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Paul Cilinski Obituary
AGE: 56 • Brigantine
Paul Stephen Cilinski, age 56, of Brigantine, NJ, passed away after a brave battle with cancer, on Sunday, December 11th, in Toms River, New Jersey.
Paul was born on March 24, 1960 in Alexandria, VA. He was the fourth of six children born to the late Catherine E. (Altobelli) and Edward P. Cilinski. Paul was raised in Alexandria, but relocated to New Jersey 33 years ago, where he began establishing himself as a popular local musician. His vibrant personality, friendly demeanor, and wonderful connection with his audience has helped him create one of the largest and most loyal fan bases at the Jersey Shore. Paul performed a wide variety of music, featuring Jimmy Buffet and James Taylor, in addition to hundreds of rock, pop, and country songs spanning from the 1960's to present day. Paul performed as the opening act for several national acts, including: The Pure Prarie League; The Go Go's; Todd Rundgren; Southside Johnny; and Nils Lofgren, and was recently featured in the book, "Great Jersey Musicians," (2013). In addition to performing at many popular local venues, Paul also performed regularly in the off season in Key West, Florida, St. Maartin, and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Paul's songs are a reflection of the man he was, and the life he lived, uplifting, inspiring, and filled with love. The beauty in his words will continue to fill us with the incredible joy he felt for life, and the indelible mark he left on the hearts of all who knew and loved him, for many years to come. He is, and always will be, a Jersey Shore Legend.
Paul is survived by his beloved wife Justine; two loving daughters, Carly and Emily Cilinski; five siblings; Michael Cilinski and his wife Sara, Rev. Robert Cilinski, Joseph Cilinski, Mary Ann Dunn and her husband Greg, Edward Cilinski, Jr.; his beloved mother-in-law, Josette Peterson, two sisters-in-law, Denise Weber and Deneen White; 3 nieces, 3 nephews, and many other relatives, friends, and fans.
Visitation will be from 2:00-4:00 p.m., and 6:00-9:00 p.m. Wednesday at D'Elia Funeral Home, 1300 Vermont Avenue, Lakewood, NJ 08701. Funeral mass will be celebrated 10:30 a.m., Thursday at St. Mary of the Lake Church, 43 Madison Avenue, Lakewood, NJ 08701. Burial will follow at St. Mary of the Lake cemetery, Lakewood NJ. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Paul's name to the Friendly Sons of the Shillelagh (community organization), 815 16th Avenue, Belmar, New Jersey 07719. For further information or to post a tribute online, please visit www.deliafuneralhome.com
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December 22, 2016
When I was going thru chemo, Paul's music cheered me up. He always played my favorite James Taylor song when Jim & I came in the door to see him. We are so sad that such a wonderful human being has left us and will miss him like no other. We love you Pauly. Holly and Jim
Jesse Le Vine
December 17, 2016
Paul was all that was right about living - and he did an amazing job of spreading the message of the celebration of life. He brought sunshine and generosity into my life and my family's - whether it was just listening to the beautiful music on a warm summer night or his performing at our family benefits for our daughters. Way, way missed. But, he's in our hearts.
Frank E Pobutkiewicz
December 16, 2016
Summer will never be the same without Paul's larger than life voice and contagious smile. Every clam and beer will remind me of his friendly personality and welcoming spirit.
Diane Fox
December 16, 2016
As I prepare to make my first batch of eggnog, I will always remember you, Paul. Tonight, Friday, I would have delivered him his personal mason jar full at Connolly. He would stop, abandon whatever he was drinking, and announce to all that he was about to drink the best eggnog he's ever had. When I have my first sip, it will be with cheers to Paul. And, thank you Paul, for our duets. "When will I be loved", (with an occasional Mockingbird thrown in) almost every Friday I was at Connolly. Your harmony made it all the better. Thanks for letting me sing with you. As someone else here commented, prayers to Paul and all people fighting, losing, and sometimes winning, the cancer battle. Justine, Emily, Carly, family, we are so sorry for your loss. Diane and Ken.
Bruce Hoard
December 15, 2016
The Valley Boys lost a good friend. Have a cold one for us.
