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Rita M. Breton

1945 - 2025

Rita M. Breton obituary, 1945-2025, Gorham, ME

BORN

1945

DIED

2025

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Roan Family Funeral Home - Pembroke

167 Main Street

Pembroke, New Hampshire

Rita Breton Obituary

Rita M. Breton, 79, Gorham, ME; formerly of Biddeford, ME and Allenstown NH, passed away on Monday, January 13, 2025 at the Gorham House after a courageous battle with Alzheimer's disease.

She was born in Manchester, NH on November 10, 1945, daughter of the late Armand and Yvonne (Martel) Menard. Rita grew up in Allenstown in a home built by her uncle and grandfather, each brick made and laid by hand. Rita met the love of her life Ray in grade school and they soon became sweethearts and married in 1964. Rita and Ray brought up their family in this special house and it was always a place to enjoy a conversation or a laugh (or two).

Rita began a successful career as a hairdresser in downtown Suncook and then moved her business to the basement of her home where she found joy in making others feel beautiful. Rita was brilliant at her craft and loved every moment of her career. Her clients loved her not only for her talent but her warm personality and sense of humor. Rita was very involved in her church community and was former president of the Ladies of St. Anne.

Rita and Ray enjoyed making memories at their camp on Suncook Lake in Barnstead. Family and friends were welcome to stop by anytime and while Ray taught anyone who wanted to learn to water ski, Rita always captained the boat. After selling the camp in the late 80's, Rita and Ray enjoyed taking long rides, going to the theater, attending family events and spending time with their grandchildren.

In 2017, due to the progression of Ray's prostate cancer and Rita's Alzheimer's disease, they decided to sell the family home and move to Maine to be closer to family. After Ray's passing in 2018, the family decided that Gorham House would be the best place to care for Rita. For six years she received exceptional care along with support from Compassus Hospice.

Besides her parents, Rita was predeceased by the love of her life, Ray Breton in 2018, and her brother, Ernest Menard.

She is survived by a daughter, Lee Ann Dutremble and her husband Richard of Biddeford, ME, son, Ryan Breton and partner Amanda Merrill of Clarksville, NH, daughter-in-law, Andrea Breton of Milford, NH, one brother, Roger Menard and his wife Jo-Ann of Allenstown, sister-in-law, Celeste Menard of Raymond, NH, five grandchildren: Joshua, Aaron and Renee Dutremble, Nora and Marina Breton as well as numerous nieces nephews and cousins.

Calling hours will be held on Monday, January 20, 2025 from 11AM-1PM at the Roan Family Funeral Home, 167 Main Street, Pembroke, NH. A Memorial service will be held in the funeral home at 1PM. Interment will be held in the spring at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Association. To share a memory or offer a condolence please visit www.roanfamilyfuneral.com

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Published by Union Leader on Jan. 15, 2025.

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Lorette Girard

January 19, 2025

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Sixty five years of memories. Memories that will now help us through these hard times. Let Ray know that when we eventually join you both we will be bringing four roses and pennies.
Condolences to your entire family.
Love
Luc and Lorette

Matthew McSorley

January 18, 2025

Rita was a pillar of the NH Cursillo community, and we mourn her loss. She loved the Lord deeply, and everyone around her. We will pray for her soul, and for her family and friends.

Dorothy Harnois Quiros

January 16, 2025

Rita we will miss all the silly things that you said and did. Your picture is priceless. You now are with Ray. You will be missed Rita

Andrea Michali

January 16, 2025

I met Rita through Cursillo. We had a small group of women that we prayed with once a month. It was a meaningful experience. Eventually she was not able to join us but we continued to pray for her.

Claudette Dachowski

January 16, 2025

Rita was on the Cursillo 237 team on my original weekend and had us smiling and laughing the whole time. A lovely lady who will be missed by all but I´m sure God is now enjoying her great sense of humor. She is with her beloved Ray again. May she rest in peace in the loving arms of her Savior, Jesus. RIP dearest Rita. Claudette Dachowski

Neal Scott

January 16, 2025

To Lee Ann and family, so sorry to learn of your moms passing. She was a very pleasant person who cared about all others... she excelled in her profession as a hair stylest..I will always recall her laughter and smile. May all the wonderful memories of her from the past be a source of healing and comfort you durng this difficult time.

Judy Clark

January 15, 2025

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Fond memories
Judy Clark

Richard Skilly Thibeault

January 15, 2025

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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167 Main Street, Pembroke, NH 03275

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167 Main Street, Pembroke, NH 03275

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