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Edouard Nzambimana
October 18, 2025
Ross and Nata welcomed me to Saint James during my very first days in the United States. Ross went out of his way to help me settle in, even providing me with furniture and everything I needed to feel at home. Their family opened their home and hearts to me, sharing their coffee table, kindness, and warmth-always thoughtful of my own family the time they were still in Burundi.
I will never forget Ross´s words: "Let´s keep each other in prayers."
Ross, you will always be remembered as family-like parents to me here in the USA.
Gabriel and Joy Eke & family
October 18, 2025
In Loving Memory of Deacon Ross
On behalf of the Eke Family and the African community @ St. James, we extend our heartfelt condolences to his wife and the entire family.
Deacon Ross faithfully served at St. James Catholic Church on 39tg & Troost Avenue for many years. His dedication, humility, and love for God touched countless lives within the church and beyond.
His missionary work reached far and wide and blessing many in Togo, Nigeria, and across West Africa, as well as in Mexico. Through his faithful service and generosity, he became a true vessel of God´s love.
He will be deeply missed by our family, the members of St. James, and all who had the privilege of knowing him.
May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may God continue to comfort his wife and family.
With love and prayers,
Gabriel & Joy Eke and family
Anonymous
October 17, 2025
Ross was such a model of love and a steady reminder of Christ's presence in our lives. He fought the good fight every day I knew him, and I am lucky to have met such an example of the life we all strive for, rooted in care for our neighbors and the recognition of the sacred in the prosaic.
George Noonan
October 17, 2025
Ross was a true servant leader who cared deeply for people in so many ways. I was fortunate to work with him on a diocesan level for twenty years. He was a hard worker with a very good sense of humor. He will be missed. Nata, you and your family are in my prayers.
Kenneth Lee Rowden Sr
October 17, 2025
My brother Philip this is Kenneth and Kay Rowden it was really a pleasure knowing you also your wife and family as well you will truly be missed. I really liked the times when we got together for a HOA dinners with our community we had a good time talking with each other about different things especially some kind words you said as some of the events. You made me laugh at different things that we talked about one of them was at Tim's Pizza that I rather not say about some of the bags that was on the floor lol. We all know that you are in a better place with our heavenly father in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ we're going to miss you my brother and your wife is in good hands with this community see you soon brother love you as well.
Rev. Patrick Rush
October 17, 2025
Deacon Ross was a good and faithful servant of the Church of Kansas City-St. Joseph. Trusting in God's love, he kept his gentleness, patience and good humor to the end. May he rest in peace.
Father Patrick Rush
Sister Michele Morek
October 17, 2025
I have many happy memories of Saint James, and Ross was one of the real stars! Prayers of thanksgiving in his memory, and condolences to his family and friends..
John and Diane Deadwyler
October 17, 2025
We have fond memories of Ross at St. Marks with our sons. Deepest sympathy to his family. He was a wonderful friend.
Buster Hodges
October 16, 2025
Ross was an angel on earth, he was as pure and saintly as they come. He was a tremendous mentor and friend and cared about everyone. He will be truly be missed and has left a legacy of being a kind person and god loving.
Sarah Sommerkamp
October 16, 2025
Ross and Nata welcomed me to their coffee club when I was a new member at St. James Catholic Church! He will be missed.
Marilyn Schaeffer
October 16, 2025
I will so miss knowing Ross is no longer on the planet. When I started working at the Chanery (again) in 2004, the diaconate was one of the offices I was assigned. Ross's guidance and friendship, kindness and wisdom are gifts I cherish and try to pass on. My condolences to Renata and family on their loss.
Linda Clifford
October 15, 2025
Ross was a great friend to Tim and I when we first joined St Mark's. I was a new convert to the Catholic church and Ross provided great wisdom and guidance. He baptized both of my children.
Kathy Helton
October 15, 2025
Ross was one special man and a fantastic neighbor. He will be missed by all who knew him. Condolences to his wife and family. Kathy Helton
Donna Simon
October 14, 2025
Ross was a visionary who also rolled up his sleeves and did the work of planting justice and welcome. It is rare to find such gifts in one person, but Ross was a singular gift to the church, his family, and to the Troost Corridor. He made the world better, and was always happy b to give the credit to someone else. I am honored to have known him and we were all blessed by his presence.
Dave Malanowski
October 14, 2025
Ross was a wonderful and faithful filled minister/deacon and a true gentleman. RIP.
Dave Malanowski
Deacon Justin McMenamy
October 14, 2025
Nata and Family - - Please accept my condolences. Praise God for Deacon Ross answering the call to serve the Church - - first as a lay person, then as a Deacon. We are forever grateful for the service Ross gave us. He (with Nata's support), used his many gifts, talents and abilities as a good and faithful servant - - they enriched and increased the faith in so many countless number of people. I was ordained in the class behind him . There was a bonding within those early classes as the deacon ministries were still developing. Then Deacon Ross was appointed Director of the Deacon Program - - and he did a wonderful job. There are many cherished memories from our little deacon & wives group gatherings to continuing ed and retreat weekends. Thank you Deacon Ross and Nata for giving so much to all of us. Deacon Justin McMenamy
Carolyn Wood
October 14, 2025
So many happy memories going back to Kirksville,MO. Was privileged to have Ross at Brian,s ordination. My condolences to all the family.
Carolyn wood
Fr James Healy
October 14, 2025
Ross was a wonderful minister and Deacon. He was of enormous help to me as the pastor of St Mark's in Independence Missouri. His service and his example touched many.
My prayers are with Nata and his family.
Fr James Healy.
Randall Roche
October 14, 2025
Ross has been a faithful friend since we first met as Jesuit Novices in 1955. We shared many laughs and deep conversations through our years of study at Gonzaga. His joy and whole-hearted faith continued right on through his years with the Air Force, his wonderful marriage and family-raising with Nata, always and everywhere a witness to God's love through his Diaconal ministry and any good work that caught his attention.
Ross was and is a gift and gracious "work of God."
Deacon Paul Muller
October 14, 2025
Renata,
I offer my condolences, to you and your family. I am sorry I will not be able to vest and participate at his funeral Mass. I will be on a plane at that time. Please know I will hold you in my prayers during this time of sorrow.
Fr. Tom Ludwig
October 14, 2025
My prayers of Thanksgiving for the outstanding service Dcn. Ross gave to the Diocese of Kc-St. Joseph. His gifts and talents have benefitted more people than any of us will ever know both here and abroad. Condolences to Renata, and to your children and all your family. I will offer a Mass for Ross and for all of you to help you cope with the loss of this dedicated servant. Fr. Tom Ludwig
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