Pat Henshaw Obituary
Frances "Patricia" Henshaw passed away peacefully on December 9, 2025 at the age of 89.
Beloved wife of the late Raymond M. Henshaw and cherished son Thomas R. Henshaw. Survived by her children, David (Pam) Henshaw, Darlene (Bill) Henshaw, Bonnie Henshaw (daughter-in-law), Mark (Monica) Henshaw and Paul (Susan) Henshaw; brother-in-law Arthur Sala, niece Barbara Fritz, nephews Brian Sala, Brent (Jenny) Sala. Grandchildren, Ryan (Michelle) Schirmer, Amanda, Katie, Brandon, Mitchell and Tyler Henshaw. Great grandchildren Adrianna Irwin, Elijah Cash, Luke and Zachary Schirmer, and many cousins, friends and in-laws here and in Buffalo. Predeceased by her parents Frank and Martha Pajak, sister Joan Sala, brothers/sisters-in-law Joseph and Lorraine Jezioro, Henry and Dolores Winkowski.
Pat had a lengthy career at Mercury Print and made many friends throughout her 20 plus years of employment.
We would like to extend our sincerest thanks and gratitude to the employees, who became family, at the Addisons of Parklands. Especially Martha, Michelle, Jim and Chef Mark, you were loved so much by our Mom and the entire Henshaw family.
Calling hours will be held on Monday, December 15, 2025, from 4pm-7pm at New Comer Funeral Home, Westside Chapel 2636 Ridgeway Ave, Rochester, NY 14626.
Friends and family are invited to attend the Funeral Mass for Pat on Tuesday, December 16th, 2025, 11 am at St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church, 55 Martha Street, Spencerport, NY 14559 with a Celebration of life to follow at Ferris Goodridge Post 330, 691 Trimmer Rd, Spencerport, NY 14559.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Ferris Goodridge Post #330, 691 Trimmer Road, Spencerport, NY, 14559.
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