Ralph Matthew Montero

Ralph  Matthew Montero obituary, Milltown, NJ

Ralph Matthew Montero

Ralph Matthew Montero Obituary

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Ralph M. Montero, of Milltown, passed away Friday, March 18, 2022 at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital in New Brunswick. He lived 54 beautiful years. Born and raised in New Brunswick, he lived in North Brunswick before moving to Milltown in 1994. He received his BA from the School of Visual Arts, N.Y.C. To know Matt is to love him. If he was in the room, there was always laughter. His competitive spirit playing, watching sports, and knowledge of sports trivia, brought a fun filled feeling to countless gatherings. His creative attributes were shared with others during work and at home, small reminders that showed his talents. Matt's talents were admired by many, his children's art projects, made to perfection, his love for art evident throughout his home and was a bond that he shared with his family. His renowned bear hugs embodied his beautiful nature. Matthew's family was the heart and soul of his very existence. The comfort of home was his sanctuary, his children the pride of his life and his wife the best friend that he cherished. All together their relationship was that of love, joy and laughter. Inside jokes that only the four could understand. Sharing so much of his life with his mother-in-law, Martha and brother in-law Hector, his cousins, especially his kindred spirits, Jacqui, Marty, Gus, and beloved Terri. His generous heart with family was evident with the relaxed way that Matt could be himself in their company. He's predeceased by his parents Rene and Sharon (Johnson) Montero. Surviving is his beloved wife of 29 years, Tatiana Montero and his children whom he referred to as his "best friends", Natasha and Christian Montero of Milltown. A private celebration of his life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his memory to St. Judes Children's Hospital, or Feed America. You may sign the online condolence "guestbook" at www.crabiel.com

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April 21, 2022

Norma I Maldonado posted to the memorial.

April 4, 2022

Regina Valerio-Nunez posted to the memorial.

March 27, 2022

David Coleman posted to the memorial.

Norma I Maldonado

April 21, 2022

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Regina Valerio-Nunez

April 4, 2022

"We do not have to rely on memories to recapture the spirit of those we have loved and lost they live within our souls in some perfect sanctuary which even death cannot destroy."
Nan Witcomb
I never met you but I knew you were special the way Tatiana spoke of you. She told me you were known as San Mateó because of your kindness and big heart. I know where ever you are, you'll continue to shine your light and look after your family.

David Oviedo Oviedo

March 23, 2022

Tatiana, words cannot express the sympathy and frustration over the loss of your husband I hope and pray that you and your family can move on . I love you and if there is anything that I can do to ease your pain please let me know. God Bless ❤

David Coleman

March 27, 2022

Tatiana,
Kimberly and our entire family send our deepest sympathy to you and your family for the sudden loss of Matthew. Our words cannot fully express the sorrow we felt after learning about the death of your beloved husband. May you ever treasure the wonderful times you had with Matthew and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family ❤

Nancy Scocco

March 27, 2022

So sorry for your loss. Matthew was such a kind sole and such a happy person. He was the kind of person who always made you feel like family. He will always be watching over you and your family ❤

Lenny & Stacy Coleman

March 26, 2022

So sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts an prayers for the family.

Joanne Xi

March 26, 2022

I am so sorry to hear of this unexpected loss. Please accept my deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Lisa Drumbore

March 26, 2022

A beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul. Condolences to the entire family. Remember the “Cardinal Messenger” - A Cardinal is a messenger to tell you that we’re never far apart. My spirit will live on forever in your heart. So when you see a Cardinal, you will know it’s true. I am never far away, I am always here with you.

Kim Chiu

March 25, 2022

I am very sorry for you loss. My deepest condolences, and I my thoughts and prayers to the entire family. He will be misssed.

Jinette Amparo

March 25, 2022

"That man is a success- who leaves the world better than he found it; who has never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had." This quote describes exactly the person he was, caring and over protective. Always uplifting everyone around you, filling everyone with laughter with your jokes. We will miss you, rest in peace dear friend. Sending my dearest prayers and condoleces to the family.

Jinette Amparo

March 25, 2022

"That man is a success- who leaves the world better than he found it; who has never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had". This describes exactly the kind and over protective person you was, always uplifting everyone. Always putting a smile in everyone face with you silly jokes. We will miss you, rest in peace my dear friend. My dearest prayers and condoleces to the family.

Christina Parekh

March 25, 2022

A Beautiful soul gone way too soon. We will all miss you at work. May your soul rest in peace and our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.

Christina Parekh(coworker)

Marlene Ortega

March 25, 2022

To have know such a great person family person was a great honor! We were the only Cubans at work and you stood out because if your huge personality. RIP great Warrior

Vanessa Villahermosa

March 24, 2022

Sending so much love ❤

Michelle Gorda

March 24, 2022

Tatiana, Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. Matt was one of the happiest and kind Men that I'm truly grateful to have called my friend. He will be missed so sorry for your loss!

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