Pamela J. Schecher

Pamela J. Schecher obituary, West Long Branch, NJ

Pamela J. Schecher

Pamela Schecher Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Fiore-Buckley Funeral Home - Oakhurst on Jan. 14, 2025.

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Pamela Schecher, age 64, of Oceanport, passed away peacefully in her sleep January 11, 2025. She was born March 15, 1960 in Middletown to Emily and William Gearie. Pamela is survived by her sister and brother-in-law, Joseph & Kimberly Schulz, her three children and their spouses, Gene Schecher Jr. (Jilma Schecher), Tricia Schecher (John Oliveira), Michael Schecher (Kaitlin Dietz), her former husband and life long friend Gene
Schecher and four grandchildren, Audrey, Jack, Luke and Genevieve. She is predeceased by her brother William.
Pamela was a selfless and devoted mother to the very end. She made life magical for her children and grandchildren and remained always playful with a love for exploration. Her cooking, from comfort meals to epic feasts, will never be replicated and always be celebrated.
She will be remembered for her unwavering kindness, her generosity to any and all and her enthusiastic and joyful approach to life. Her wisdom was reliable and constant. Her faith and her love for the Lord gave her strength and purpose, which was an inspiration to her family, friends and so many that she met along the way. Pamela will be forever loved - Speak her name, share the memories, and celebrate her life. A memorial service will be held Wednesday January 15. Visitation from 5:30-6:30 and eulogy at 6:30 at Fiore Funeral Home 236 Monmouth Rd., Oakhurst.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Fulfill, 3300 Route 66, Neptune NJ 07753, or online
at fulfillnj.org. For condolences please visit [email protected]

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Marlene DeMeglio

January 14, 2025

Pam was one of the kindest, most loving, gentle, giving women I have known. She always had a captivating smile on her face & she was full of joy. Pam cherished time with her family. Pam's face would light up when she was with her children & grandchildren. Pam made everyone feel welcome & cared for. I have many many personal memories with Pam. Getting together every Sunday at Searchlight Church, life groups at her home, prayer groups, lunches, gatherings with friends & so many more. I always looked forward to seeing her & her beautiful twinkling eye's. They were the window to her gentle soul. I will miss her beautiful spirit until we meet again. I rejoice that she is with our Creator & our Lord Jesus Christ for all eternity.

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