Teresa (Kirch) Carson
December 14, 2016
I remember Paul as such a friendly, funny, outgoing guy in high school; obviously he carried and shared his joy throughout his adult life. Good for you, Paul! You lived a life filled with friends and love. God bless you and keep you.
Labor Day at the Columns
Martha Pace
December 14, 2016
Deborah Westen
December 14, 2016
Dearest Emily and Carly ,
We are so very sad for the lose of your Dad . Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time!
With heartfelt sympathy,
Debbie and Tom Westen
Martha Weber Jaffe
December 14, 2016
As a friend of Paul's from Groveton high school, I did not know the adult Paul. I only knew the 16-18 year-old version of a really great guy. I believe he was the only guy at Groveton those years who had talent on the school stage (Remember Godspell?) as well as the football field. With that much diverse talent, he could have been a snob but he was not. My condolences to all the other "Valley Boys" and to all who knew and loved Paul.
Sincerely, Martha Weber Jaffe
Lauren McCaffrey
December 14, 2016
Such a beautiful, caring person! He was truly a treasure and will always have a special place in my heart! My deepest, heart-felt sympathies to all......We lost a wonderful man too soon!! XOXO
Mary Dunshee
December 14, 2016
My heartfelt sympathies to Paul's loving wife, children and entire family. Paul was one of those rare people who made everyone in the room feel special and as though they were his best friend. I will always remember his kind nature, wonderful voice and love of life. He will be deeply missed. The Jersey Shore will never be quite the same without him. Rest in peace, our dear friend. Heaven got another angel this week,and this one has a guitar in hand and smile on his face. xo
Kim Pobutkiewicz
December 14, 2016
Growing up, the summer always consisted of going to listen to you play with my parents. As I got older, you became part of my summer at the beach and no summer was complete without going to a happy hour to hear you play or hearing your songs resonate across my parents deck. You will be deeply missed and I know that you are already strumming away on your guitar up in heaven.
December 14, 2016
To the Cilinski Family, my condolences.
Paul Mahon
Me and Paul at Seacrets in OCMD
Dave Gruber
December 13, 2016
May you rest in eternal peace Paul Celinski. Your kind does not come along very often in this world. A good man to all: friend and stranger, young and old, rich and poor. I am so glad this past October we were able to spend one last pleasant time together on a pleasant day, in a pleasant localenear the beach and palm trees you so often sang about. I will not soon forget it my friend
Bill & Pat Nagle
December 13, 2016
Our deepest sympathies to Justine, Emily, Carly and the rest of your family. Happy hour, no matter where we live, will never be the same.
We met Paul about 25 years ago through out daughter Kimberly who became a fan at the Norwood and knew him before we did. Not only did he become a friend but so many other people that we met through him.
We have many great memories over the years including the New Years Eve celebrations with family and friends. Even though we now live in SC we were able to make it last year. New Years Eve will certainly be much sadder.
But a happier memory involves our now 8 year old grandson Kevin. From an early age he loved Paul's music and sang along to Kimberly's CD in the car. His favorite is Banana Boat which he always asked Paul to sing - which, of course, he did.
RIP Paul. Our family will always remember and miss you.
Denise Moyer
December 13, 2016
Living in Belmar in the 90s gave me the opportunity to spend many Saturday nights at Paddy Macs on 18th Ave listening to Paul. He always welcomed my husband, Henry and me by name, and even learned to play 'School Boy Heart' by Jimmy Buffett at Henry's request. Paul - thank you for always making us feel special. You will forever hold a place in our hearts. May you Rest In Peace and entertain in Heaven as beautifully as you did at the Jersey Shore.
Ron Favale
December 13, 2016
Justine, I'm sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Please accept my condolences.
Frank and Gloria Pobutkiewicz
December 13, 2016
The Jersey Shore was gifted with Paul. His music, his personality, his genuine love for life and family. He touched our hearts in so many ways. Will always remember the good times at the shore, in St. Maarten and family affairs! Rest In Peace our dear friend.
Patrick Killeen
December 13, 2016
Such a positive-filled presence at all times which touched countless people. Too many good memories to pick from. Will be missed by all.
