Oscar M. Wilkins Jr.

Oscar M. Wilkins Jr. obituary

Oscar M. Wilkins Jr.

Oscar Wilkins Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by J.S. Pelkey and Son Funeral Home on Mar. 4, 2026.
Our hearts are heavy as we announce the passing of our husband, father, and grandfather Oscar M. Wilkins Jr. He left his earth on Friday February 27, 2026, at 75 years old. Born at home in Rowley, Massachusetts to Oscar and Harriet Wilkins on October 30, 1950. He was the youngest and only son of four children. He was predeceased by both parents, sister Marjorie "Tootie" Eiras and her husband Joe, and their son Joey Jr., his sister Helen Dowing, her husband Russell, and their son Rusty.

He is survived by his wife of 55 years Jean (Sheehan) Wilkins, their daughter Kristen Leighton and granddaughter Kyla, daughter Kim Caruso, her husband Larry, and his step granddaughters Nicole and Margaret Caruso. His also survived by sister Harriet "Peanut" Perley, her husband Neal, and their children. He also leaves behind many sisters and brothers-in-law, nieces, and nephews.

After high school, Oscar was a proud member of our National Guard. He served honorably for six years. He and Jean eloped and were married during his time in the National Guard with her sister, his mother, and a fellow Guard member as his best man.

Oscar started working in waste management during his teenage years. He started and built many successful companies throughout his lifetime, the latest being Shipyard Waste Solutions in Eliot, ME. He has made many close friends through business that have followed him through the years. He cherished all of these friendships and business relationships greatly.

Oscar's wish was that we didn't hold services. We will hold a celebration of life at a later time. In lieu of flowers please make donations to an organization very close to him St. Jude's Children's Hospital.

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March 16, 2026

Amie Bourne Bellavia posted to the memorial.

March 14, 2026

John Doherty posted to the memorial.

March 14, 2026

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Amie Bourne Bellavia

March 16, 2026

Oscar you were the best!
You will be missed
You gave the be a t hugs!

John Doherty

March 14, 2026

Truly sorry to learn of this now. Condolences to Jean, Kristen, Kim and family. He was one of a kind and a larger than life personality.

Anthony

March 14, 2026

My First job driving in the waste industry

I can say that with out the chance he gave me i probably wouldn't have the career I have now thanks Oscar.
Rest in peace

Todd Stagner

March 14, 2026

I am so sorry to hear the news. Even though I only knew him and Jean a short time I enjoyed him and his.. tell it like it is manner. I know his family and friends will miss him dearly.

Lance Reynolds

March 14, 2026

Oscar was a great and fair man to work for and always talked about family. See you later ole boy say hi to buz for me

Eiras

March 7, 2026

Charles and Holly Eiras

March 7, 2026

Rest In Peace Uncle Oscar!
We are so Heartbroken
Charles and Holly Eiras

Devin white

March 6, 2026

He was a very fair man. Always treated me with respect while working for him at shipyard waste for 5 yrs. Before it was sold. Sorry to the family for there loss.
DEVIN

Gordon Hurtubise

March 5, 2026

Oscar was my good friend and he will be missed. We work together for many years a great guy.

Al Ripa

March 5, 2026

Shocked and saddened to hear of Oscar's passing. What started, many years ago as a business relationship, blossomed into a friendship. He will be sorely missed.
Al Ripa

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