Robert Cantara

Robert Cantara obituary

Robert Cantara

Robert Cantara Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home from Oct. 28 to Oct. 29, 2025.
ALEXANDRIA, NH - Robert "Bob" Cantara, 86, of Fairview Lane, passed away peacefully at home on Monday, October 20, 2025, surrounded by his loving family.

Bob was born on August 27, 1939, in Barre, Vermont, the son of Philip and Madlyn (Lock) Cantara. He grew up with a strong work ethic, a generous spirit, and a deep sense of service - values that guided him throughout his life.

Bob was predeceased by his beloved wife of 59 years, Gwendolyn Cantara, whom he married on December 23, 1959. He was also predeceased by his parents, and by his brothers Philip and Richard Cantara.

He is lovingly remembered by his twin sister, Roberta Thibeault of Chichester, NH, and his brother, Alfred "Fred" Cantara of Hill, NH. Bob's greatest pride was his family. He is survived by his children: Christopher Cantara and his wife Karen of Alexandria, NH; Teresa Clark of Swanzey, NH; Stephan Cantara and his wife Robin of Gilsum, NH; and Melody Duquette of Alexandria, NH.

Bob also leaves behind his cherished grandchildren - Andrew Cantara and his wife Marissa, Jayme Cantara, Becky Welch and her husband Corey, Shannon Clark, Justin Cantara, Rebecca Reed, and Robert Duquette IV - as well as seven great-grandchildren, two great-great-grandchildren, and several nieces and nephews.

Throughout his life, Bob wore many hats, but all reflected his dedication to hard work, community, and family. He served with the Swanzey Police Department, including as Dog Constable, and volunteered with the local Fire Department. Always ready to lend a helping hand, Bob was the kind of neighbor everyone could count on.

He also enjoyed the arts and spent a few wonderful years performing in The Old Homestead play at the Potash Bowl in Swanzey - a local tradition that brought him much joy and laughter.

After moving his family to Alexandria, Bob and his brother Fred opened Cantara's Getty Station and Autobody in Bristol, NH. The business later became Cantara & Sons Auto Body in Alexandria, where Bob proudly worked alongside his son Steve, grandson Robbie, and other family members. His mechanical skills, patience, and love for cars made a lasting impression on everyone he worked with.

From 1993 to 2002, Bob served as a Selectman for the Town of Alexandria, helping guide the community he loved so much.

Bob will be remembered for his humor, kindness, and unwavering devotion to his family. He lived a life full of purpose, laughter, and love - leaving behind a legacy of service and compassion that will live on through those who knew him.

A celebration of Bob's life will be held at a later date.

Arrangements are being handled by Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home & Cremation Services / 603Cremations.com, 164 Pleasant Street, Laconia, NH. For more information or to share memories of Bob, please visit www.wilkinsonbeane.com.

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Carol Mercon

October 30, 2025

Bob (Dad) as I always called you. You were the kindest man ever. So many times I would call and say dad my car is making a noise. Can I stop by after work and you always said yes you always found a way to fix my car when Matt my son crashed his car you pieced it back together you will be sorely missed. Thank you Bob for everything that you have done for me and my family. Love you.

Jessica Munsey

October 30, 2025

Hey grandpa , I didn't get to say goodbye but my heart is with you always . Thank you for everything you did to make the lives of everyone you encountered better . I love you

Amanda Alfonso

October 29, 2025

Mel and Art-

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Sending love and strength. May his memory be a blessing.
Love,
Amanda and Alex

Donna and gary

October 29, 2025

So sorry for your loss of your grampa..he was like a grampa to everyone. Carter and Kylie loved him very much and he loved them...always at the birthdayshe´s such a good family role model for other men to follow..and like a dad worked for his family right up till the end...he will still be keeping an eye on his family for sure....god gained the best

Bill Acker Rena Jason

October 29, 2025

Rena and I are so glad we met you and shared thanksgiving's with you , you Steve and Robin make us feel like family . Rest in peace we will have a toast to you .

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