Patrick S. Aiello

Patrick S. Aiello obituary

Patrick S. Aiello

Patrick Aiello Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Spencer Funeral Home - East Hampton on Nov. 25, 2025.

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Patrick S. Aiello, 36, of East Hampton passed away Thursday November 20, 2025. Born Dec. 28, 1988 in Hartford he was the son of Robert Aiello and the late Rosemary (Feeney) Aiello of East Hampton. Patrick was a 2007 graduate of East Hampton High School and had been a parishioner of St. Patrick Church. Besides his father Patrick is survived by his brothers and their wives Matthew and Kara Aiello of East Hampton and Daniel and Jezinia Aiello of East Hampton, along with his 3 nephews and his niece Ian, Nathan, Julian and Lailah. Funeral services will be private at the convenience of the family and burial will be in the family plot in Lake View cemetery. In Lieu of flowers please send a donation in Patrick's honor to shatterproof @ www.shatterproof.org

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