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Richard Desilets Obituary
Born in Danielson, CT, he was the son of the late Florent and Irene (Cloutier) Desilets. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his children, Richard H. Desilets Jr of Cumberland; Daniel M. Desilets and his wife Stephanie of Dighton, MA; and Tara Lynn Desilets of Bristol. He was the grandfather of Daniel E. Desilets and Michaela Desilets and brother of Robert (Donna) Desilets and the late Anne Scallin.
Mr. Desilets was a graduate of Barrington High School and received his Bachelor's Degree from URI. His parents were the original founders of the Desilets Nursing Home where Richard worked for decades as the nursing home administrator.
Richard's faith sustained him throughout his life. He trusted and accepted God's will and lived accordingly. As a lifelong musician and vocalist, Rick shared his talents in many venues including his first group called the Ascots (70's), Midnight Sun and Dusty Grey (80's), the Classifieds (90's) and lastly as a member of our Lady of Mount Carmel Church choir. He was inducted into the RI Music Hall of Fame 2015 and was an avid sports fan. His greatest joy came from his devotion to his family most especially his grandchildren.
Calling hours will be held, Saturday, June 3rd, 10:30 AM at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, 141 State Street, Bristol with a Mass of Christian Burial at 11 AM. Burial will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: HopeHealth Hospice, 1085 North Main Street, Providence RI 02904.
Arrangements are with the George C. Lima Home.
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Ricky Spencet
March 19, 2024
My favorite memory of Ricky -driving me, his brother Bobby and some other Barrington Boys Choir members to rehearsal. We were listening to the radio and The Partridge Family came on with `I think I love you´, and us young´uns started to sing along. Rick just shook his head in disgust at such bubble-gum music, but he was a good guy and let us finish the song. I´m so sorry to hear of his passing.
Ricky Spencer, Class of `77
Ted Medbury
July 13, 2023
My sincerest condolences to Rick's family and to all those who were closest to him.
Rick and I were band mates in The Ascots, along with Pete Mayhew, Mark Vinbury and my brother Vin Medbury. Many of our original rehearsals were in the basement of Rick's parents' house and I remember Rick's Mom as being very supportive of the band in it's earliest stages. Having been in the Barrington Boys Choir, Rick was a natural choice for lead singer. The band went on to having incredible experiences, including being taken to New York City to record our 45 rpm records. We knew all of the local radio D.J.'s. We opened for many major acts including The Who, Herman's Hermits, The Young Rascals and The Beach Boys. We were all having a blast, enjoying our small time celebrity and dreaming of the Big Time! In 2015, we had the honor of being inducted into the Rhode Island Music Hall of Fame and actually performed for many of our old fans who showed up to cheer us on. Rock on, my friend. You are sorely missed.
Michelle Omar
May 31, 2023
My condolences to Richard´s family. I´m sad to hear if his passing. I was lucky enough to had worked with Richard he was a great administrator and boss always had a smile. He will be missed. Sincerely Michelle Omar/Athena
Susan A. Lehman
May 30, 2023
What a wonderful man Rick was; he was a mentor & like a 2nd father to my son, Adam. He was a true gentleman, he will be missed by so many.
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Nicole Tartaglione
May 26, 2023
So very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are heading your way. Nicole Tartaglione, Genesis Healthcare
Kim Burns
May 26, 2023
My deepest condolences to the Desilets family. Rick was such a kind gentleman. I will miss his singing and guitar playing. Rest in peace, Rick.
Kim Cullinane Burns
Carol Ramsey Minardi
May 25, 2023
I´m very sorry for your loss. I worked at the Nursing home for many years, and Rick was always kind and friendly to the staff. Sending prayers to his family.
Natalie
May 25, 2023
Condolences for the Desilet's family. Rick was a really nice guy. Worked for him in the early 80's at the nursing home, never had a bad thing to say. Always saw him at mass, true to form a nod and a smile. May he rest in peace.
Donna Read Collins
May 25, 2023
I graduated same year 67. We called him Ricky. He was friendly and always smiling. Deepest condolences
Kerrie schoenbucher
May 25, 2023
My condolences and thoughts of sorrow are with verna and her family at this time he will live on in your hearts and memories Kerrie
Patti Reed RN
May 25, 2023
My deepest sympathy. Mr Rick has touched so many lives that this loss is being felt throughout Rhode Island. He was a wonderful person to work with. He will be missed.
He will always be with us in our hearts and memories.
Patti Reed RN
Steve Calenda
May 24, 2023
I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember working at the nursing home and everytime we would go play golf. Rick was an excellent golfer and his love for baseball will not be forgotten. My condolences and prayers to the family.
Alisa
May 24, 2023
My thoughts and prayers go out to Verna , family and close friends . May you be comforted by knowing the love you shared will never end and isn´t bound to earth .
Richard Be with God and heavenly angels Be pure love and light
Kevin Logan
May 24, 2023
My condolences to the Desilets family.
I grew up with Rick in Barrington, spending countless hours in his backyard at Maxfield Court playing pitch and catch. He was the catcher, I the pitcher, dreams of the Red Sox playing out on the lawn. He was a good friend and a hood man. He will be missed.
Kevin Logan
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