Richard Wayne Rutherford

Richard Wayne Rutherford obituary, Silver Spring, MD

Richard Wayne Rutherford

Richard Rutherford Obituary

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Obituary of Richard Wayne Rutherford
Richard W. Rutherford of Washington, DC, died on Friday, September 2, 2022. Rick was born on April 24, 1946, in Evanston, IL. He was the son of Wayne Royal Rutherford and Berenice Fleischmann Rutherford. The family lived in Chappaqua, NY, during Rick's early years and later in Baltimore, MD.
Rick cared deeply about his family, his community, and his world. Throughout his life, he worked tirelessly as an agent for change to improve the world around him. As a young adult during the 60s and 70s, Rick was active in social change across multiple fronts¬-anti-racism, anti-war activities, feminism, political change, and what grew into the concept of diversity, equity, and inclusion. When he met Jane Kubale, Rick fell deeply in love, and she was a source of inspiration and motivation for him. They married in November 1981 and settled on Capitol Hill, where they raised their children.
Professionally, Rick was at the forefront of a behavioral science discipline that melded his social change experience with organizational change. He was part of a community of practitioners that helped develop "systems thinking"-diagnosing root causes and designing interventions that would increase the likelihood of true systemic change. The Episcopal Training Network, the National Training Labs (NTL), the OD Network, and American University were some of the forums and communities that were pivotal in Rick's career and benefited from his knowledge and expertise as others looked to develop their own careers.
As Rick's career evolved, he led numerous large change projects in both the public and private sectors. Early in his career, work at the bipartisan Congressional Clearinghouse on the Future brought him to Washington, DC. He joined the Management Analysis Company, where his initial project addressed the problem of nuclear facility operators falling asleep on the job. Later, at Tenera Consulting, he led the Organization Effectiveness Group. He co-founded Savant Development, ran his own consulting practice, and finally joined the Boeing Company's Organization Effectiveness Group. Wherever Rick found himself, he worked collaboratively with people at all levels of an organization. His style was unique, engaging, irreverent, and full of caring and humor. His work changed organizations, organization practices, and people's lives.
As profound as Rick's professional accomplishments are, they are eclipsed by his love and commitment to Jane and his children. Although he spent many years traveling for most of the week, his children remember him for his deep involvement in their lives, from soccer games to Scouting trips, from horseback riding to house projects, to family adventures and family dinners. As a partner, a parent, and a grandparent, Rick was there. He embodied the ability to be present; if you're going to be there, really be there.
Rick also surrounded himself with a tight-knit community of friends: deep childhood friendships that strengthened throughout his lifetime; relationships at St. Mark's Episcopal Church on Capitol Hill; and decades-long and new relationships that were filled with travel or food or baseball games, music and theater, fishing, golf, photography, or some other mischief. To meet Rick was to have a dear friend.
Rick cared deeply about, and was committed to, making a better world, and he was able to accomplish this through his innate ability to understand people and by living his values. He was generous to his family and his friends, philanthropic in his community, and committed to driving change more broadly. Throughout his life, Rick sought out injustice, conflict, and friction and worked to change them for the better. While we will all miss Rick deeply, we can take comfort in the many positive changes he inspired in our community and in each of
Survivors include his wife, Jane and children Emily Barczak (Matt), Baltimore, MD; Theo Rutherford (Chloe Fedyna), Washington, DC; Grandchildren Eliza Barczak; Alexander Barczak, both of Baltimore, MD. His siblings David Rutherford (Debbie); Donna Diboll (Mike); John Rutherford (Jenny), all of Florida and extended family – Chris Kubale (mother-in-law) of Danville KY; Travis and Margaret Kubale (brother in-law and sister-in-law), Cincinnati OH; and several nieces, nephews, and grand-nieces and nephews and a host of friends abs colleagues, Rick had many friends and colleagues. A memorial service will be held on Sunday, October 9, at 1 p.m., St. Mark's Episcopal Church at 301 A Street, SE, Washington, DC. Please wear a mask.
Memorials in his name please consider either of the following:
The Genderson Fund at Capitol Hill Village, 1355 E Street, SE, Washington, DC 20003 or
Everyone Home DC, 415 2nd Street, NE, 3rd Floor, Washington, DC 20002
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September 1, 2023

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David Hoffberger

September 1, 2023

I first laid eyes on Rick on a lacrosse field where he was Towson Senior High's goalie. Not only was he tough on the field, he was tenacious, yet fair in everything that that he did. There is a hole that he left in the collective hearts of those who knew him that goes straight through the universe. To this, he would say that "you can leave that hole as it is, or you can use it as a means to support the greater good."

Shalom,
David

John Long

October 11, 2022

John Long

October 10, 2022

I have so many fond memories of Rick when he worked with our team at ComEd Fossil Leadership and at Constellation Power Generation. I started as an OD skeptic and ended embracing The Process.we traveled among my power plants and enjoyed `side trips´ such as to the West Ridge coal mine, 5000 ft below a mountain in East Carbon, UT and a few golf courses around the country. We shared a few debates and a thousand fun times. I will never forget everything I learned from Rick and what I have tried my best to pass on to others. He is missed.

Sonia Conly

September 25, 2022

Rick's work lives on through the many organizations that were blessed by his work. His presence lives on in his friends and family that continue to experience his love and wisdom.

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Thia Hamilton

September 20, 2022

I was honored, warmed, and delighted to know Rick through our shared membership and involvement at St. Mark's on Capitol Hill. Rick always had something thought-provoking to contribute during Sermon Seminar. His smile and laugh were contagious, and his eyes really expressed his understanding and appreciation for what mattered to others. I'll miss Rick. Knowing him has been a gift.

David Hoffberger

September 19, 2022

This quote from Theodore Roosevelt capture's Rick's philosophy of life:
"In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing."

I never knew Rick to do nothing.
Rest well, my brother.................

Alan Niebanck

September 18, 2022

I was the informal "class photographer" for Rick's AU/NTL Class #44. Here's is a collage of "faces of Rick".

Shakira Abdul-Ali

September 18, 2022

I am one of Rick's classmates in the American Univ/NTL MS program in Org. Dev. During our first class weekend, I made of point of meeting Rick, because I thought there was no one in the class with a wider gulf of difference between us - me, being an African American Muslim woman from NJ. I thought, "how can I ever find something in common with THIS guy?" Well - it turns out - to the astonishment of both of us - he was my Brother from another mother! I quickly grew to love him dearly, and completely. I feel like a part of me has gone with him. My heart will miss him every time he comes to mind.

Pam Harris

September 14, 2022

I worked with Rick for about 9 yrs at ComEd and a year or so at APAC. Rick was funny, relevant, direct and a real diagnoser of human behavior. When clients would just frustrate me my favorite saying of Ricks was "Pamela, (when he was really serious-then just Pam-you have to laugh at the absurdity of it all". Rest In Peace Rick and thanks for the memories

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