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Pamela S. "Pam" Gray
1954 - 2025
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Pamela Gray Obituary
Pamela was born in Butler on Nov. 18, 1954. Pam was the daughter of the late John C. and Doris M. Vensel Gray.
Pam was a 1972 graduate of Karns City Area High School and earned a degree in art from Community College of Beaver County.
She had been employed in the melt shop at AK Steel in Butler. Pam was an avid animal lover, especially reptiles. She looked forward to spending time with her grandsons. Antiquing and making candies as gifts for others were activities she greatly enjoyed.
Surviving are a daughter, RheaAnn (Angert) Haddox and her husband, Jason, of Cranberry Township. She was affectionately "Grammy" to her two grandsons, who were the light of her life, Max and Matthew Haddox. Also surviving are her siblings, Peggy Rhodes and her husband, Noel, of Butler, Jeffrey Gray, of Parker, and Lori L. Randall and her husband, Kenneth, of Butler; as well as a number of nieces, nephews, and cousins.
GRAY - Friends of Pamela S. "Pam" Gray, who died Wednesday, Oct. 15, 2025, will be received from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. Saturday, Oct. 18, at HILE FUNERAL HOME OF KARNS CITY, 128 Main St., Karns City.
Interment will be with her parents at Bear Creek Cemetery in Petrolia.
Memorial contributions may be made to Orphans of the Storm, P.O. Box 838, Kittanning, PA 16201.
Condolences may be sent by visiting www.hilefh.com.
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Pam and Jeff Shively
Yesterday
In loving memory of a wonderful person. Sorry for your loss.
Tami ( Deal ) McGreevy
October 17, 2025
Gray Family,
My sincere condolences to all of you. Pam had such a big heart, and was quick to laugh, even at herself.
She gave freely, and kindly without hesitation. She was one of the most talkative people I have ever met, but she was pure, genuine and loved life.
Rest in peace Miss Pam
Bernard and Debby Berteotti
October 17, 2025
So sorry to hear of Pam´s passing . Always enjoyed talking to her , she was funny, kind. Her daughter and our Ashlee went to school together . She will be missed . Our deepest sympathy to the Gray families.
Lori S Pentz
October 17, 2025
So sorry for your loss. Pam was such a sweet person. Very caring. I will miss her smile and friendship from work. Her beautiful candy treats she was always sharing.
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