Rhoda Ray Neal

Rhoda Ray Neal obituary, Owego, NY

Rhoda Ray Neal

Rhoda Neal Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Estey, Munroe & Fahey Funeral Home - Owego on Oct. 18, 2025.

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Rhoda R. Neal, 63, of Apalachin, New York, passed away surrounded by her family, Friday, October 17, 2025, after a courageous battle with cancer. Rhoda was predeceased by her mother, Loretta "Tootsie" Cruz. She is survived by her husband of 23 years, Fred Neal; four children, Sarah and Marty Truesdail Alan Kanazawich, Fred Neal, Jr., Travis and Kristin Neal; several grandchildren and great-grandchildren; her stepfather, Diego Cruz; three brothers, Freddy Scott, David Scott, Mike Scott; numerous nieces, nephews and extended family members. Rhoda worked 25 years as the Administrative Assistant for the Vice President of Academic Affairs at SUNY Broome. Rhoda will be remembered for her heart of gold and her way of always putting other's needs ahead of hers. Funeral Services will be held on Tuesday, October 28, 2025, at 10:00 a.m. at the Estey, Munroe & Fahey Funeral Home, 15 Park Street, Owego, NY. The family will receive friends Monday, October 27th from 4:00 to 6 p.m. at the funeral home.

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Fred Neal husband

October 20, 2025

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Jeff

October 20, 2025

Dear Lord,
Bless your servant Rhoda and give her rest where there is no pain or sorrow and granting her all the wonderful things bestowed to those who love you. We will miss her and pray we'll see each other again at the 2nd coming. Sending prayers of peace and strength to the whole family.
with love, Jeff

Lauren

October 19, 2025

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Rhoda was a truly remarkable woman whose strength and grace touched everyone around her. Even in her most difficult days, she managed to smile and share her warmth with others, a reflection of her extraordinary willpower and beautiful spirit. She raised her daughter Sarah to be just like her: kind, compassionate, and full of love. Though Rhoda will be deeply missed, her legacy will live on through Sarah and the countless lives she inspired. May your family find peace and comfort during this difficult time.

Katherine Bacon

October 19, 2025

Rhoda to me represented the college in so many ways baking & greeting us all for birthdays and going away parties and always being there for everyone no matter what the question was. I am so saddened that we have lost her and considered her lovely face and sweet demeanor to be something I will hold dear forever. My deepest condolences to her family.

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Denise Abrams

October 18, 2025

I had the pleasure of working with Rhoda for 25 years. I will miss our talks. Her great big heart and beautiful smile always made me feel special. I hope all of your great memories can bring you comfort at this difficult time.

Cindy Alexander

October 18, 2025

Sarah and family I am so sorry for your loss. I never met your mom but if you are anything like her I would have loved her. Take care.

Fred Neal

October 18, 2025

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