PG
December 13, 2016
So few are driven to take the wrong turns and make the unfortunate business decisions to reach our destiny. An Ambassador to the pursuit of happiness, who went to work each day to make people smile, I salute you Paul for a job well done. Justine, Carly and Emily, I pray for your strength and understanding as you savor the joy he was called upon to deliver.
Jim Shemanski
December 13, 2016
So sorry to hear about Paul's illness and passing. I remember being at his Baptism. I'm glad he spent so much time doing what he loved and doing it well.
Bob Johnstone
December 13, 2016
RIP Paul.
Thanks for a lot of great times and memories.
Audrey Lewis
December 13, 2016
RIP Paul you were awesome we had so much fun over the years being part of your band. Spent lots of time with you at Ralwiggies back in time and you are surely missed. My condolences to the family. He was a great guy!!!!My hubby passed away in August maybe now you two will have some fun...
Sonja Looney
December 13, 2016
We will miss you so much Paul. Happy Hour at the Shore will never be the same! Thanks for the memories. Love you, Sonja&Gene
Sweet Chin Music
December 13, 2016
It was a pleasure playing with you throughout the last few years. Sundays at The Columns will never be the same. RIP Paul.
Denise Chaoub
December 13, 2016
Paul .. my brother Tom lesiak so loved you .. you had wonderful friendship. I always enjoyed seeing his photos of all of you at the jersey shore. I'm sending prayers to,your family .. you will be missed by so many . Rip
Sue Thompson
December 13, 2016
Justine & family....There wasn't a person left untouched by Paul's overwhelming and loving personality who always brought everyone together when you heard him play! I have so many great memories and have had so many laughs shared with Paul over the years while living in Avon by the Sea...that twinkle in his eye and his teddy bear hug to welcome you would get you every time! Treasured memories always .... God certainly did gain an Angel with a guitar! My deepest prayers and sympathies to you and your family. He will live on in our hearts and minds!
Susan Munro
December 13, 2016
So many fond memories of seeing Paul at the Norwood in Avon and Bar A in Belmar, a legend has been called home, RIP Paul :(
Randy Hawkins
December 13, 2016
RIP Paul, you were a wonder. Always with a BIG smile and happy talk. You made everyone feel at ease. And you were everyone's friend. Prayers to all the family. Love you big guy.
Cathy & Jerry Alternative Car Care
December 13, 2016
When we opened our business in 1996 Paul was one of the first people to walk in. I remember his bright smile, wishing us the best of luck and welcoming us to the area. He remained a customer over the years even when we moved across town. He was one of the nicest people we ever had the pleasure to know. We would go to Connelly Station in Belmar to hear him play and he would always say hello and shake hands. Truly one of a kind. R.I.P Paul you will be missed by many.
Maryann and Paul Tomaselli
December 13, 2016
Thank you Paul for being a breathe of fresh air and Summer in Winter.... Saw you many times at Moores and in the dead of a snow storm you made it feel like we were walking onto the beach... RIP our Jersey Shore friend..
Lee Mrowicki
December 13, 2016
One of the most popular solo club performers that NJ has ever known has left us way too early. God bless him and keep him in His Light...bless his wife, children, family and friends who loved Paul as a good person and a great performer.
NJ will miss him!
Bridget Nocera (Fitzgerald)
December 13, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with his wife, children, and family. Paul was a good friend of my late step- father John Davis. I'll always remember my 1st Jimmy Buffett concert with my parents, the Pizza King Crew, and Paul in VA. We all met and had breakfast with Jimmie Buffett and the Coral Reefers the next day at our hotel. An experience I''all never forget.
The Jersey Shore will miss your sound and smiling face. R.I.P
December 13, 2016
God is now in control and He loves you and cares for so many condolences and comfort for the family and friends. 2CORT 1:3-6
donna trasente
December 13, 2016
To the sweetest man I'll ever come to know. Thank you for the impact you made on mine and so many other lives. You were a true gem. Always a pleasure and joy to be around. Your personality, talent, and beautiful heart were infectious. I'm honored to have met you and proud to call you my friend. You will forever be missed and will live on in our hearts. Keep singing and smiling, Darling. Till we meet again, Cheers. God bless and keep your family in the palm of his hands and bring them peace and comfort during this difficult time. And you keep good watch over us our new guardian angel.
