Robert "Bobby" Allen

Robert "Bobby" Allen obituary, Paterson, NJ

Robert "Bobby" Allen

Robert Allen Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Martinez Memorial - Paterson on Mar. 21, 2024.

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To say that Robert "Bobby" Allen lost his battle with cancer would be inaccurate.
Indeed, when Bobby, beloved and surrounded by his immediate family, his much extended firefighting family, and enough friends to fill the stadium of his favored Tottenham Hotspurs, closed out his courageous fight on March 18, he did it his way.
Born in Paterson 1960 and a graduate of Don Bosco Tech in 1978, Bobby was appointed to the Paterson Fire Department on May 18, 1992, and, in the 32 years since, left a mark that will never be forgotten, sharing his wit, wisdom, skills, and so much more with generations of firefighters.
Bobby, a responder on September 11, 2001, and his service to the Paterson Fire Department, as well as to his union, both locally and statewide, will never be forgotten. In a recent presentation from his brother and sister firefighters Bobby was praised for his "friendship, service, and sacrifice" and celebrated for his ability to always keep cool and calm, whether at a fire scene or in the firehouse.
His cool demeanor extended to countless public events where Bobby was often called on to serve as emcee, or impart knowledge, his style one that afforded him the ability to make a joke, sometimes at his own expense, and absorb the laughter, or lack thereof when a one-liner fell flat. No matter the quality of the humor, when Bobby spoke all within earshot listened.
A storyteller at heart, Bobby's ability to weave incredible detail, imagery, and wit into the lore he shared meant that being in his presence would always be a memorable experience.
Bobby's unique style, diplomat like qualities, sense of fairness, and unique ability to extend love to all he came into contact with, made him an ideal labor leader, something he wore as a badge of honor, serving in several positions, including as President, both within FMBA Local 2, and at the state level where his more than a decade of work as the Chairman of the NJFMBA's Legislative Committee helped shape countless pieces of legislation impacting thousands of career firefighters and retirees that may never have known his name but live and work better and safer because of his work.
Survived by his wife Marianne; his parents Paterson Battalion Chief Edward Allen (ret) and Peggy; his brother Christopher and his wife Bonnie; his sisters Lynn and Beth, and her husband Matt; and nephews and nieces Aaron, Allison, Brett, Caitlin, Cameron, Courtney, Ethan, and Jay; Bobby, even in his passing, will to continue to give back to his Paterson Fire Department and union requesting that in lieu of flowers those that want to honor his life well lived do so by donating in his name to the Paterson Firefighters Foundation for the construction of the Paterson Firefighters Memorial Garden.
A funeral mass will be held for Bobby at The Cathedral of St. John the Baptist in Paterson at 10:00 a.m. on Tuesday, March 26.
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Tom Anderson

March 23, 2024

As a classmate of Bobby (DBT Class of 78), in my mind, decades later, I see his face and hear his voice and laughter.

RIP my DBT Brother.

Joseph Damato

March 21, 2024

The best friend anyone could ever have.

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