Patrick Kevin Scarry
Patrick Kevin Scarry
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Patrick Kevin Scarry, of St. Paul, MO passed away peacefully Saturday, October 19, 2024. Born November 26, 1952, to Robert and Bernice (nee Bedo) Scarry in St. Louis. Beloved husband of Alice Scarry (nee Wilke) Father of Annie (Jim) Bruno, Robert Scarry and Katie (Paul) Gilbert. Grandfather of Cole (Allie) Bruno, Kerry (Dakota) Mace, Riley and Leah Gilbert. Great-Grandfather of Loralei, Emeri and Beckett Mace, and Archie Bruno. Siblings Mike (Nan), Bob (Deb) and Bill Scarry. In-laws, Mel (Diane) Wilke, Mary Ann Hoelting, Art (Cindy) Wilke and Joan Wilke, and Many Nieces and Nephews.
His children, grandchildren, family, and friends meant the world to him. He was also a faithful member of St. Paul Catholic Church.
He is preceded in death by his parents, Robert and Bernice Scarry; in-laws, John Sr., and Marie (nee Schulte) Wilke; son, Kevin Scarry; sister, Sharon Akers; in-laws, John Wilke Jr., Ruth Wilke (Schuette), Father Jim Wilke, Mike Hoelting; and nephew, Ryan Scarry.
In his younger days he loved to play slow pitch ball, wiffleball, and bowling and fishing with his friends and coaching his daughters CYC soccer team.
His passion was music. He was an avid guitarist and especially loved The Beatles and Allman Brothers Band. He was known to build computers and help repair computers for friends and family. He also enjoyed, working in the yard and thoroughly enjoyed walking his son’s dog, Vivian, daily.
Memorial Donations may be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, Arbor Day Foundation, or the American Cancer Society.
311 Wood St., O'Fallon, MO 63366
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