Karen & Dave Grabowski
December 13, 2016
Paul was someone who brought so much to so many. He will be sorely missed by his family, friends and fans. Rest in peace.
Dan Turi
December 13, 2016
I remember when I would walk into where Paul was playing. He'd say Hello with his eyes when he was in the middle of a song. Then right after he would say "I've got your Two Pina Coladas coming up". He knew me and the song I'd always ask for. He was one of a kind. Warm summer evenings by the water won't be the same without him.
Rich Meyer
December 12, 2016
Paul touched so many people, in so many ways, and has left the world a better place for it. He gave the gift of his music and his love. He was an angel here on earth, and now he will continue as an angel in heaven. I will miss you my friend and musical brother. Healing thoughts and prayers to Justine and the entire Cilinki family.
Rich Hulse
December 12, 2016
For those of you that hadn't had the chance to meet Paul, or catch a " Happy Hour" at Tradewinds, a Friday, Saturday at The Norwood,or Sunday at the Columns. Paul was able to reach into the heart of his audience. His passion for music was astounding, if you enjoy acoustic music, YouTube Paul Cilinski listen to his covers and his music. A few of my favorites are "Weekend Run" and "Something in the Water" raise a glass to him this evening, and pray for the families that are fighting cancer and for the ones that have lost the battle. Rest Easy my Friend!
Jessica Cubberley
December 12, 2016
Old friends are never forgotten and live forever in our memories. I'm sure you're singing with the angels in Heaven. You will be greatly missed. Gone too soon. You've touch so many lives, including mine. God bless and prayers to your wife, Justine and to both your families.
Noreen (Demmel) Haus
December 12, 2016
So sad to hear about the passing of Paul. He was an amazingly talented man. I took guitar lessons from him in the late 1970's after 5 o'clock mass on Saturdays at St. Louis Catholic Church in Alexandria, Virginia, where we grew up. After high school, we loved to go listen to him play at The Ground Round and other venues in Alexandria. Paul was one of the good guys - handsome, talented, and kind. He will be missed.
Alice Meehan
December 12, 2016
Paul Cilinski Justine Peterson-Cilinski So many thoughts go through my head today. Discovered Paul Cilinski and his tambourines and moroccos in the early 1990's. Our beach house was up the block from the Norwood inn and all of our beach house girls would meet up at the Norwood Inn on Friday nights when we arrived. I had many a bruise from smacking my tambourine too hard. Enjoyed also bringing friends to hear Paul's rendition of a "happy birthday". Then, I would occasionally go to Hudsons in Hoboken on a cold winter night to hear Paul play there. I introduced Paul to my brothers JT Meehan and Bill Meehan, my parents, my sisters in law, Andrea and Meghan, a multitude of friends, my ex-husband (Paul played at his "Pirate looks at 40" Birthday), my cousins Lois Sparrock Kim O'Connor Kelly, my niece -Amanda Patricia and nephew- Anthony Meehan, Lisa Buschmann, Kelly Hering and Geoff Ward. So many Friday nights, even off season, I would literally ( not just in the song) be trying to 'beat the traffic' to get home to see Paul at Connolly Station. I met so many friends there, and we all carry a piece of your heart with us Paul. You always had a smile and whomever walked in, you always knew a face, and their name and their favorite song. My favorite "Paul song" was "Sweet Melissa" and I hear You playing it in my head tonight and will always think of you when I hear that and A dozen other songs. It was a pleasure growing 'older but not up' with your music and a pleasure to have you and Justine in my life. I enjoyed "crashing the honeymoon" when it turned out you and Justine had just eloped and were in Key West the same week as me. May your new life in Heaven be forever a "Weekend Run...the wind at your back, sailing in the sun...." heading to Margaritaville. Rest in eternal peace my friend. You will be greatly missed.
Rich Hulse
December 12, 2016
Just over a year ago I met a friend for a party on Brennan 6 at JSUMC. He was surrounded by his family and friends after a difficult card he was dealt. During that visit, and a few after that, we discussed the summer venues. We discussed taking on some early gigs on Sunday afternoon. He played those Sunday afternoons battling through the hell that he had faced on days prior, knowing he had to battle the flames in days to come. This morning he passed away peacefully surrounded by his family, rest easy Paul Cilinski... The "weekend run" will never be the same!
