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Suzanne Prunier
August 2, 2025
I met Phil through his wife Mary at social occasions. I was immediately taken by his warmth and smile and eye contact. I knew of his brilliance from others and understood quickly his admiration, love and respect for his wife Mary. They were a real and enduring presence in the lives of many. Their devotion to Stanford and Mary´s parents was a joy to observe.
I am so happy that their marriage produced so many devoted children and grandchildren.
Together they have made a tangible positive difference in our country and world.
May Phil rest in peace.
Vicki Huyck Knight
July 17, 2025
Phil wasn't just a wonderful man. He was a very generous, kind big brother. He walked me home everyday from school. He undoubtably had better things to do in high school than walk to my elementary school, but there he was every day. He sent gifts from college and Europe. I'm pretty sure I still have the fancy camera from Germany. He arranged many trips for the whole family to visit in Bronxville and Greenwich. And we all have wonderful memories from Twilight Park. He did everything he could for our parents, despite being 3000 miles away. He helped me grieve when both our parents died within a year of each other.
I am glad he lived to meet and enjoy his 5 grandchildren. I know how much he wanted to be a grandfather. He even got to see Pete get married! It was a full, fun and valuable life. You will be missed by many. Love you big bro.
Michelle Knight
July 14, 2025
That was a beautiful tribute Aunt Mary. He was also a wonderful uncle, and I have so many memories of him singing us funny songs when we were little. Love to all of you!
Mary Ellen Scarborough
July 14, 2025
And all with a terrific sense of humor!
Sally and Steve Schroeder
July 14, 2025
Phil had so much to give to the world. We will miss him, and send our sympathies to you, Mary, and your 3 children. With love, Sally and Steve
Dr Robert Drewes
July 13, 2025
A fine gentleman and friend
Bob and Gail Drewes
judith donahue
July 13, 2025
A beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul. The world is a poorer place without him, I will always treasure our friendship. My sympathy and love to Mary, Peter, Jon, and Laura,
Judy Donahue
Dick Schulze
July 13, 2025
Mary, Laura, Pete and Jon:
Phil was everything that was said in the obituary. As his widow and children, you have much to be proud of, and to embody in the remainder of your lives! He will be sorely missed by all who knew him!
My condolences on your loss!
Margaret and Bill Slattery
July 13, 2025
Bill and I will treasure the memory of this amazing man who delighted us with his stories and clever wit. He is greatly missed.
John Miller
July 13, 2025
Wonderful, happy memories spanning seven decades of shared adventures - from Ram's Head musicals and Stanford cheering, the Berlin Wall, Cow Palace '64, Brooklyn Heights / Jon & Probably Uncle Johnny / Poconos / 50th / Laura & Bucknell / Florida - with profound gratitude. 1000 Thanks, Phil, John
Kathryn Adams
July 13, 2025
A perfect obituary
I always asked Phil to slow down because his wit was so fast and I didn´t want to miss anything!
What a treasure and what wonderful memories so many people will have of him
Much love Kathryn
Kathy Gray
July 13, 2025
That was simply beautiful and perfect and captured Phil to a T.
We all loved him, treasured him as a friend, and miss him greatly.
Kathy and Donald Gray
Peter & Mel Bennett
July 13, 2025
Dear Mary, Reverend Jon, Peter, Laura and children,
Such an immense loss for you all, and our world at large. Phil was graciousness personified. A role model of dignity, fun, kindness and purpose. We were so lucky to have dined, tennis-ed, worshiped and communed with him at Twilight Park. Our deepest sympathies and love are with you.
Jane Young
July 12, 2025
All that was said in the obituary was absolutely true. A rare individual who learning was primary and his natural humor was a joy.
Scott Rodmam
July 10, 2025
To Phil´s family,
What a great joy it was to work a few offices away from Phil for a couple of years. He was a consummate gentleman, brilliant in so many ways, a mentor to many, and someone with a deep wisdom, character, humor, and intellect. I lost touch with Phil after the TCW days, but he left a deep and lasting impression and example. I can only imagine the life lessons and fun that he has left with those lucky kids and grandkids with and those are the amazing examples that guide our lives going forward.
Here´s to a wonderful man who will always be remembered with tremendous fondness and a memory of that smile and laugh. And, I cannot miss mentioning my love of the Costco comment! Phil is smiling in heaven at the wonderful tribute that you wrote.
Scott Rodman
Jonas Bell Pasht
July 10, 2025
What an extraordinary man, what an incredible legacy.
Beth Kashatus Hampson
July 9, 2025
Mrs Huyck, John, Peter and Laura. I´m sending condolences on the loss of the lovely Mr Huyck.
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