Pamela Queen Obituary
Pamela Sue Queen, born November 10, 1948, in Mishawaka, Indiana, passed away on December 31, 2025, in Harrah, Oklahoma, surrounded by the love of her family.
Pam lived a life centered around the people she cherished most. She found her greatest joy in spending time with her family, creating memories that will continue to live on in the hearts of those who loved her.
She was preceded in death by her father, Alfred Carter; her mother, Vivian Reimland; her brother, Kirk Carter; her sister, Debbie Laplace; and her husband of 56 years, Ronnie Joe Queen.
Pam is survived by her children: daughter Mistie Madden, son Mike Queen and wife Toni, daughter Ronda Morgan and husband DJ, daughter Kelly Queen, and son Jimbob Queen. She also leaves behind many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren, all of whom brought her immense pride and happiness.
Pam’s legacy is one of love, resilience, and devotion to family. She will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
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