Brendan and Laura Gavan
December 12, 2016
Paul was the quintessential friend to all. His smile, his talent, and his love of life radiated on the shores of the East Coast! Summer days/evenings won't be quite the same. We hope you knew how much your music touched our souls. Our condolences to Justine, his girls, and extended family. xo
Nicole Minnick
December 12, 2016
For you Paul!I thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the years spent with you. Meeting for the first time at the pub at Brookdale, 26 years ago. Ripple was my request.... and every time ever since.
Conversations and singing are the memories... and I have many. Thank you.
knowing you are no longer in pain, warms my heart.
"If my words did glow with the gold of sunshine
And my tunes were played on the harp unstrung
Would you hear my voice come through the music
Would you hold it near as it were your own?"
You will be missed, I love you.... I feel as if I'm 18 again,
Justine ... We are so sorry....
Tom and Nicole Minnick
James McCaffrey
December 12, 2016
In 1985 Paul learned and played and obscure Dennis Wilson song "Forever" and played it at Pat's Thirty Acres for my marriage to the beautiful Lauren Nikola. Ever after,whenever I walked in to a venue where Paul was playing, guaranteed, the next song was a Beach Boys tune. Just seeing Paul anywhere gave my heart a jump as his positivity resonated throughout the crowd. I thank his parents and family for providing an individual who provided such joy to so many. His loss hurts bad, yet is tempered by the immeasurable great memories...
Bill Lindsay
December 12, 2016
God Bless Paul Cilinski and his family ... a wonderful and talented man taken far too soon . He will be missed ... and already is !
BILL LINDSAY
Lois Connor
December 12, 2016
Rest in Peace, Paul. My Granddaughter, Riley, sang with Paul twice---a Bob Dylan song, "Tangled Up In Blue"---Paul made my 12 yr old granddaughter feel so special!! Her parents, Terence and Ericka Connor, and Mike and I will always remember the special moments Paul gave us.
Paul DiMarco and family
December 12, 2016
Justine, Emily, Carly, Fr. Bob, and the rest of the Cilinski Family- please accept our deepest sympathies for the loss of your husband, father, brother, and son-in-law. He was always a special friend while we grew up as kids in Hybla Valley. Playing sports, running around the neighborhood, and being a Valley Boy as a group of friends are memories that will never be forgotten. He always seemed to be the center hub of our group. While he left this life early, these memories will live on forever. God Bless our friend and fellow Valley Boy!
Adrienne Coppola
December 12, 2016
We lost our dear friend and God got another angel..with a guitar instead of a harp. God bless you Paul... watch over us and know the Jersey shore will be missing your wonderful music and joyful spirit. Play loud up there...maybe we'll be lucky enough to hear a note or two...
Kathy Golub
December 12, 2016
The day the music died. Rest in peace thanks for all the great music
Donna and Jim Neary
December 12, 2016
Our most sincere condolences to Justine, Carly, Emily and the entire Cilinski Family on the loss of our friend.
It is because of Paul that we met, he played beautiful music at our wedding ceremony and then again at our reception. We will not forget all the good times we shared. Rest In Peace friend.
walter friedauer
December 12, 2016
RIP PAUL ; YOUR VOICE WILL ECHO THROUGH THE CANYONS OF MY MIND ............. BIG WALLY
Steve Roscher
December 12, 2016
Bob,
Paul and your family have been in my prayers. May he rest in peace.
Steve Roscher
Ron Joy
December 12, 2016
Thank you for 20 years of pure joy! We celebrate your life because you lived and loved life - and helped everyone else feel the same. You did exactly what you wanted to do for a living - you loved it - it was your calling - and you ended your shows proclaiming "I love my job!" How many people can make that claim?
God better rest up and plan properly because he's in for a 4-5 hour show with no breaks!
