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Robert J. Arvay

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Robert J. Arvay obituary, 1935-2026, Toledo, OH

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1935

DIED

2026

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May 15, 2026

11:00 a.m.

Willow Cemetery

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Robert Arvay Obituary

Robert J. Arvay

05/15/1935 - 01/21/2026

It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Robert John Arvay, who departed this life peacefully on January 21, 2026, at the age of 90. Born on May 15, 1935, in Toledo, Ohio, Robert lived a life filled with love, laughter, and unwavering dedication to his family and community.

Robert was the proud owner of Arvay's County Pride, a retail grocery store that served the Napoleon, Ohio, area for many years. His commitment to quality and service was a reflection of his character, as he valued the connections he made with his customers and the friendships he fostered throughout the years.

He leaves behind a legacy of warmth and compassion, cherished by his beloved family. Robert is survived by his children, Christopher (Janice) Arvay, Laurie (Thomas Roth) Arvay; and sister, Barbara (Paul) Czerwinski. He is also remembered fondly by his daughter-in-law and wife of Robert's late son, Jeffrey, Heidi Jaccaud; grandchildren, Chad (Danielle) Elling, Christa (Todd) Rudasill, Adelle (Andrew) Minerich, Hillary (Jared) Conley, Charles Storch, Taylor Roth, Eden Arvay, Elvis Arvay, and Audrey Arvay; as well as his 15 great-grandchildren, who brought immense joy to his life. Robert was preceded in death by his wife, Frances Arvay; and parents, Lindy Arvay and Helen Fodor.

Graveside service for both Robert and his wife, Frances, will be held on May 15, 2026, at 11:00 a.m., at Willow Cemetery in Oregon, Ohio, where family and friends will gather to honor and celebrate their lives. Robert John Arvay will be deeply missed but forever remembered. His kindness, strength, and love will continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to know him.

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Published by The Blade on Jan. 25, 2026.

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Graveside service

11:00 a.m.

Willow Cemetery

Oregon, OH 43616

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Debra Betts

January 23, 2026

Jan, Chris and family-Im so very sorry for your loss. It seems that no matter our ages we are never truly ready to say good bye to our parents. I'll always remember Bob from the grocery store; he was such a nice guy!

Sue Burgwald

January 22, 2026

I am so sorry for your loss. Love and prayers, Sue Burgwald

Jana Huffman-Von Deylen

January 22, 2026

Bob was aways the "N" on the compass, the anchor of the ship, the "firma" to the terra, which one might think would blow away at any moment...
A man like Bob Arvay is a rare find, he, and his kind, are, and will be deeply missed.
My sincere condolences, Chris, Laurie, and family´s

Adelle

January 22, 2026

Adelle

January 22, 2026

Best Papa!

ANDREW MINERICH

January 22, 2026

I always have a great memory of Bob and Fran when they came to visit our house in Dayton before we bought it. We have a photo of the two of them standing out front and I think Bob is standing there with his hands on his hips looking around.

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