She was preceded in death by her loving parents, Oren and Dorothy Lacquement, who instilled in her the values she honored throughout her life.
With a spirit deeply rooted in love and generosity, Oralie Cole will forever be remembered as a beacon of light in the lives of those fortunate enough to know her. Her legacy lives on through her family and friends, who carry forward the lessons learned from a life beautifully lived in faith and devotion. Oralie's love endures, a warm embrace in the memories shared and the lives she touched. She will be missed dearly.
Family and friends are invited to come together to share in the memories of this remarkable woman who touched so many lives with her love, laughter, and vibrant spirit. A visitation to honor and celebrate Oralie's life will be held on Friday, November 21, 2025, at Newcomer Funeral Home in Chesterfield, Missouri, from 4 PM until 7 PM. The funeral ceremony will take place the following morning, on Saturday, November 22 at 11:00 am, also at Newcomer Funeral Home. Following services she will be laid to rest in Bethel Wildwood Church Cemetery.
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