Obituary published on Legacy.com by Honquest Family Funeral Home with Crematory - Loves Park on Feb. 17, 2026.
Deacon Phil E. Abel, 78, of Roscoe, passed away peacefully on February 15, 2026, surrounded by the love of his family. He was born June 9, 1947, in Belvidere to Paul E. and Evelyn F. (Holt) Abel.
Deacon Phil was raised on a family farm in Belvidere - an upbringing he cherished deeply and spoke of with pride throughout his life. Those early years instilled in him a strong work ethic, a sense of responsibility, and unwavering family values that became the foundation of the man he would become. He married the love of his life, Marie F. Ryan, and together they shared 45 wonderful years of marriage built on faith, devotion, and partnership.
Deacon Phil dedicated most of his professional life to Ingersoll Cutting Tool, where he was known for his reliability and commitment. He also served his community as a Reserve Officer with the Sheriff's Departments of Boone County and Winnebago County, reflecting his lifelong desire to protect and serve others.
Ordained as a deacon 25 years ago, Deacon Phil's faith was central to his life and identity. He was a devoted member of St. Bridget Catholic Church, where he faithfully served his parish community in countless ways. He led the church's food pantry ministry for many years, continuing to coordinate and support its mission even after his health prevented him from being there in person. Helping others was never just something Deacon Phil did - it was who he was.
Above all, Deacon Phil was the steadfast protector and heart of his family. He found great joy in participating in the wedding Masses of his daughter and grandson, and he was honored to baptize many of his grandchildren - sacred moments he treasured deeply. His life was defined by generosity, compassion, and quiet strength.
Deacon Phil E. Abel will be remembered as a loving husband, father, grandfather, and servant of faith whose kindness and dedication touched countless lives. He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.
Survived by his wife, Marie (Ryan) Abel; daughter, Kim (Mark) Loberg; grandchildren, Todd (Felicia) Winder, Kevin (Tricia) Loberg, and Kenneth (Bailey) Loberg; 9 great-grandchildren; brothers, Steven (Susan) Abel and David (Audrey) Abel; several nieces and nephews. Preceded in death by his parents, Paul and Evelyn Abel.
A visitation will be held on Thursday, February 19th, 2026, at Honquest Family Funeral Home – Mulford Chapel, 4311 N. Mulford Rd.
Loves Park, IL, 61111, from 5:00 PM until the time of the rosary at 7:30 PM. A funeral Mass will be held on Friday, February 20th, 2026, at St. Bridget Catholic Church, 600 Clifford Ave.
Loves Park, IL, 61111, at 10:00 AM, with a visitation at 9:00 AM until the time of Mass. Private family burial will immediately follow at Calvary Catholic Cemetery.
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