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Philip Michael Huyck

1940 - 2025

Philip Michael Huyck obituary, 1940-2025, Greenwich, CT

BORN

1940

DIED

2025

Philip Huyck Obituary

Philip Michael Huyck
06/01/2025

Philip Michael Huyck, cherished husband, father and grandfather, whose intellect was matched by his quick wit and generous heart, died on June 1, 2025.

"A professor at heart, natural storyteller, voracious reader, thoughtful listener, eternal optimist, Greek coin-collector, and master of puns, whose enthusiasm for history, music, poetry and literature was only surpassed by his profound love for his family. The 'google before google', Phil found his greatest joy sharing his passion for life with his admiring wife, devoted children, and adoring grandchildren."

Phil was born on May 21, 1940, to Martin and Marie Huyck in Battle Creek, Michigan, and moved two years later to Burbank, California. As a child, he played tennis, immersed himself in books, and spent his free time working alongside his parents at their Huyck Enterprises shop. Phil put himself through Stanford University, where he was elected head yell leader and enjoyed comedy roles in theater productions.

Upon graduation, Phil moved to Bonn, Germany, to write for TIME magazine. Here, he covered the construction of the Berlin Wall in 1961 and put his love of other cultures and languages to good use. In 1963, Phil returned to the United States and attended Stanford Law School, where he was on the Stanford Law Review and (most importantly) where he met Mary Hilton. Six months later, Mary and Phil married in an intimate wedding, with a reception at her parents' garden on the Stanford campus. Phil later described this as "the best part of my three years at Stanford Law School."

After law school (class of 1966), Mary and Phil moved to Paris when Phil received a Fulbright fellowship. They spent a year enjoying France and then moved to Brooklyn Heights, NY, where Phil spent his first few years as a corporate attorney at Cravath, Swaine & Moore in NYC. During this time, the Council on Foreign Relations awarded Phil a grant to study for a year in Brazil, where he again engaged fully in a new culture. Once back in the States, Phil left Cravath to follow new opportunities, developing hydro and co-generation power plants throughout North and South America.

In the late 1970s, Phil and Mary left Brooklyn Heights for Bronxville, NY, and then on to Greenwich, CT, where they raised their three children, Jonathan, Peter and Laura. The dream of developing clean energy projects became Phil's life's mission, both on his own and with investment firms Credit Suisse First Boston and Trust Company of the West. Phil summarized his career best in the Stanford 50th reunion magazine, writing, "Professional: journalist, lawyer, investment banker, fund manager, energy project developer (focused on alternative energy), and currently chairman of a company developing an innovative fuel cell technology. As Mary says, I have to keep doing it until I get it right."

And he did. Of all of his projects and passions, nothing meant more to Phil than his family. He shared 62 years with Mary, the love of his life, and they devoted themselves to their children, and then their five grandchildren, Lillian, Charlotte, Abigail, Ben and Nate. Well into his 80s, Phil was an integral part of their daily lives. From adventures at the Bronx Zoo to water parks, where "Boppa" was first on the ride alongside his admiring grandkids. He told them bedtime stories, read book after book, taught them history and guitar and supported every interest they had. As one of his grandkids put it, "He was my best friend, who taught me how to see people and life with a spark of appreciation and kindness."

Over the years, Phil enjoyed playing tennis, summers at Twilight Park in the Catskills (where his ashes will be buried alongside those of his parents), memberships and friendships at the Council on Foreign Relations, the University Club, the Belle Haven Club and, most of all, his Costco membership.

His humor, smile, laugh, bushy eyebrows, deep intellect and compassion were inimitable. Phil left everyone smiling and with a tidbit of trivia they could take with them - from ancient history and philosophy to the origin of their name. We are better (and wiser) for knowing him.

"Phil - from the ancient Greek root meaning loving or fond-of; loyalty, strength, approachability, warmth, curiosity and love."
Published by Greenwich Time on Jul. 11, 2025.

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Suzanne Prunier

August 2, 2025

I met Phil through his wife Mary at social occasions. I was immediately taken by his warmth and smile and eye contact. I knew of his brilliance from others and understood quickly his admiration, love and respect for his wife Mary. They were a real and enduring presence in the lives of many. Their devotion to Stanford and Mary´s parents was a joy to observe.
I am so happy that their marriage produced so many devoted children and grandchildren.
Together they have made a tangible positive difference in our country and world.
May Phil rest in peace.

