Rita Ysulan Jumawan

Our beloved, Rita Y. Jumawan has laid to rest on April 27, 2024. She was 93. Rita was born to Conception Villarino and Lorenzo Ysulan, on May 22, 1930 in the city of Cadiz, Negros Occidental, Philippines.
It is with profound sorrow and immense love that we mourn the passing of a cherished matriarch, and a beacon of strength and vibrancy. Her life was a testament to the power of resilience, the depth of her empathy, and the unwavering courage she embodied.
Her origins were modest; she often recounted tales of her family's financial struggles, which necessitated her relocation to her aunt's home in a different town to secure free accommodation and meals during her high school years. Such was their hardship that they could not afford graduation attire, leading to her absence from the ceremony. Her dream of pursuing a nursing career posed a significant sacrifice, as it would have meant the discontinuation of her siblings' education. Displaying characteristic boldness, Rita sought a loan from the President of the Sugar Milling Company, her father's employer, to fund her nursing studies. Ever the devoted family member, she upheld her commitment to her siblings, supporting their educational pursuits even as she neared the completion of her own.
She embarked on her nursing journey with the Sugar Milling Company, which in turn financed her education. Driven by her aspiration for a more fulfilling life, she ventured to a neighboring island. There, the camaraderie and aspirations of her fellow nurses spurred her to seek opportunities abroad. In the midst of her fervent pursuit for an Exchange Visitor Nurse role overseas, she encountered the man who would become her cherished partner, describing him as the one who "ignited my life." Their union was soon blessed with the anticipation of their first child, but destiny called her husband to the United States on a scholarship. However, they did not have enough money for both to go abroad. Facing the trials of motherhood solo, she upheld her family, supporting her siblings and in-laws, while shouldering the worry of providing for her home.
Following the birth of her firstborn, she was appointed as an exchange visitor nurse trainee at Albert Einstein Hospital and Medical Center in Philadelphia, U.S.A. Entrusting her infant to the care of her spouse's family, she set off for America. She recounted this period as her most formidable challenge, navigating the complexities of a foreign healthcare system, all while yearning for her child back home. In America, she welcomed her second child, persevering alongside her husband to fulfill their shared aspirations.
In 1971, they returned to the Philippines with their second child. Yet, amidst the nation's political unrest and economic strife, she faced new adversities. Undeterred, she promptly commenced preparations for their next chapter abroad, demonstrating her relentless resolve and dedication to her family's future. She forged a distinguished nursing career, making significant contributions to healthcare facilities across West Virginia and Indianapolis. Her resilience and dedication to her profession were hallmarks of her remarkable journey.
Her liveliness was infectious, her humor priceless, and her presence a joyful embrace that will be dearly missed. She was the heart of her circle, bringing laughter with her humorous stories. Her song was a cherished gift, often shared at cruises, events, and parties upon request, a source of pride and joy. Her love for music extended beyond her own enjoyment, as she delighted in entertaining friends with her voice as well as her family while she cooked and cleaned in the kitchen. Equally, her love for dance was a vibrant expression of her spirit, bringing life to every occasion including the Barangay Club in Indianapolis, where she and her husband kept the Filipino folk-dance tradition alive.
Her life was marked by modesty and prudence, often choosing simplicity for herself. Yet, her generosity knew no bounds, always eager to lend support to others' needs with a gracious and open hand. Her kindness was a constant presence weaving a tapestry of care that enveloped her entire family, extending unwavering financial support not only to her own parents but also contributing to the education, healthcare and other needs of her siblings' and in-laws' and their children. She also maintained a heartfelt connection with her loved ones, cherishing the traditional correspondence of "snail mail," as affectionately termed by one of her grand-nephews. Her generosity extended beyond her family. Her compassion shone brightly as she devotedly visited and prayed with a dear friend in their final days, offering not only her presence but also her assistance with daily care. She was also known to offer financial assistance to friends in times of need, embodying a spirit of kindness and community support that will be fondly remembered.
Her legacy is etched in the lives of her children, whom she raised with fierce dedication. She always taught them to be able to "stand on their own two feet". Her lessons of generosity and perseverance will continue to guide them.
As we bid farewell to this extraordinary woman, we celebrate the joy she brought into our lives. We honor her memory by living out the values she instilled in us and by cherishing the countless memories we forged together. Though she has departed from this earthly realm, her spirit remains an eternal flame in the hearts of all who loved her. We take solace in knowing that her vibrancy will continue to shine through the generations she has touched.
Rita was predeceased by her husband Agustin Jr., her sisters Sarah, Rosario, Celerina, Celestina and brothers Edwardo, Mariano, Manuel, Tobias, Vicente. She is survived by daughters, Maria Florence and Sylvia Ann and a multitude of beloved cousins, nieces, nephews as well as grand-nieces and grand-nephews.