Robert Paul Kay, Jr., 90, of Cincinnati passed away December 29, 2025. He was born August 5, 1935 in New Richmond, OH, the son of the late Robert Paul Sr. and Eva Kay.
Beloved husband of Elaine (nee Heis) Kay. Loving father of Michael (Pamela) Kay and Daniel (Sherry) Kay. Cherished grandfather of Amanda (John) Benza, Brittany (Zach) Chalupa, Courtney (Justin) Hoover, Mason Combs, Megan (Drew) Foster and great grandfather of Michael, Joanna, Aubrey, Clara, Beau, Avery, Adelyn, Dillon and one on the way. Dear brother of the late Georgia Hittel.
Robert proudly served in the United States Army for two years (1955/1956) stationed at Fort Richardson, Alaska. After serving in the military, he worked in heavy construction for over 40 years; 32 years with J.T. Lohrer Construction as a superintendent and was a member of the Masonic Lodge for 65 years. He was a licensed private pilot, a Scout Leader, and enjoyed camping, boating, cars, and traveling. Most of all, Robert enjoyed spending time with his sons, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren; and Robert's greatest joy was being a loving husband to Elaine for over 67 years.
Funeral service will be held on Monday, January 5, 2026, 11 AM at T.P. White & Sons Funeral Home (2050 Beechmont Ave.) where visitation will be held from 10 AM until the time of service.
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