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Rhonda Burnim
January 6, 2026
One of the BEST! Ray will be sorely missed.
First, he was a colleague and then became a dear friend. He listened, was a witty storyteller and loved to help out when needed. A giant curmudgeon who had a hilarious sense of humor and most importantly was a loving and devoted husband and father. Marilyn and Alex may his memory be a blessing and sending caring thoughts. Rhonda Burnim
Eva Tucker
December 31, 2025
Marilyn,
I am so very sorry to hear of Rays passing. I wanted to reach out and express my sincere condolences to you and Alex.
Although many years have passed, I still remember the kindness that you and showed to Daniel and I always. That generosity and warmth have always stayed with me, and I am truly grateful for it.
Please know that you are in my thoughts during this time of loss. I hope you are surrounded by love, comfort, and support, and that memories of happier times bring you some peace.
Much love, Eva
Clare Couture
December 22, 2025
Dear Marilyn,
So sorry to hear of Ray´s passing. We spent time together at Bethesda with his parents and brothers. I always enjoyed his company.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Clare Johnson Couture
Dave and Barb Johnson
December 22, 2025
We are deeply saddened by Ray´s passing. He was a great guy with a wicked sense of humor, which delighted everyone, especially during family get-togethers. Ray and Marilyn´s annual family Christmas Eve parties were always special and memorable, especially when he was Santa for the little ones.
Dave remembers Ray fondly from those wonderful Shady Brady´s days in the 70´s, where his Hamden Fire Department softball team hosted our opponents after each home game.
We, our children and grandchildren offer our heartfelt condolences to Marilyn and Alex. May God comfort them at this very sad time.
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Michael J Bonassar
December 21, 2025
Ray was such a great neighbor to all the neighborhood kids. He was always funny and kind to us and a genuinely good person.
Joe
December 21, 2025
Marilyn- I´m so sorry for your loss. Both of my boys have always said that Winding Brook was the best place ever to grow up, and Ray was always at the heart of our old neighborhood.
Ed Hoefer
December 21, 2025
Marilyn
I am so sorry for your loss. Ray was a great guy and he will be missed. May your fond memories comfort you at this difficult time.
Deepest condolences
Ed Hoefer
Wendy Clarke Pfrenger
December 20, 2025
My siblings and I (and my oldest kiddo) will never forget the magic Ray made wherever he was - family picnics, pool parties, Christmas smorgasbords - he always had us laughing. Wishing you comfort and peace, Marilyn and Alex. May his memory be ever a blessing. Love, Wendy and Andy
Dolores & Phil Piscitelli
December 20, 2025
Marilyn and Alex,
So sorry to hear of Ray´s passing. He was such a wonderful guy, and the world is a sadder place without him.
May the love he had for both of you and your memories comfort you.
Take care,
Dolores and Phil Piscitelli


Susan Scholler
December 19, 2025
Ray was one of my most favorite humans. He, and he excellent dance skills, will be missed. Sending love <3
Jim Shields
December 19, 2025
Condolences to Ray's family knew him from Shady's and Weeds, nice gentleman
Susan Byrne
December 19, 2025
Marilyn,
Cheers to the good old days, may he rest in peace. Lots of laughs and good times with you and Ray. Yale Tailgating, bus trips to the races on Good Fridays, shenanigans at Shady Brady´s and dinners at your house. Sending a hug.
Hoping all your memories can help you through this.
My condolences.
Sue Santillo Byrne
Gail kelleher
December 19, 2025
So sorry for your great loss. Sending love and hugs and hoping you feel better soon
Xo
Gail and dennis
Carolyn Kelly
December 19, 2025
Oh Marilyn, I am so sorry to hear about Ray´s passing! You two were the quintessential couple and you must be utterly heartbroken! I have been sending prayers your way for quite a while now. My condolences to Alex and the rest of your family and friends. We had many fun times together and even more laughs! My thoughts are with you now.
My sincere sympathy,
Carolyn Kelly
Karen Nash
December 18, 2025
My heartfelt condolences to Ray´s Family and Friends.
He was a wonderful man.
Rest in peace, Love Karen
Jo Anne LaChance
December 18, 2025
Sending sincere condolences to you and your loved ones Marilyn. I'm glad to have met Ray and always enjoyed his personality.
Barbara Snyder
December 18, 2025
So very sorry for your loss Marilyn, you´re in our thoughts and prayers!
Love
Nick& Barbara Snyder
Jayne Heller Smits
December 18, 2025
"Raymie" one of the dearest, kindest, sweetest & funniest guys I have been lucky enough to be dear friends with since homeroom at Hamden High School. To be with Ray & his gorgeous, most loving wife Marilyn - wonderful, warm & cozy dinners at their home and in particular spending New Year´s Eve with our special group of friends, will be treasured memories to me forever. Rest in Peace Raymie, I will miss you so, love you always
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