Phyllis Lorayne Boling Kaufman

Phyllis Lorayne Boling Kaufman obituary, Boise, ID

Phyllis Lorayne Boling Kaufman

Phyllis Boling Kaufman Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Summers Funeral Home - Ustick Chapel - Meridian on Oct. 16, 2025.

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In loving memory, Phyllis Lorayne Boling Kaufman passed peacefully October 7,2025.
Phyllis was born December 12, 1932 in Laurel, Nebraska. Logging opportunities led her family to North Idaho and the Bolings resided in Kootenai outside Sandpoint before moving to the city and graduating a mighty Sandpoint Bulldog cheerleader for her future husband Pat Kaufman, and Vandals George Eidam and Jerry Kramer (NFL HOF). She attended the University of Idaho before KIDS became her career.
Mom and Dad brought future Borah Lions Lisa, Mark, Kori, Mike, Steve, and Rich to Boise in 1968 and Dad taught and coached at Boise High. Mom was not on "the sidelines" for long as she found a way to incredibly enroll not at a young age in Boise Police Academy starting her career with Boise Police and ACSD. She attained the rank of Deputy Ada County Sheriff and helped pioneer the newly-created Neighborhood Watch program.
A unique way to look at Mom's/Nana's life is through the eyes of her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Here is an excerpt:
Nana lived 92 incredible years, and what a life she made of them. She was a trailblazer before her time: a Deputy of ACSD and a proud pioneer of Neighborhood Watch, and the kind of woman who somehow convinced Grandpa Pat to dress up in the McGruff costume.
She was the matriarch of our big, loud, loving family that grew into generations of cousins and great grandchildren who will all carry a piece of her with us. Nana was a loyal Vandal supporter who aged with beauty, grace, and vibrance.
Her laughter and her strength and her heart will stay with us always.
We will keep watching out for each other, honor you with every breath we take and each Blue Moon or Black Russian we drink.
We love you Nana.

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Diane Walstrom

October 20, 2025

I am sorry to hear of Phyllis' passing. She was such a wonderful lady. We attended the Police Academy together and I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have made it without her! She was 20 years older than me and I had a hard time keeping up! I'm glad you have such great memories of a great lady!!

Myrna Harris

October 19, 2025

Myrna Harris

October 19, 2025

Myrna Harris

October 19, 2025

Myrna Harris

October 19, 2025

I am so sorry to hear of Phyllis' passing. I worked with Phyllis for many years. I've included several photos of Phyllis over the years of her career with the Ada County Sheriff's Office. Phyllis was a pioneer and a legend. She will be truly missed.

Selma Kaufman

October 16, 2025

Dear Nana,
You were loved and appreciated by so many people. You brought so much joy and happiness into our lives. To many of us, you were a source of wisdom, love, and endless stories that filled our hearts. Stories we will never forget and always cherish. We will always remember your kindness, compassion and empathy in every interaction we shared. Even though you may no longer be with us in body, your spirit will continue to bloom in our hearts, reminding us of the beauty and joy of life. As we say goodbye to you, let us carry forward the lessons you imparted and the values you embodied. Thank you for loving us with all your heart. Thank you for making us welcome every time we would get together.
Thank you for your smile and hugs.
Steve, Laurie, Ryan, Shawn, PJ, Rachel, Selma and your great grandkids: Bella, Vinny, GG, Kennedy, Aria and Deen

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