Pamela Setliff Obituary
She was born on March 20, 1967, in Jefferson City, a daughter to the late August N. and Anna Marie (Schmitz) Helmig.
Pam possessed a tender soul and a gentle heart. She enjoyed her daily conversations with the people in her life, especially the deputies at the Public Administrator's office. "Farwell, dear Pam, your memory will remain, a quiet strength, through joy and anguished pain."
Survivors include her children and one sister.
She was preceded in death by her parents, August and Anna, and brother, Kenny Helmig.
Graveside services and interment will be held at 10:00 a.m. Tuesday, February 10, 2026, at Longview Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions are suggested to a charity of the donor's choice.
Funeral arrangements are under the care of Freeman Mortuary.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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