Vicki Huyck Knight

July 17, 2025

Phil wasn't just a wonderful man. He was a very generous, kind big brother. He walked me home everyday from school. He undoubtably had better things to do in high school than walk to my elementary school, but there he was every day. He sent gifts from college and Europe. I'm pretty sure I still have the fancy camera from Germany. He arranged many trips for the whole family to visit in Bronxville and Greenwich. And we all have wonderful memories from Twilight Park. He did everything he could for our parents, despite being 3000 miles away. He helped me grieve when both our parents died within a year of each other.

I am glad he lived to meet and enjoy his 5 grandchildren. I know how much he wanted to be a grandfather. He even got to see Pete get married! It was a full, fun and valuable life. You will be missed by many. Love you big bro.

Michelle Knight

July 14, 2025

That was a beautiful tribute Aunt Mary. He was also a wonderful uncle, and I have so many memories of him singing us funny songs when we were little. Love to all of you!

Mary Ellen Scarborough

July 14, 2025

And all with a terrific sense of humor!

Sally and Steve Schroeder

July 14, 2025

Phil had so much to give to the world. We will miss him, and send our sympathies to you, Mary, and your 3 children. With love, Sally and Steve

Dr Robert Drewes

July 13, 2025

A fine gentleman and friend
Bob and Gail Drewes

judith donahue

July 13, 2025

A beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul. The world is a poorer place without him, I will always treasure our friendship. My sympathy and love to Mary, Peter, Jon, and Laura,
Judy Donahue

Dick Schulze

July 13, 2025

Mary, Laura, Pete and Jon:

Phil was everything that was said in the obituary. As his widow and children, you have much to be proud of, and to embody in the remainder of your lives! He will be sorely missed by all who knew him!

My condolences on your loss!

Margaret and Bill Slattery

July 13, 2025

Bill and I will treasure the memory of this amazing man who delighted us with his stories and clever wit. He is greatly missed.

John Miller

July 13, 2025

Wonderful, happy memories spanning seven decades of shared adventures - from Ram's Head musicals and Stanford cheering, the Berlin Wall, Cow Palace '64, Brooklyn Heights / Jon & Probably Uncle Johnny / Poconos / 50th / Laura & Bucknell / Florida - with profound gratitude. 1000 Thanks, Phil, John

Kathryn Adams

July 13, 2025

A perfect obituary
I always asked Phil to slow down because his wit was so fast and I didn´t want to miss anything!
What a treasure and what wonderful memories so many people will have of him
Much love Kathryn

Kathy Gray

July 13, 2025

That was simply beautiful and perfect and captured Phil to a T.
We all loved him, treasured him as a friend, and miss him greatly.
Kathy and Donald Gray

Peter & Mel Bennett

July 13, 2025

Dear Mary, Reverend Jon, Peter, Laura and children,
Such an immense loss for you all, and our world at large. Phil was graciousness personified. A role model of dignity, fun, kindness and purpose. We were so lucky to have dined, tennis-ed, worshiped and communed with him at Twilight Park. Our deepest sympathies and love are with you.

Jane Young

July 12, 2025

All that was said in the obituary was absolutely true. A rare individual who learning was primary and his natural humor was a joy.

Scott Rodmam

July 10, 2025

To Phil´s family,
What a great joy it was to work a few offices away from Phil for a couple of years. He was a consummate gentleman, brilliant in so many ways, a mentor to many, and someone with a deep wisdom, character, humor, and intellect. I lost touch with Phil after the TCW days, but he left a deep and lasting impression and example. I can only imagine the life lessons and fun that he has left with those lucky kids and grandkids with and those are the amazing examples that guide our lives going forward.

Here´s to a wonderful man who will always be remembered with tremendous fondness and a memory of that smile and laugh. And, I cannot miss mentioning my love of the Costco comment! Phil is smiling in heaven at the wonderful tribute that you wrote.

Scott Rodman

Jonas Bell Pasht

July 10, 2025

What an extraordinary man, what an incredible legacy.

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Beth Kashatus Hampson

July 9, 2025

Mrs Huyck, John, Peter and Laura. I´m sending condolences on the loss of the lovely Mr Huyck.

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