Paula J. Murray

Paula J. Murray obituary

Paula J. Murray

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Mar

6

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10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc.

3325 Winton Road South, Rochester, NY 14623

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Mar

6

Memorial service

12:00 p.m.

Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc.

3325 Winton Road South, Rochester, NY 14623

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Paula Murray Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc. - Rochester on Feb. 21, 2026.
Paula J. Murray passed peacefully surrounded by loved ones on February 17, 2026 at age 89, at Aurora House Comfort Care Home.

Paula is predeceased by her parents Harold Cady, Myrtle (Cady) Shull; in-laws William (Sara) Murray, her beloved husband Larry, sister-in-law Kathy Shull, daughter-in-law Ellen Murray, son-in-law James McIntosh, grand-son Eric.

She is survived by Steven Murray (Sandra), Shaun (Susie) Murray, Scott (Kim) Murray, Sue McIntosh, Sandy (Michael) Lyons-Jackson, her grand-children (Steve, Jeana, Kyle, Shaun, Rachael, Megan, Shannon, Kaitlin, Kris, Matt), her brother John (Evelyn) Shull, and many great-grandchildren and great great-grandchild.

Paula raised her 5 children with endless love, support, and continued guidance. She loved her family dearly. Paula was a talented crafter. She taught many the love of crafting. She was an active member of the Town of Wheatland Senior Center and stayed connected with her friends from Faun Lake. She loved visits from her family and visiting when able. And her weekly Darlene drop-off day.

Her family wants to express our gratitude to the Town of Wheatland Senior Center, Companion Care of Rochester, Inc (CCOR)., UR Medicine Home Care Hospice Team, and Aurora House Comfort Care Home for supporting Paula in her final weeks.

Family and friends are invited to call from 10 AM – 12 PM on Friday, March 6th, 2026 at Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc. (3325 Winton Road South, Rochester, NY 14623), with a memorial service to follow at 12 PM. Donations in Paula's memory may be directed to Aurora House Comfort Care Home in Spencerport.

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Upcoming Events

Mar

6

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc.

3325 Winton Road South, Rochester, NY 14623

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Mar

6

Memorial service

12:00 p.m.

Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc.

3325 Winton Road South, Rochester, NY 14623

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels