Phillip K. "Phil" Doherty

Phillip K. "Phil" Doherty obituary, of Medford, formerly of Stoneham

Phillip K. "Phil" Doherty

Phillip "Phil" Doherty Obituary

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Phillip K. Doherty of Medford passed away unexpectedly on Friday, November 20, 2020. He was 54 years of age. Phil is the beloved son of the late Charles Doherty and Phyllis (Hill) Doherty. Phil was the younger brother to Charles and his wife Barbara, Glen, and Paula Zavrl and her husband Frank. Devoted uncle to Laura, Mark, and Julie and her fiancé Dan. He is also survived by his best pal, Claude. Born in Stoneham on 6/6/66, a numerical curiosity he enjoyed, he was extremely gregarious and was a caring friend to so many. He passed away surrounded by friends. He started with an incredibly large circle of close friends as a very young child and continued to expand that circle his entire life. He meticulously nurtured every friendship. While he entered many rooms as a stranger, he never left as one. All who knew Phil had a loyal friend in him and many more friends because of him. Phil's quick wit and nonsensical jibber jabber brought smiles and laughter to all that knew him, talented enough for stand-up but too anxious to take the stage. Many have said he should be followed with a camera: his life and antics would have made great reality TV. Always quick to offer himself as the butt of the joke, he was both large and larger than life. There were few conspiracy theories he didn't believe in: hopefully he can finally find his answers to Bigfoot, UFOs, Aliens, who shot JFK, the Bilderberg group, etc. Phil loved music but had no musical talent. Of course this fact never stopped him from arrhythmically drumming on whatever was handy and imposing his horrible voice over whatever double platinum star was playing. His rendition of Joni Mitchell's "California" was truly special, even more so when sung with his equally musically gifted sister. He loved going to concerts and meeting the musicians in his roles at Live Nation and concert security. He never fully appreciated his value to everyone around him and how he was the glue that bonded so many together. He immediately identified the core love in every person he met. Once he found it, he lit a candle in there that will burn for infinity. He is irreplaceable and will be sorely missed. Family and friends are cordially invited to gather and share memories with Phil's family on Tuesday, Nov. 24th from 4-8pm in the Barile Family Funeral Home, 482 Main St. (RT 28) STONEHAM. Per MA regulations, face coverings must be worn while at the Funeral Home and not more than 40% capacity will be allowed in the Funeral Home at one time. Please honor Phil by making donations in his memory to the West End House by visiting westendhouse.org. For more information, www.facebook.com/BarileFamilyFuneralHome.com

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December 7, 2020

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November 26, 2020

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November 25, 2020

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Martha McGivney-Foss

December 7, 2020

While searching for my Aunt's obituary I happened upon the Obituary of Phil Doherty. I've never met him, I don't know him...but your beautiful, loving words make me feel his warmth and good nature. I'm sorry for your loss and the loss to the world! He sounds like a wonderful human!❤

Timothy Lekites

November 26, 2020

Loved phil

Jerry Schimmel

November 25, 2020

I really struggled with writing something about my/our friend Phil. We had a unique relationship that developed over the years working together doing shows at a variety of venues. At times I felt like an older brother giving him guidance and making sure he was on task. "Oh yes, there were those times that Phil was a patron at some of these big shows and as you can imagine he was "special" fan. Well it's no surprise that Phil was a very special guy that made a lasting impression on all of us. There are so many adjectives that can describe his personality and the way he interacted with people. He is the most social guy I have ever ever known, but he also had a serious and sincere side to him that I got to appreciate. It's so sad to lose someone as special as Phil. I will always remember the overly gregarious Phil, who truly enjoyed company and social interaction, and made me and many others laugh so many times. RIP my friend. We will see you at the next show!

Bill Hanley

November 24, 2020

You will be missed my friend

Deirdre Kelly

November 24, 2020

My deepest sympathies. Phil was a devoted employee, a caring coworker, and a character to work with, and he will be deeply missed

Joanna Santaskas

November 24, 2020

I worked with Phil at CHA for many years. I will say he was one of the nicest caring individual who would give his last dollar if you needed it. He was funnier than most comedians i know. Keep smiling Phil and RIP

The Muolo's

November 24, 2020

So sorry for your loss. Phil was a unique individual. Always had a smile on his face. We coached Phil in Little League. We talked about the first time we met Phil as a 10 year old. He showed up for our first practice wearing his army fatigue hat. Rest in peace my friend. You will never be forgotten.

Jeannine Smallcomb Studer

November 24, 2020

I met Phil during my childhood summers at Bear Hill Golf Club and remained friends throughout our youth. Last fall attending our 35th high school reunion, Phil picked up our friendship as though I saw him yesterday. We had a ton a laughs and I'm happy I had that night of reminiscing with him. He will be missed.

Joseph Capello

November 24, 2020

Shine on you crazy diamond. no regrets.. Hell No. . Tell Trager I miss him

Vinny Stratoti

November 24, 2020

Phil, always a smile, always a story. You will be greatly missed. God Bless

Laura Sternberger

November 24, 2020

Phil was a burst of loving laughter and energy wherever he went. He connected with the humanity in all the people he met-a rare gift. And although I didn't see him often, he inspired me personally and professionally-to be open, to laugh and cry at the same time, and to remember we are all better when we are in this together.

Eunice Rodrigues

November 24, 2020

I will miss Phil. He was one of my greatest & best friend.

abby ellin

November 24, 2020

"Phil hounded me relentlessly about a gray shawl I wore (almost) every day in Utah. He was so vocal about how awful it was that I finally tossed it out...into his room. Sadly, he found it and I believe let Claude use it as a bed. Or worse. He promised to buy me a new one--cashmere, of course--which I am still awaiting. In the meantime, I have videos of him trying to rappel down a mountain, which has given me enormous pleasure and make me howl just thinking about it. There's also the famous one of him standing in his room as water gushed out of the ceiling, slowly flooding the place. It was horrifying and hilarious, and Phil spun it into gold (and a suite). I loved being politically incorrect with him. I loved trying to one up each other. But mostly, I loved watching him love. So happy that we were in touch a few weeks ago, even if the election didn't turn out the way he wanted. Heaven has gotten an angel and a devil all in one. And we have lost one of the greatest people I've ever met."

Marybeth Dacey

November 23, 2020

So sorry for your loss! He was a true friend and our family will miss him and his humor so much, still cant believe he is gone♥

Jo Emerald

November 23, 2020

Phil, you have meant to much to so many people. You embraced everyone you met with compassion and love. Your gift of laughter lightened so many hearts and sometimes it was just that smirking grin. You had a way of entering the soul and leaving a deep impression. I will so truly miss your calls every holiday and want you to know how much love you have stirred in my heart over the years. Our days on SAU were precious and all the years after that. I will miss you dearly. My heart goes out to your family you loved so much. I know you will crack up RBG and all the kind souls who are greeting you in your new place of being. Thank you, Phil, for who you were here in your time on with us on this Earth. Thank you for making us laugh and feeling so special. ❤

Nancy Molitor

November 23, 2020

Phil and I became instant friends. We laughed and cried about anything and nothing. He entrusted the care of Claude on many occasions and seeing them both lit up my day. I was fortunate to speak at length with Phil recently, catching up on our lives, our dogs, making plans for a reunion sometime next year. We laughed and cried and promised to keep in touch. The world needs more Phils, not less. Tear it up Phil!

Elizabeth Farnham

November 23, 2020

I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Phil's passing. He was truly the funniest person that I have ever met and brought joy to all he knew. Heaven will never be the same. Sending Paula, Frank, Julie, Mark and Laura our love.

Colleen Connor

November 23, 2020

I met Phil at Sheepfold in the Spring of 2015 and my life took an unexpected turn because of it. He really did make friends wherever he went and truly did not recognize how much he meant to so many. He made me laugh so hard my stomach would hurt the next day. There is a lot less laughter in the world without him. I will miss him and remember him always. Colleen

Richard Rose

November 23, 2020

Godspeed, Phil

Steve Shannon

November 23, 2020

Sincere condolences to Paula and all of Phil's family, loved ones, and close friends.

Lynda Norman Damzig

November 23, 2020

I've known Phil my whole life! It is with great sadness for family and friends to reckon with this loss. We started our friendship in kindergarten, social circles with neighbors The Robertson's, my cousin Scott Rielly, then later everyone beyond Evergreen and North St. So glad he attended Class of 84 SHS reunion last year. Laughs by the boatload!
Will miss him always!

Karen Bergeron Curran

November 23, 2020

This made me laugh and cry at the same time and captures what it was like to know and love Phil - he was truly one of a kind. I will remember him always as one of the funniest and most caring people I had the good fortune to know and share many laughs with. My deepest sympathy to his dear family and close friends, he will be missed always.

Gary Schultz

November 23, 2020

Devastated to hear of Phil's early departure, I wasn't lucky enough to see him very often but when I did he would treat me and my family like best friends. He was easy to find in a crowd, just look for the people with the biggest smiles and loudest laughter and he would be there responsible for it. Truly a exceptional soul. The world has suffered a great loss to the heavens. Very sad I will not get to see and experience another dose of "funny Phil" as he is saved in my contacts. My condolences to his family and friends.

Michael Eve

November 23, 2020

Phil was a sweetheart to live above. Although I've only known him for a little over a year and a half now, he always had a smile on his face and was the best dad Claude could have had.

Brian and Kris Carter

November 23, 2020

We are so grateful to have had the chance to meet "Uncle Phil". Although we didn't know him very long, it felt like we knew him a lifetime the moment we met him. We are so very sorry for all of you.

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