Patrick "Pud" Spilski

Patrick "Pud" Spilski obituary, Neenah, WI

Patrick "Pud" Spilski

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12

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Westgor Funeral Home

Menasha, WI

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12

Celebration of Life

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Menasha, WI

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Patrick Spilski Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Westgor Funeral Home - Menasha on Feb. 5, 2026.
Patrick "Pud" Spilski, age 67, passed away unexpectedly at his home on Wednesday, February 4, 2026. He was born December 4, 1958, in Neenah, son of the late Thomas and Colleen (Merrill) Spilski.

Patrick graduated from Menasha High School in 1977. He worked at the Neenah Movie Theatre for many years. He was then employed as a Sgt. Corrections Officer, working at prisons all over Wisconsin. He retired after 30 years of service.

Patrick loved toys and always said: "whoever dies with the most toys, wins". He enjoyed comic books, motorcycles, and watching Jeopardy.

Survivors include his seven siblings: Mary Spilski, Ellen Kissinger, Susan "Tutty" (Bubba) Smith, Mike (Gale) Spilski, Thomas "Franken" (Tara) Spilski, Kathleen "Phil" (Rope) Lesperance, Ann Spilski; nieces and nephews: Heather Marks, Robert & Corey Smith, Colleen Spilski, Rocki Gaab, Jody Siegel, Tyler, Brody & Carver Spilski, Matt Willems, Jill Gibson.

Patrick was preceded in death by two nephews: Christopher Marks and John Kissinger; and three brothers-in-law: Mike Heckner, John Kissinger Sr., and Paul Leroy.

A Celebration of Life will be held Thursday, February 12, 2026, at Menasha's Westgor Funeral Home at 6:00 PM. Visitation from 4:00PM until the time of service. In lieu of flowers a memorial is being established.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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Upcoming Events

Feb

12

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Westgor Funeral Home

Menasha, WI

Send Flowers

Feb

12

Celebration of Life

6:00 p.m.

Westgor Funeral Home

Menasha, WI

Send Flowers

Services provided by

Westgor Funeral Home - Menasha