You will always be in our hearts!
donna trasente
December 12, 2016
To the sweetest man I'll ever know. Thank you for the impact you made on mine and so many lives. You were a pleasure and joy to be around. I'm honored to have met you and proud to call you my friend. You will forever be missed and will live on in all of our hearts through all of the beautiful memories. Keep singing and smiling, my darling. Till we meet again, Cheers!!. God Bless and keep your family in the palm of his hands and you keep good watch over us our new guardian angel!!
Bob Bass
December 12, 2016
Justine, my thoughts and prayers are with you and Paul's families at this very difficult time. Paul has touched so many people with his songs and friendship. I am proud to say Paul is my friend and has meant a lot to me. I will miss him.
Janetleigh Myers
December 12, 2016
Some people come into our lives, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never the same. Our happy hours will never be the same as Paul put the "happy" in them with his music, friendship, and love! RIP sweet man, until we meet again, in Heaven Happy Hour Pub! Cheers!
Tom & Joanne Hedinger
December 12, 2016
Today the Jersey Shore lost a beloved artist. Summers at the shore will never be the same. He brought so much joy to everyone who ever met him. While his performances on stage, were so engaging, it paled, by comparison, to his personality when you met him.
Close to 30 years ago I met him while he was playing at the Norwood Inn. We became friends immediately that night. Over the years we traveled, laughed, cried and helped each other through the good times and the hard times (wish I could have done something to help with this one). There are to many stories to express here but they will live on forever in my mind.
I will miss him dearly. RIP Paul Cilinski
My heart hurts for you Justine, Carly & Emily. You all, were his angels.
Now he is yours. XOXO
Today the Jersey Shore lost a legend.
TODAY I LOST A FRIEND.
Jack Santos
December 12, 2016
Paul....you will continue to live through all the great memories and all the songs that we hear that remind us of the many days/nights where we would come, have a few drinks, and get away from the world with you...rest in peace my friend...
Noelle Frenzel
December 12, 2016
Rest In Peace Paul.. I know you are now entertaining the angels in heaven.. Prayers and thoughts to your family. God Bless...
Bill Bonhag
December 12, 2016
To the Family of Paul, I have spent the majority part of my life in Spring Lake and Belmar, Paul was a wonderful man, a great entertainer/ musician and a beautiful human being. I enjoyed to the max Paul's music. We always had great times. Paul will not be forgotten, rest peacefully my friend and I can hear your music now
Alex Kowalski
December 12, 2016
Godspeed and God Bless you Paul for all the love and joy you brought to so many with your talent, generosity, and spirit.
Jim Reynolds
December 12, 2016
Our friend left us today, he was our friend. He welcomed us when we came in, he entertained us and he thanked us for coming when we left. He knew our name, our girlfriends name, our boyfriends name, our husbands our wives, he knew us. He made us feel special because he was special. Our friend left us today and I will miss him.
Timothy Williams
December 12, 2016
Will continue keeping you and the family in our thoughts and prayers. Paul was a Great Loving Person. R.I.P. my FRIEND! "And now it's Five O'Clock Somewhere and Happy Hour is calling my name."
Cheers,
Paul
https://youtu.be/7BVZNDHCo8A
Ralph Williams
December 12, 2016
Rest in Peace my friend!
Justine & family my thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. He was such an amazing and loving person. He will be deeply missed...
Donna & Michael Ortiz
December 12, 2016
You will always be in our hearts Paul! So grateful you finally met your true love with Justine! We will miss you terribly. Until we meet again in my cheesehead, which you always teased me about, I will cheer on your Redskins for you! They won for you yesterday! Stay on that weekend run up there! Love you and God Bless!!
Donna & Michael Ortiz
December 12, 2016
We will always cherish our friendship with Paul, he will be in our hearts forever! We are so grateful that he finally found his true love with Justine, and her wonderful family! Paul was a very loving and great father to his two daughters! We will miss you terribly my friend, the shore will never be the same. Until we meet again in my Cheesehead, which you always teased me about, I promise to cheer your Redskins on too! I know you will be on a perpetual weekend run up there! God Bless!!
Don Smith
December 12, 2016
REST IN PEACE!
Thanks for the memories & good times!
You were the True Jersey Shore Legend
A true good friend!
Good Bless! See you on the other side!
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