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Patricia M. Messina
Patricia M. Messina (Patti) of Bridgeport, CT passed away on Friday, August 22, 2025 peacefully at home at the age of 93. She was the loving wife of the late Edward A. Messina, Sr.
Patti was born in Bridgeport to the late Carl and Mae Burns D'Louhy and graduated from Stratford High School. She was also predeceased by three brothers: Carl D'Louhy, Robert D'Louhy and Sidney D'louhy.
Patti was a force who spoke her mind and tried to use it to better the lives of others around her. Whether she was walking the corridors of Bridgeport City Hall, attending civic meetings or taking on a letter-writing campaign in the local papers, Patti was always there fighting for a better quality of life in her City and State.
A talented artist, Patti was a published poet, and she shared her thoughts and view of the world through her poetry. It was frustrating in her later years not to be able to see or write well enough to put her words on paper.
Patti is survived by her beloved sons, Edward A. Messina, Jr. and his wife Anne of Trumbull, and Richard A. Messina and his husband Peter Lyddy of Sarasota, FL. Also surviving is a daughter, Gail Riccitelli of Branford; a sister, Sally Valiante of Norwalk; 6 grandchildren, several great-grandchildren and several nieces and nephews.
In 2000 Patti had the pleasure of having a star in the universe named for her. So, sometimes when you look above you might just catch that twinkle in Patti's Irish Eyes.
A Mass of Christian burial will be held on Wednesday, August 27, 2025, at 10:30 a.m. at St. Andrew's Church, 395 Anton St., Bridgeport, CT. Interment at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Trumbull, CT to follow.
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Published by Connecticut Post from Aug. 25 to Aug. 26, 2025.

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Cathy Kravec

August 28, 2025

Dear Ed, my deepest condolences. Pat was my favorite client and became one of my dearest friends. She was like family to me. I will miss our long phone conversations, jokes and her wisdom. I loved her very much.
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Donna

August 27, 2025

Dear Ed and Rick, I was saddened to read about your mom´s passing. I was always so fond of her and she was so kind to me. She was a wonderful woman! She will now be reunited with her beloved husband, Ed Sr. May her beautiful soul rest in peace.

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Missy Peltz

August 26, 2025

I was so sorry to hear of Aunt Pat's passing. Please know I am thinking of you and your family at this time. Sending love, comfort and peace.

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Karen Anderson Karng

August 25, 2025

Eddie, so sorry for your loss. Please convey my deepest sympathies to your family
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