Patrick N. McGrain

Chili: November 17, 2025. Patrick is predeceased by his parents, Richard & Marion McGrain; infant son, Christopher McGrain; brothers, Richard McGrain, Michael McGrain, & Roger McGrain. He is survived by his wife of 57 years, Linda Lee (Emanuele) McGrain; children, Patrick (Julie) McGrain, Brian McGrain, Heather (Carlos) Rodriguez; niece, Toni Lynn Rogers; grandchildren, Colin McGrain, Brady McGrain, Imani McGrain, Anthony McGrain, Qadir Wilson, & Melina Mercado; sister-in-law, Rosanne McGrain; special friends, Richard Kijowski & Raymond Hewitt; several nieces, nephews, cousins & dear friends.
Patrick's life story will be shared during his visitation at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane (Between 390 & Long Pond Rd.) Monday, November 24th, 3-7 PM. His funeral mass will be celebrated, Tuesday, November 25th, 11AM at Parish of the Holy Family, 4100 Lyell Rd. Immediately following, Patrick will be laid to rest in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the School of the Holy Childhood, 100 Groton Parkway, Rochester, NY 14623 in his memory.
In Loving Memory of Patrick McGrain
Patrick McGrain was a family man at heart-joyful, witty, and always ready with a laugh. He lived a life filled with fun, friendship, and unwavering love for those around him.
Pat embraced every passion with his whole heart. A proud Tennessee Squire since 1978, he championed Jack Daniels with genuine enthusiasm, flashing his membership card whether you asked or not. He even secured a square inch of Lynchburg soil and proudly brought others into the "elite club."
He loved sports in every form. Bowling nights were a tradition that lasted decades, from men's leagues to senior leagues. Golf, though, was his lifelong escape-never about the score, always about the company. His yearly trips to Florida with "the guys" were less about getting better and more about enjoying the sun, the laughs, and the friendships. He was a lifelong Yankees fan who lived and died by the pinstripes, celebrating their many championships with pride-while also faithfully cheering for the New York Giants, who gave him far fewer reasons to celebrate but never shook his loyalty.
Pat worked hard and followed opportunity wherever it led. He started in a garage as a teenager, eventually buying the shop with his brother Mike. After five years he shifted gears into sales, where he became known simply as "The Boxman"-first at Lawless Container, then Macmillan Bloedel, and later as a national sales manager before returning to his roots in boxes until he retired at 72 years old.
His greatest pride was always his family. He married his childhood sweetheart, Linda Lee in 1968-"marrying far above his pay grade," as he liked to say. They built a life together on Elsinore Street, and later on Daunton Drive for 47 years, where they raised Patrick Jr., Brian, and Heather. He was a steadfast presence at baseball games, floor hockey practices, and dance recitals. He coached, he cheered, and he guided his children with patience, humor, and love. Pat was blessed with five grandchildren and a bonus grandchild-his great-niece-each of whom brought him immense joy. They were his pride, his delight, and the next chapter of a family he adored.
Pat was a man of simple joys-snacks, country music sung proudly off-key, and tools he enthusiastically taught his children to use. He was the dad everyone's friends wanted to be around, the man who brought the kids to OTB with a wink and a "don't tell Mom." Those secret adventures became treasured memories, the kind only a fun-loving father could create.
He loved camping trips across New York State, leveling the pop-up camper with precision before building the perfect campfire. He cherished Sunday mornings at church and always began meals with grace. He insisted he didn't like dessert-a lie no one believed-but enjoyed every bite anyway.
Pat believed wholeheartedly in luck-faithfully playing the lottery and betting on the ponies, convinced a win was just around the corner. Even when he didn't win, he never lost hope.
Above all, he was a loving husband, father, and friend. His humor, kindness, and devotion shaped a lifetime of memories and a legacy of laughter and love. Patrick McGrain lived fully, loved deeply, and leaves behind a family forever grateful to have called him theirs.
Public Viewing:
Monday, November 24, 2025
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Bartolomeo & Perotto Funeral Home
1411 Vintage Lane
Rochester, NY 14626
Mass:
Tuesday, November 25, 2025
11:00 am - 12:00 pm
Parish of the Holy Family
4100 Lyell Rd.
Rochester, NY 14606
Interment:
Tuesday, November 25, 2025
12:30 pm - 1:00 pm
Holy Sepulchre Cemetery
2461 Lake Ave
Rochester, New York 14612